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Voting for Reform.the north/south

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Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

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EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:38

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:35

I don't know anything about green but I don't understand why anyone especially women would vote reform. Wants to go to war, wants to privatise the nhs, hates women, disagrees with gay marriage, against abortion, hates disabled people. It will be a man's world and it will be like we've gone back in time 50 years.

I suppose the answer is some feel as negatively as you do about the other options. What you’re saying doesn’t resonate and Labour are proving worse than they expected.

Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 09:40

RampantIvy · 24/04/2026 06:47

I live in Yorkshire and was chatting to one of the Labour candidates in our area yesterday. They see Reform as major competition.

Sadly, there are a lot of little Englanders who fly the England flag in parts of town so it will be a two horse race here. I would be disappointed if any of my friends voted Reform.

I live in Yorkshire too.
There have been flags up poles everywhere- little villages more so than the cities.
No party has delivered anything for the North-we always get shat on.
People are pissed off and struggling
Labour is traditionally strong up here but but my feeling is they will take a bettering this time.
I will not be voting Reform- can't trust Farage as far as I could spit.
Polanski is absolutely deranged.
For the first time in my life I may not actually vote ... which is massive for me. Women died for my right to vote but none of them are worth the ballot paper.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 09:40

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:38

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more

This to me is absolutely insane. It's the European Court of Human Rights. Which protects our human rights. All human rights (which means including yours.)
Scrapping it would put your human rights at risk.
Or is that ok as long as pesky "boat people" get theirs taken away too?!

She doesn’t care about anyone else’s rights except her own and will be astonished to find hers disappearing along with everyone else’s.

Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 09:41

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 09:40

She doesn’t care about anyone else’s rights except her own and will be astonished to find hers disappearing along with everyone else’s.

It absolutely needs looking at when rapists cannot be deported because they have a 'right to family life' or whatever bollox they come up with.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:43

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:38

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more

This to me is absolutely insane. It's the European Court of Human Rights. Which protects our human rights. All human rights (which means including yours.)
Scrapping it would put your human rights at risk.
Or is that ok as long as pesky "boat people" get theirs taken away too?!

I can see you feel strongly but many countries with high levels of rights are not part of it, obviously because they are not in Europe. It still works well for the citizens.

Abso · 24/04/2026 09:43

Kirbert2 · 24/04/2026 01:30

Opposite for me. Northerner and everyone I know will continue to vote for labour as it is the least worst option.

Same. I am aware of people in my local area who will vote reform as they are very vocal on the community Facebook pages however I don't know anyone personally who will do (thankfully).

It really does concern me about the risk they pose to women and workers rights.

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:43

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:38

I suppose the answer is some feel as negatively as you do about the other options. What you’re saying doesn’t resonate and Labour are proving worse than they expected.

I think all political parties will lie and screw people over to an extent thats expected but it depends how much your willing to be screwed over. Some of reforms views are extreme and dangerous. If we was under reform right now we would be at war which means we would be waving our children off (16 plus) our partners while we had to move with our younger children alone to a safe country where we don't speak the language to live with strangers. Look what happened to families in Ukraine. I want a simple life where I can stay in my home with my family.

Onmytod24 · 24/04/2026 09:43

I am a proud South Londoner no one is going to vote for reform.

Itchthescratch · 24/04/2026 09:44

5128gap · 24/04/2026 08:46

Maybe. I'd like to hear from them though because no one in RL or online has been able to provide me with an articulate and evidence backed rationale for considering Reform the party most fit to govern with the policies most likely to benefit the country, or even them as individuals.
I hear a lot about what's wrong with the country. I hear a lot about what's wrong with the other parties. I hear people parroting Reforms wish list for the country.
But no seems able to explain exactly how Reform intends to improve on these areas of concern, how its feasible, how they will overcome the barriers, how its going to be done without great cost, or why they have confidence Reform are capable of it given the scarcity and quality of their candidates, and their track record where they do have some power.
I understand that people will vote from self interest, but I'd expect someone with intelligence to drill down below their agreement with the party's 'values' and want to be confident they were underpinning robust policies and an achievable plan of action, and that they understood it sufficiently to be able to explain it.
I ask this on most pro Reform threads. I'm still waiting.

This would be an excellent post of it weren't for the fact that manifesto promises have been broken left, right and centre by the current Labour government and previous Tory governments too.

Look at Labour's current record:
https://fullfact.org/government-tracker/
Hardly a glowing endorsement of a government that clearly lacked the robust delivery plans that you are demanding of Reform. It's all very well delivering a supervised tooth brushing scheme for infants but what about the small issue of not raising taxes on working people or ending asylum hotels? The really damning thing about this government in particular is the additional controversial and unpopular policies they have implemented such as lifting the two child benefit cap which they failed to mention in their manifesto. Manipulative and undemocratic!

I also disagree that some people won't be individually better off under Reform. Of course they will be, in the same way that some people are better off under Labour now. There will be winners and losers and this can't just be measured financially. It's about tackling issues that matter to people. This would appear to be immigration and the economy at the moment. I can understand why many feel that Reform would tackle immigration more effectively than Labour.

https://yougov.com/en-gb/trackers/the-most-important-issues-facing-the-country

Government Tracker – Full Fact

Full Fact is monitoring the government’s delivery on its promises

https://fullfact.org/government-tracker/

Tuiy · 24/04/2026 09:44

I’m in the far south and 80% of people I know are also voting reform

kellygoeswest · 24/04/2026 09:45

JustGiveMeReason · 24/04/2026 00:46

No, I don't think there will be a North / South divide.

But people tend to 'hang out' with 'people like them'.

