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Voting for Reform.the north/south

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Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

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ExtraOnions · 24/04/2026 08:21

NHS waiting lists are at their lowest level for 3 years .. it takes time to fix things, but we are moving in the right direction

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:22

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 08:20

Replicating what Labour did.

Labour have done things in two years that reform would never do.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 08:22

Irridescence · 24/04/2026 08:03

The upcoming local elections will show which way the GE is likely to go. I think a lot of Reform voters are going to be reluctant ones, because successive Tory and Labour governments have shown themselves to be weak on immigration and crime, there is no other place for their vote to go.

Reluctantly voting for the fascistic right? That sounds unlikely. There is nothing that would persuade me or many others like me to vote for what is clearly morally and ethically wrong, based on historic precedent. People must own their vote and not pretend they're doing it in sorrow.

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:23

ExtraOnions · 24/04/2026 08:21

NHS waiting lists are at their lowest level for 3 years .. it takes time to fix things, but we are moving in the right direction

Don’t tell them that, they don’t like that! I’ve noticed we’re more commonly booking elective surgery at 50-ish weeks than 60-70 at the moment. It’s good but for a lot of people it’s not good enough.

Owninterpreter · 24/04/2026 08:24

I dont think it will be a north south split.

I live in Surrey which is splitting into two in the local elections, there's rumours that we will have a Liberal West Surrey and Reform East Surrey. I have relatives in Kent that are in a Reform area. I drive to bits of Hampshire that are heavily Reform judging by the flags and posters.

I understand people feel reform is listening to the things they care about. I have less understanding on what the solutions are and how they will work.

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 08:25

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:22

Labour have done things in two years that reform would never do.

I know and look how disastrous that has turned out. Far worse than even the most pessimistic of us could ever have feared.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 08:25

attichoarder · 24/04/2026 08:04

Dismissing those who are persuaded by Reform and calling them racists and stupid stifles debate. That happened with Brexit. Reform have a view how issues can be dealt with and those who are considering them are not stupid, some will reject the party after looking at their ideas and others will not. Demonising a political party will not destroy it. I don't know who would vote for in a GE and have never voted for UKIP or Reform but I would not rule it out.

Pfft. Brexit was won with Russian money and we all know it. It really didn't happen because some people had an opinion that other people didn't like.

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:25

Treadcarefully11 · 24/04/2026 08:25

I know and look how disastrous that has turned out. Far worse than even the most pessimistic of us could ever have feared.

Oh give over 😂😂😂 NHS waiting lists down, economy growing, millions of children lifted out of poverty.

nam3c4ang3 · 24/04/2026 08:28

Nah - i only know a handful of people who would vote reform (or will admit to it anyway!!), most of my friends are tory supporters and labour supporters who are now so jaded with labour that they are voting tory - mainly because the lib dems and the greens are space cadets 😂

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:28

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:10

And this is the issue.

Apathy and using it to justify why you’re voting for them. If you agree with them and want to vote for them, fine, but own it. Plenty will disagree.

If you don’t want to vote for them, why on earth would you?! What if they win by one vote in your area? That would be your vote.

I’ve voted for every party except Labour for years and it made zero difference in my constituency because Labour has dominated it and never lost their seat. In certain areas I don’t believe it makes a difference and this is why we’ve always had safe seats. I don’t have a problem with voting for the policies that I believe in and I also don’t have a problem with admitting that I agree with Reform on certain things such as immigration. The other part of me agrees with Plaid about certain things, mainly issues around how Wales is funded but I don’t think I can bring myself to vote for a party that can’t answer a simple question about what is a woman. For a lot of people they’ll feel caught in the middle with no party that represents them and I don’t think anyone has to justify their voting intentions to anyone else and if anyone asks someone to justify why they voted for a particular party then they are just a twat.

ilovesooty · 24/04/2026 08:29

Weatheronshuffle · 24/04/2026 06:38

I'm from the north and live in a different part of the north, I will not be voting reform. I don't know anyone who will be and frankly, wouldn't want to know anyone who'd vote for them either.

I can't see a single reform policy that benefits ordinary working people.

