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to think “food noise” is becoming one of those phrases people hide behind rather than actually dealing with their eating habits?

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foodywoody · 27/04/2026 16:34

I keep hearing people say they have “food noise” and that’s why they’re constantly thinking about food or snacking, but isn’t that just hunger, boredom, habit, or emotional eating dressed up in a nicer label? I’m not saying it’s not real for some people, especially where there are medical issues involved, but the way it’s thrown around now makes it sound like no one has any control over it at all.

It just feels like another way to remove any personal responsibility. Not everything needs a label. Sometimes it’s just about eating properly and getting enough protein and actually addressing emotional eating.

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AnotherName2025 · 28/04/2026 18:06

OneBadKitty · 28/04/2026 17:54

Can't see the link with being uneducated and overweight to be honest. Leaving school at 16 and working in a minimum wage job does not lead to life of obesity. There was a time when barely anyone was educated other than the very rich. The working classes weren't obese back then! It was the rich that were obese with their indulgent lifestyle and it was desireable to be large. Now we can all afford calorie rich foods which are readily available at relatively low prices. Healthy foods are still cheaper than takeout and convenience foods so I don't buy the poverty excuse either.

How you eat and cook is largely based on how you were brought up. My parents both left school at 14, DM was a cleaner and DF did an apprenticeship in engineering and worked in a factory. Neither are overweight. My DM has always cooked a healthy meal every night for us and my DF grows his own veg and they're both in their 80s. I've never been overweight, I don't give in to every craving I have for cake and biscuits because I was brought up to eat moderately. Greed was discouraged in my family.

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Oh right, gosh if only us greedy, lazy, fat people were like you.

I'll take my fat over your attitude.

I just can't even be bothered to explain how wrong you are again, feel free to read the thread.

EDIT: to add, as you haven't actually read the thread I thought I should point out that I'm NOT lazy or greedy (but I am fat). I eat a low carb vegetarian diet, I don't eat a lot & I do exercise. But I'm still fat. I have to ignore the brass band food noise otherwise I'd be the size of a double decker bus instead of 'just' fat. I'm not in WLI (I could be as I'm diabetic & over the BMI threshold to qualify) I haven't wanted to use them, but to shut this fucking brass band up I'm tempted (even if I didn't lose weigh, which I'm not sure I would)

sunflowersandsunsets · 28/04/2026 18:12

Aluna · 28/04/2026 17:58

I hear you. I think you’re very normal.

Certainly people think about food more than others - foodies for example are people who enjoy cooking, eating, eating out etc. But they’re not all overweight. Some people let that take over their life and some people keep it in check.

My father has always loved his food. After breakfast he’s asking what’s for lunch, after lunch what’s for supper. But yet he’s never been overweight because he thinks health and fitness is important so he keeps everything in balance.

Yes, my dad is the same. He LOVES food and loves fancy restaurants with multi-course menus, but he's also hugely focused on his health and won't allow himself to indulge in things even though I know he would love to.

I think seeing his own dad in poor health in his sixties scared him a little, in all honesty.

JayJayj · 28/04/2026 18:17

I’m not even overweight (any more, recently lost just over a stone) I have constant food noise.

You obviously don’t have it. Which is great so probably hard to understand it.

Aluna · 28/04/2026 18:24

sunflowersandsunsets · 28/04/2026 18:12

Yes, my dad is the same. He LOVES food and loves fancy restaurants with multi-course menus, but he's also hugely focused on his health and won't allow himself to indulge in things even though I know he would love to.

I think seeing his own dad in poor health in his sixties scared him a little, in all honesty.

I do think people of older generations grew up with more emphasis on balance and restraint as a general principle. Or perhaps in your father’s case he saw someone who over-indulged and what the consequences were.

sunflowersandsunsets · 28/04/2026 18:27

Aluna · 28/04/2026 18:24

I do think people of older generations grew up with more emphasis on balance and restraint as a general principle. Or perhaps in your father’s case he saw someone who over-indulged and what the consequences were.

