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PIP for Anxiety

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IntelligenceIsFree · 24/04/2026 13:18

AIBU to clear things up?

The current nasty rhetoric around disabled people at the moment is astounding. Society needs to be reminded that we are ALL one illness or accident away from disability.

Everyone knows someone who is gaming the system, yet the PIP fraud rate is extremely low. The public demonising, does not match the reality.

The hot topic is “anxiety” and how people with “anxiety” are gaming the system, getting “free” cars and robbing tax payers; this is being constantly fed through media, news articles and so on.

This is simply not true. The people spouting this nonsense clearly have no idea how PIP works. Nobody gets PIP without strong medical evidence. Nobody.

Before anyone posts “my neighbour got PIP just by telling lies”. No, they did not. That’s not how it works.

People need to be educated properly on how benefits work, how they are awarded and what the criteria for mobility cars actually is; the cars are not in fact free.

People need to be educated on the fact that there is anxiety, which every human suffers from at some point, and then there are anxiety DISORDERS which are entirely different and can be life changing and debilitating. Hence, the need and entitlement for PIP.

Brenda down the road who feels too anxious to go to Bingo on a Friday night is NOT getting PIP ❌

Mary up the lane who has such severe OCD that she cannot leave her own home for fear that she will die, IS getting PIP .✅

There’s a huge difference.

The current turning on disabled people is shameful and we are living in a country full of hate because Bob (and his Uncle) are annoyed that they are paying tax to “support all of these scroungers”.

Bob (and his Uncle), needs to hope that they never get cancer, or suffer life changing trauma or have an unfortunate accident to avoid being served a huge scrounged humble pie.

I do not suffer from anxiety but as a human, I am pleased we have a system in society to support the most vulnerable people who need it. Life can happen to anyone.

OP posts:
Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:46

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:44

Can we all just agree to ignore Kfti48dj 🙄

Why because I’m asking uncomfortable questions?

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:47

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:46

Don't be so nasty people are allowed not to agree its called having a discussion

They're not discussing

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:47

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:45

How can you claim and prove your child needs a huge amount of care which you’re providing but you also need the same amount of support? Being a carer is hard work.

I had a client today trying to tell me that her husband spends 35 hours a week caring for her. Said husband was in a wheelchair unable to stand, no use of one arm and severely brain impaired. All to maximise the benefits.

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:48

It is rife. As much as people like to think it isn't (and will vilify you for saying it) I know of several people who openly admit to lying on forms/in assessments/in doctors appointments to claim PIP/DLA. As many have already said the reason the official statistics are so low is because it isn't properly investigated and even if they did properly investigate, how do you prove that someone is making symptoms up when a lot of them are just the word of the person?

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:49

hedgheog · 24/04/2026 19:46

Enjoy. As we won’t have a welfare system in 10 years. Income tax is below the welfare bill this year for the first time ever,

Well let's hope you don't suddenly get cancer or get in a serious car accident in the next 10 years then or give birth to a disabled child. Considering its only 4% of government spending i don't think disability payments is the problem

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:50

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:48

It is rife. As much as people like to think it isn't (and will vilify you for saying it) I know of several people who openly admit to lying on forms/in assessments/in doctors appointments to claim PIP/DLA. As many have already said the reason the official statistics are so low is because it isn't properly investigated and even if they did properly investigate, how do you prove that someone is making symptoms up when a lot of them are just the word of the person?

Because you need to prove you’re getting the support the claim is for. The bar is high for MH provision and you can be incredibly ill and not reach it.

Agrumpyknitter · 24/04/2026 19:50

Whatafustercluck · 24/04/2026 13:34

I completely agree.

Meanwhile, nobody is talking about 10% of the UK's population owning 50% of the nation's wealth - because that's the real story here. And while we're all busy blaming the poor, the disabled, immigrants, each other, we're basically keeping ourselves in the established order for our puppet masters.

Yes agree. And that this top 10% control much of the media in this country happy to point the finger at everyone else but themselves.

And you know what else no one else is talking about? How we have had a decline in healthy life expectancy thanks to austerity measures from the last Tory government.

We have gone back to 2011 standards. We’re a rich G7 nation and there is a significant difference between North and South areas and even amongst poor areas in the South with other wealthy southern areas, like Edmonton versus Woking.

We have also had an excess of 190’000 deaths in this country thanks to austerity measures from the Tory party. In comparison Covid-19 deaths were around 232’000 deaths. It’s just wrong.

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:51

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:48

It is rife. As much as people like to think it isn't (and will vilify you for saying it) I know of several people who openly admit to lying on forms/in assessments/in doctors appointments to claim PIP/DLA. As many have already said the reason the official statistics are so low is because it isn't properly investigated and even if they did properly investigate, how do you prove that someone is making symptoms up when a lot of them are just the word of the person?

Why do you all know such dodgy people and spend so much time with them that they are giving you full access to their bank accounts and medical records. Don't you have a job?

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:51

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:47

I had a client today trying to tell me that her husband spends 35 hours a week caring for her. Said husband was in a wheelchair unable to stand, no use of one arm and severely brain impaired. All to maximise the benefits.

Exactiy so having evidence in front of you that this wasn’t the case you were able to push back on the claim.