I'm in the north. I won't be voting Reform and none of my close friends will. One or two people I'm less close to might be tempted I think . One is an elderly neighbour who is convinced that you have to be " the right colour" to be treated properly on the NHS. One is someone who's a kind and fundamentally decent person who, when gently challenged about misinformation , says "but I thought that was true. I read it on Facebook".

nam3c4ang3 · 24/04/2026 08:29

ExtraOnions · 24/04/2026 08:21

NHS waiting lists are at their lowest level for 3 years .. it takes time to fix things, but we are moving in the right direction

yeah - actually no, where i am my husband has been on the list for over 1.5 years and counting... still waiting for that op....

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 24/04/2026 08:29

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 08:22

Reluctantly voting for the fascistic right? That sounds unlikely. There is nothing that would persuade me or many others like me to vote for what is clearly morally and ethically wrong, based on historic precedent. People must own their vote and not pretend they're doing it in sorrow.

Well said.

I'm sick of the excuses that people wheel out to justify voting for the far right.

If you like the far right and want them in power, at least have the courage to own your extreme views.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 08:30

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:10

And this is the issue.

Apathy and using it to justify why you’re voting for them. If you agree with them and want to vote for them, fine, but own it. Plenty will disagree.

If you don’t want to vote for them, why on earth would you?! What if they win by one vote in your area? That would be your vote.

Yep. The valleys don't need this kind of apathy. With the Caerphilly by-election, it was assumed that either Reform would win or that it would be so close that the votes of a single household could make the difference. As it turned out, Reform weren't even that close. Nobody should be giving up hope here (and nobody in the disadvantaged valleys of south Wales is going to benefit from Reform disrupting the Senedd and ensuring deadlock and stagnation for the term of the parliament).

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:30

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:28

I’ve voted for every party except Labour for years and it made zero difference in my constituency because Labour has dominated it and never lost their seat. In certain areas I don’t believe it makes a difference and this is why we’ve always had safe seats. I don’t have a problem with voting for the policies that I believe in and I also don’t have a problem with admitting that I agree with Reform on certain things such as immigration. The other part of me agrees with Plaid about certain things, mainly issues around how Wales is funded but I don’t think I can bring myself to vote for a party that can’t answer a simple question about what is a woman. For a lot of people they’ll feel caught in the middle with no party that represents them and I don’t think anyone has to justify their voting intentions to anyone else and if anyone asks someone to justify why they voted for a particular party then they are just a twat.

When your voting intentions are such that they will make life measurably worse for the country I think you should justify them to be honest

GCAcademic · 24/04/2026 08:31

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 07:49

I can get a GP appointment. I got one within 4 days.

I waited 3 weeks for an operation and have never waited more than 2 or 3 hours in A&E. Maybe what you’re presenting with just isn’t that serious and thus is triaged?

Over two years on a waiting list for me. I would have had to give up work if I hadn't paid for private surgery, so hardly "not serious". Mother in A&E for 54 hours in a bay (next to two violent men for some of that time) before being admitted to a ward. My village GP is fine but in the local town people can't get an appointment for weeks. Stop gaslighting people.

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:32

ExtraOnions · 24/04/2026 08:18

Areas like that were royally fucked by Brexit. Wales lost about £1bp in EU funding, much more than it contributed. I have no idea how people think this is anyone’s fault other than Farage.. but he skilfully placed the blame on the government for everyone’s issues, rather than take some ownership for his own behaviour.

People want quick answers, to tricky problems.. and I think he gives that in spades.

My area has been royally fucked since the coal mines closed and numerous parties have been in power since with no change or any desire to create one. Some areas have just been left to rot and will continue to do so no matter who’s in government.

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:33

GCAcademic · 24/04/2026 08:31

Over two years on a waiting list for me. I would have had to give up work if I hadn't paid for private surgery, so hardly "not serious". Mother in A&E for 54 hours in a bay (next to two violent men for some of that time) before being admitted to a ward. My village GP is fine but in the local town people can't get an appointment for weeks. Stop gaslighting people.

Stop gaslighting me?

Kirbert2 · 24/04/2026 08:33

DownyBirch · 24/04/2026 08:14

My son's life was literally saved by the NHS. He received care that would have cost thousands of pounds for which he paid nothing.

When I had a cancer scare, I was seen by the NHS within two weeks and again had immediate treatment that would have cost me a fortune elsewhere.