I think it was definitely the latter as he was definitely a lot more relaxed about what he ate/drank when he was younger.

His dad lived to his 90's but sadly had a lot of health issues including obesity and two types of cancer - I honestly think he just saw his 50's looming and didn't want to have the same retirement his dad did.

Mummadeze · 28/04/2026 18:34

I couldn’t agree less with your OP. I have struggled with intrusive obsessional thoughts about food all my life. You could liken it to OCD. Once I get a craving, my inner voice will not stop tormenting me until I give in. Obviously I have tried everything under the sun to ignore it. Even hypnosis. And then I found Mounjaro and all at once, all that ‘noise’ was switched off. I could eat three meals a day and not think about food in between, like a normal person! I don’t see how you can therefore say it doesn’t exist, because it was there and then medicine cured it, so it is clearly an illness!

NeedSomeHeadspace · 28/04/2026 19:34

Never heard of “food noise”. Jeez! Another thing for neurotics and whatever label people try and give themselves to harp on about. Can society not get a grip and realise there is some self-accountability to be had, and it’s not a thing that just happens through no fault of your own. There is enough food education out there for everyone.

Malasana · 28/04/2026 19:43

NeedSomeHeadspace · 28/04/2026 19:34

Never heard of “food noise”. Jeez! Another thing for neurotics and whatever label people try and give themselves to harp on about. Can society not get a grip and realise there is some self-accountability to be had, and it’s not a thing that just happens through no fault of your own. There is enough food education out there for everyone.

Ah you’ve let yourself down so much with this post.
You just totally dismissed something you’ve never heard of and so presumably know nothing about yet confidently pronounce it to be just a label used to dodge accountability.
Extraordinarily arrogant.

Aluna · 28/04/2026 19:54

Mummadeze · 28/04/2026 18:34

I couldn’t agree less with your OP. I have struggled with intrusive obsessional thoughts about food all my life. You could liken it to OCD. Once I get a craving, my inner voice will not stop tormenting me until I give in. Obviously I have tried everything under the sun to ignore it. Even hypnosis. And then I found Mounjaro and all at once, all that ‘noise’ was switched off. I could eat three meals a day and not think about food in between, like a normal person! I don’t see how you can therefore say it doesn’t exist, because it was there and then medicine cured it, so it is clearly an illness!

She doesn’t say it doesn’t exist, if you read the OP.

To me obsessive thoughts and cravings about food - is ED and addiction territory, even if this was never diagnosed.

Ignoring addictions never works, you actually have to treat them.

cucumber4745 · 28/04/2026 20:00

Eating disorders and especially anorexia is the deadliest mental illness. Hope that answers your question!

ANiceBigCupOfTea · 28/04/2026 20:26

Just because we don't understand something doesn't make it so.
I have Dyspraxia and I'm sure you can't understand how it feels to have limited depth and distance perception, balance and motor skills issues and zero internal map while seemingly looking like a perfectly normal adult, but it doesn't mean it's not the case for me.

Iatethelastbiscuit · 28/04/2026 20:36

@Doingtheboxerbeat being overweight won’t come for them anymore though now WLIs are on the scene!

pouletvous · 28/04/2026 21:14

emotional eating or food noise. Same
thing

how do yoy suggest i deal with this?

NoisyBuilder · 28/04/2026 21:53

Aluna · 28/04/2026 17:48

You’re not listening to all the slim people who say they have experienced food noise, with some posters saying they experience it all the time. They’re just making different decisions: to over-ride it, to overcome it.

WLIs aren’t magic they simply put you off food. See how easy it is to stop thinking about food? If you can do it with a jab you can do it with your mind.

This whole idea that you’re at the mercy of your “treacherous body” is just victim mentality. Food noise is not about hunger. It’s just about wanting something that tastes nice.