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:52

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:48

It is rife. As much as people like to think it isn't (and will vilify you for saying it) I know of several people who openly admit to lying on forms/in assessments/in doctors appointments to claim PIP/DLA. As many have already said the reason the official statistics are so low is because it isn't properly investigated and even if they did properly investigate, how do you prove that someone is making symptoms up when a lot of them are just the word of the person?

Agree , anyone can say anything to drs and often a lot of the time there is no way of proving anything. What's to stop anyone saying they have suicidal thoughts, no -one can prove what thoughts you have.

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:52

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:49

Well let's hope you don't suddenly get cancer or get in a serious car accident in the next 10 years then or give birth to a disabled child. Considering its only 4% of government spending i don't think disability payments is the problem

But the entire NHS/health bill is "only" 16% of government spending.
So we're talking about a quarter of the entire NHS.
4% is massive

Swiftie1878 · 24/04/2026 19:53

IntelligenceIsFree · 24/04/2026 16:53

@Backawayfromthesausage Bless me? Quite condescending.

Unless you know exactly what your friend put on her form AND evidenced AND you’ve seen every single one of her medical records, regardless of what she’s told you, she has not got PIP by simply exaggerating.

The.System.Does.Not.Work.Like.That.

You are EXTREMELY naive, sorry.

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:53

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:52

Agree , anyone can say anything to drs and often a lot of the time there is no way of proving anything. What's to stop anyone saying they have suicidal thoughts, no -one can prove what thoughts you have.

You don't get pip for suicidal thoughts you don't even get pip for suicide attempts i can tell you this from experience they don't care it isn't part of the criteria. Also to add you would be lucky to even get mental health help at primary level for suicidal thoughts. Have you ever been under secondary care or rang the crisis team or spoke to mhls after an attempt. If it wasn't so serious it would actually be funny how bad mh services are. I remember a conversation with the crisis team when I was suicidal you know what they said you have capacity

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:54

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:52

Agree , anyone can say anything to drs and often a lot of the time there is no way of proving anything. What's to stop anyone saying they have suicidal thoughts, no -one can prove what thoughts you have.

Suicidal thoughts are nothing, you can make multiple actual attempts on your life and still get very little.

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:54

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:53

You don't get pip for suicidal thoughts you don't even get pip for suicide attempts i can tell you this from experience they don't care it isn't part of the criteria. Also to add you would be lucky to even get mental health help at primary level for suicidal thoughts. Have you ever been under secondary care or rang the crisis team or spoke to mhls after an attempt. If it wasn't so serious it would actually be funny how bad mh services are. I remember a conversation with the crisis team when I was suicidal you know what they said you have capacity

Edited

It is regularly asked at PIP assessments so must be asked for a reason.

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:55

The user who mentioned suicidal thoughts was not doing so as a reason for a pip claim

But instead to illustrate that doctors note/evidence what a patient tells them

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:56

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:50

Because you need to prove you’re getting the support the claim is for. The bar is high for MH provision and you can be incredibly ill and not reach it.

And none of that means someone can't make it up. Of course they can, you are incredibly naive.

hedgheog · 24/04/2026 19:57

I have muscular dystrophy.

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:57

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:54

It is regularly asked at PIP assessments so must be asked for a reason.

I was never asked but attempts where in my scr so perhaps wasn't needed but it doesn't fit into any of the criteria

TakeALookAtTheseSwatches · 24/04/2026 19:59

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:51

Why do you all know such dodgy people and spend so much time with them that they are giving you full access to their bank accounts and medical records. Don't you have a job?

Yes I do, they don't though. I live on a rough council estate and I know a lot of people/have a wide extended family. It is rife.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:59

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 19:54

It is regularly asked at PIP assessments so must be asked for a reason.

Is it? One of my children has been in hospital multiple times for attempts on their life and is having a high level of care with multiple hospitalisations and several conditions. He didn’t get it and they didn’t seem that fussed about the actual attempts let alone suicidal thoughts.

I have another child that it is easier to prove their care needs for who does get it.

Why would they just give it out for suicidal thoughts and no actual care needs?

hedgheog · 24/04/2026 19:59

@youalright Not sure why it didn’t quote your post. I do have a progressive condition - muscular dystrophy and I was not entitled to any benefits. I work full time and am very ill. Am I allowed an opinion?

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 20:00

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:41

You said they were for bipolar

Errr, No. I did not. Stop trying to appear clever, Its not working.

smallglassbottle · 24/04/2026 20:00

I was wondering if the situation where people are receiving pip for things like depression and anxiety is acting as a disincentive to get better. Once a person has received these diagnoses then they may be placing themselves in the sick role and staying there. Both anxiety and depression are treatable, often just with medication. In the absence of psychosis, a GP can treat them.

Many people continue to work with both depression and anxiety.

Pickledonion1999 · 24/04/2026 20:01

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:59

Is it? One of my children has been in hospital multiple times for attempts on their life and is having a high level of care with multiple hospitalisations and several conditions. He didn’t get it and they didn’t seem that fussed about the actual attempts let alone suicidal thoughts.

I have another child that it is easier to prove their care needs for who does get it.

Why would they just give it out for suicidal thoughts and no actual care needs?

I'm not saying PIP is given out for suicidal thoughts, I'm saying it is regulalry asked at PIP assessments as part of the assessment if mental health is the main reason for claiming. I have been present at a number of assesmsents where it was asked.

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