When I had shingles in the eye, I was referred by the NHS to an NHS eye hospital and seen and treated that day. Again, expensive care, no charge.

I'm not seeing the joke there, to be honest.

My son's life was saved by the NHS too. 10 months in hospital and I didn't once have to worry about insurance or paying for his medical care.

He had cancer and it was heartbreaking in some more American focused parent oncology groups where about 60% of posts were parents in tears worrying about insurance and medical bills.

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 08:34

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:32

My area has been royally fucked since the coal mines closed and numerous parties have been in power since with no change or any desire to create one. Some areas have just been left to rot and will continue to do so no matter who’s in government.

Coal mines mostly closed between 1984 and 1985. You’re telling me nobody has tried to move on? You think reform will do anything different?

Lizzypet · 24/04/2026 08:35

burrmcfurr · 24/04/2026 07:51

Fuck me. I know people living in chronic pain, unable to work or earn for well over a year and more because of long waiting lists, with no idea when they will be we be treated. Not that important?

I know people who have used their entire life savings for private treatment due to long waiting lists on the NHS. But their treatment was not that important?

You do realise that long waiting lists cause real suffering, and poverty for people unable to work. People can lose their houses due to it. You do realise that their conditions can progress to a stage they never really recover from the ill effects. If their conditions means they are immobile for a long period when waiting for treatment, you do realise their fitness may deteriorate and not recover ( especially for people 50 plus) with all the life long and life shortening repercussions of that.

But all this is ‘not that important’ to you?!

Fuck me, with attitudes like this no wonder there has not been the effort needed into sorting the NHS.

Utter detachment from the suffering the waiting lists are causing.

Absolutely. My DM (mid 70s) was waiting over 2 years for a hip replacement. She went from active & healthy to practically housebound & in constant pain. The NHS tried to manage her off the waiting list (a nurse admitted this is what happened).
NHS waiting lists are only going down because the govt are paying for strategies to remove people from the lists, not because patients are actually getting the treatment they need.

DrBlackbird · 24/04/2026 08:37

This is exactly what has happened in the USA. I am more than happy for people to fuck around and find out here too. For people in the UK to find out:

  • That thousands of civil service jobs will be cut including those doing vital public service work
  • For good experienced people to be fired and inexperienced narcissists who like to fill their pockets while emptying others to replace them at the most senior levels
  • For everyone’s food and energy prices to increase because of irrational and reactive domestic and foreign policies
  • For the cost of health care to increase
  • For criminals to be pardoned
  • For journalists and news sources that provide the checks and balances against those in authority be targeted
  • For tax cuts such as those included in the One Big Beautiful Bill Act to add trillions to national debt
  • For insider trading to result in some making millions while a majority experience skyrocketing fuel prices due to poorly thought war
  • To have citizens openly killed for taking part in lawful activities without repercussions

Ordinary US citizens may well have had reasonable concerns about rates of legal and illegal immigration but electing an inexperienced and incompetent populist leader was not the answer. They are beginning to realise that now. Trump’s popularity has plummeted because of inept, reactive and self serving policies.

I am really hopeful that people do not fuck around and replicate what’s happening there, here.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 24/04/2026 08:37

rememberingthem · 24/04/2026 01:23

And here we have the exact issue…the superior attitude and treating anyone who wants to vote for reform as imbeciles who don’t understand what they are voting for. This is EXACTLY what happened with Brexit and look where that got the country!!!

Yep, our "Betters" are off again. Looking down their noses rather than opening their ears.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 08:38

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:32

My area has been royally fucked since the coal mines closed and numerous parties have been in power since with no change or any desire to create one. Some areas have just been left to rot and will continue to do so no matter who’s in government.

You can still see the EU Funded signs on the Heads of the Valleys road I believe. Not many Westminster politicians worry that much about Wales - if they did, the Barnett formula would have been scrapped a long time ago! It was a really bad move for the Welsh to vote Brexit; entirely against the best interests of the nation.

RudolphTheReindeer · 24/04/2026 08:38

Are your group aware that local authorities can do fuck all about immigration, benefits and defence? What are reform offering to do for you LOCALLY? I've not a clue what they're proposing roundhere as all they do is bang on about utterly irrelevant national issues the LA have no control over.

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