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Stand down @Aluna 'treacherous body' was a silly dramatic phrase for light-hearted effect 😂

I'm relaying MY experience of food compulsion as someone who has tried really fucking hard, controlled and said no A LOT and maintained an okay weight for a prolonged period. The only difference between you & I is that I can try WLI and you can't (legally) so I thought maybe my perspective bridged the gap a bit on this thread.

If it's important to your self esteem to tell me you think have superior self control go for it. I have no desire to make you feel bad.

Aluna · 28/04/2026 22:16

Surely the main difference is that I don’t need WLIs.

It’s not really about willpower it’s more about a decision about how you want to live.

hahabahbag · 28/04/2026 22:19

@Vroomfondleswaistcoat. I think you have just proved the point, you control what you eat. The expression didn’t exist until drugs companies wanted to sell a solution. It’s marketing speak.

self control is something we all need across our lives and seems lacking today. I’m overweight, it’s because i eat too much and know it, not lack of self control just not wanting to diet

fetchacloth · 28/04/2026 22:26

Malasana · 27/04/2026 16:43

It seems to be about to turn into that.

It's looking that way isn't it, sadly.

Roco11 · 28/04/2026 22:29

I never understood what was meant by 'food noise' until I really struggled to lose weight. I thought it was just me being greedy. I started on mounjaro, whilst on the lowest dose it suppressed my appetite so I genuinely never felt hungry. After 2 months I started hearing the food noise, a constant thought of food, confusing food noise for hunger. This helped to clarify in my mind what was food noise and what was genuine hunger. I think its definitely psychological. Whilst on mounjaro i've tried to re-educate myself and break sugar 'addiction', healthier eating, drinking more water etc in prep for stopping mounjaro.

Usernamenotav · 28/04/2026 22:42

How exactly does putting a name to something eradicate personal responsibility 🤔
I'm gluten intolerant, if I eat gluten it gives me terrible stomach pain. Now that I've named the condition, am I no longer responsible for the pain when I eat gluten?

Literally wtf are you even talking about 🤣

Macaroni46 · 28/04/2026 22:53

MyDeftDuck · 27/04/2026 17:14

Food noise!……..Is that the same as a a bar of chocolate sitting in my fridge chanting ‘eat me, eat me’ every time I open the fridge door?!?!

It’s more than that. It’s an incessant nagging voice saying there’s a bar of chocolate in the fridge for hours on end, whether you’re near the fridge or not. It doesn’t stop until you eat the chocolate. And not just one square of it. The whole lot. And so on. Day in, day out.

durdledoris · 28/04/2026 23:08

This is like saying saying autism didn't exist until the word autism was invented.

durdledoris · 28/04/2026 23:25

tryingtonotrage · 27/04/2026 17:25

I’m very glad we’ve now got words to describe something I’ve fought against for most of my adult life. I used to wonder what it was, why I just couldn’t seem to stay on a diet for longer than about 3 days and I felt like such a failure. For me it was a constant subconscious thought process that often punched through in the weirdest of ways.

A typical day inside my head could look like this…

Monday - brand new week, this is the day I’m finally going to start losing weight. Start the day with a walk and then some scrambled eggs and a grapefruit…but oh, what will I have for lunch? Salad, yes I’ll have salad.

11am - am very hungry, don’t want salad, want a muffin. Can’t have a muffin because if I do that’s the rest of the day ruined. But I WANT a muffin, CAN’T have a muffin, I will eat a salad. I eat the salad (yay, me!) but because I’ve had a salad, I’ve probably now earned the muffin for being ‘good’. Eats muffin.

I’m not going to let a little muffin ruin my whole day of good eating, that’s just ridiculous. I am strong, I CAN do this.

Afternoon, start to feel hungry but I know I’m not really hungry, I’m just bored, so have a cup of tea and start to think about what I’ll have for dinner. Chicken and veg with a small baked potato. Do I have enough calories left for a light chocolate mousse and oh some sauce to go on my dinner?

Maybe (looks at calorie counter app). Nope, will just make do - it’ll be worth it. But wait, I need to eat the lite chocolate mousse as it’s on its sell by date today, can’t waste food like that. But hey going over your calories every now and then isn’t so bad, I’ve got to live. It can’t all be about restriction! And besides, you’re not really that fat, more just a bit podgy.

Ok, well more than a bit but you’ll tackle it eventually. Maybe calorie counting isn’t for you? Maybe need to try IF again? Or what about Cambridge. That was a hard diet but it worked. Well ok it didn’t work because I put it back on again.

Maybe Weight Watchers, now that WAS good. You know what, I’m going to start Weight Watchers tomorrow, I’m going to be really committed this time. Googles nearest classes - yes, there’s one on Wednesday and if I’m going to start on Wednesday, maybe I need to have a ‘last supper’, get it out my system before I start properly on Wednesday.

Hhmm, takeaway? Starts thinking about chicken cashew nut and fried rice. Maybe some Prosecco? Wait, I thought you were going to have chicken and veg? Well I WAS but now I’m starting WW again on Wednesday I need to have a blowout meal. Well no, you don’t ’have to’.

But by the point the thought has settled in my mind and there is no talking me out of it. And of course, Wednesday at Weight Watchers gets pushed to the following Wednesday and so on.

And without a word of exaggeration that was the constant subconscious battle in my mind. And I never actually knew I had it until I took Mounjaro for the first time - total silence. No more intense debate or battle with myself, just food as fuel. It’s simply amazing.

So you might think food noise is just an excuse but for many, many people it’s the daily soundtrack of their lives. I don’t know where it comes from, it could be hormones, advertising, social conditioning or something else but it’s very real.

Be thankful you don’t have it.

Amazing post. Absolutely spot on.

durdledoris · 28/04/2026 23:27

NeedSomeHeadspace · 28/04/2026 19:34

Never heard of “food noise”. Jeez! Another thing for neurotics and whatever label people try and give themselves to harp on about. Can society not get a grip and realise there is some self-accountability to be had, and it’s not a thing that just happens through no fault of your own. There is enough food education out there for everyone.

ODFOD

Eggs2022 · 28/04/2026 23:44

To be fair, I think what some people describe is genuinely unbearable food noise - and then there’s ones who use it as an excuse when they’re quite capable of using will power if they wanted. And before anyone comes for me, people CAN and have lost weight and kept it off - it’s not a new concept. There will always be people who take the easy ways out and use any excuse they can in all areas of life, and I think the OP is right that those people do just use it as an excuse not to eat better and exercise when they’re perfectly capable of doing so. People do eat out of boredom and bad habits, not everything is a diagnosable issue - again, for those where it isn’t actually a problem

Iatethelastbiscuit · 28/04/2026 23:58

Macaroni46 · 28/04/2026 22:53

It’s more than that. It’s an incessant nagging voice saying there’s a bar of chocolate in the fridge for hours on end, whether you’re near the fridge or not. It doesn’t stop until you eat the chocolate. And not just one square of it. The whole lot. And so on. Day in, day out.

Why not just not buy the chocolate so it’s not in your fridge? I wouldn’t say I experienced “food noise” in the way some people on here seem to be describing it. I really think it’s something almost everyone gets. If I had a twix in the fridge it wouldn’t last long in there cos I’d keep thinking “I have a twix in the fridge that I really want to eat!” But if I had a whole bar of dairy milk I could handle having maybe 8 squares then leaving it. But the difference is I wouldn’t buy chocolate to have in the house anyway cos I know I’m like this with it! So, for people who know they can’t help themselves, yet still buy it and are obese and don’t want to be that must be something more than food noise, like an addiction to food that you have no control over. The difference with food noise is that with enough willpower you can control it. Maybe with food addiction you can’t

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