I am pretty sure NONE of my peers are going to vote for a party / Limited Company that wants to:
remove workers rights,
destroy the NHS,
reduce support for people with disabilities,

reduce or completely stop support for humanitarian causes.

That support tax breaks for billionaires and condone British Billionaires being migrants whilst condemning migrants from any other Country.

That stokes up hatred and bigotry amongst people that previously got along fine previously.
That wants to prevent women having autonomy over their own bodies
That wants to withdraw from the EHRC
That wants to completely dismantle any initiatives to promote diversity
That 'doesn't believe' in the disabilities children in school have and that want to remove the already inadequate support that is currently available for children with SEND
That wants to reduce public spending
Whose Leaders has a track record for blatant lying
etc
etc

Then, looking at the Councils where many Reform Councillors were elected last year - 70 have left (resigned or sacked) since being elected last May before you get on to reports of those who have not turned up / attempted to do the job. So many have been exposed as being completely unsuitable, and either not vetted properly or what was uncovered in the vetting completely ignored.

12 have put up Council Tax, despite campaigning on a promise of "cutting waste" and reducing Council Tax.

Here, here.

Even my dad, who was staunchly UKIP (and embarrassingly, BNP back in the day) won't vote for Reform because of their plans for the NHS and Farage's USA/Trump boot-licking.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:46

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:43

I think all political parties will lie and screw people over to an extent thats expected but it depends how much your willing to be screwed over. Some of reforms views are extreme and dangerous. If we was under reform right now we would be at war which means we would be waving our children off (16 plus) our partners while we had to move with our younger children alone to a safe country where we don't speak the language to live with strangers. Look what happened to families in Ukraine. I want a simple life where I can stay in my home with my family.

The closest I felt to that concern was when many Labour mners were backing Starmer’s planes in the air, boots on the ground ‘coalition of the willing’ rhetoric.

Thepeopleversuswork · 24/04/2026 09:48

@attichoarder

Dismissing those who are persuaded by Reform and calling them racists and stupid stifles debate. That happened with Brexit. Reform have a view how issues can be dealt with and those who are considering them are not stupid, some will reject the party after looking at their ideas and others will not. Demonising a political party will not destroy it. I don't know who would vote for in a GE and have never voted for UKIP or Reform but I would not rule it out.

It doesn't stifle debate at all, this is a complete myth. Reform and its outriders dominate the national discussion and have helped push views like this into the mainstream of politics: you can't move for the kind of "I'm not racist, but," views.

The same people who have been telling us for years that they are "marginalised" and "patronised" etc are now helping to push the agenda way to the right of where its been for nearly a century, influencing policy in mainstream politics and still continue to whine on about how disadvantaged they are. They can't have it both ways.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 09:48

Freysimo · 24/04/2026 09:09

I'll be voting Reform for the Senedd because of Plaid's insistence on gender self ID. I think people will be surprised how well Reform will do here, not least because people are keeping quiet in case they're accused of being racist. I've never voted Reform before.

Zealous.

DuckyDolittle · 24/04/2026 09:50

If there is a N/S split, I think its because the North has been so loyal to Labour and has had its heart broken too many times, which makes it want to 'rebound' with a protest vote. In tbe South there hasn't been that regional party loyalty in the same way, or smaller pockets that are married to a party (Brighton to Greens) but it's been more fluid and driven by lots of competing values. Kent was married to Conservatives, but we've seen the same rebound there to Reform. Ultimately a Refor./Tory split serves to split the right wing vote, and it's to be seen how much the Greens to that to Labour's share od the (nominally) left wing vote.

LostFuse · 24/04/2026 09:50

Bikenutz · 24/04/2026 07:26

Facebook isn’t a substitute for actually talking to people is it?

Ask yourself what demographic uses Facebook. No one under 35 gives it a second thought unless they have a business they want to promote or something to sell on marketplace.

Key UK Facebook Demographics & Trends:

  • Dominant Age Group: The 25-34 age group is the largest, though users span from young adults to a growing base of 65+.
Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 09:51

Onmytod24 · 24/04/2026 09:43

I am a proud South Londoner no one is going to vote for reform.

No one?
I'm pretty sure they will....

5128gap · 24/04/2026 09:53

Sartre · 24/04/2026 09:26

Anywhere with vast pockets of deprivation will likely vote Reform and historically that has always, and continues to be, the north and Wales. Poor people are weirdly now more likely to be right wing and I say weirdly because Labour generally put more money in their pockets…

Its because right wing rhetoric has them believing they'd have more money in their pocket if the government didn't give 'hand outs' to poor people who aren't them.
The disabled woman in my town with England flags and Reform stickers on her mobility scooter thinks she'd have more benefits if money wasn't being spent on immigrants.
My relative thinks he'd pay less taxes and be better off if the government wasn't paying out benefits to people like the disabled woman.
My neighbour thinks her single parent of 3 daughter would have a council house if it wasn't for asylum seekers.
Someone else thinks they pay extortionate private rent because people like my neighbours daughter have kids 'they can't afford' and get 'subsidised' housing.
Deprived right wing people invariably think that when a right wing government implements policies that will make things worse for deprived people, their particular circumstances will make them the exception. It won't be me they're coming for, it'll be those other 'scroungers' over there.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 09:54

Stnam · 24/04/2026 09:23

Are they? They have taken money away from some people and they have raised unemployment. National debt interest repayments have risen. They have introduced tooth brushing in some schools and underfunded breakfasts. Small boat arrivals are up, but net migration is down which doesn't usually signal a booming economy. Waiting lists are supposedly down but I have had to go private because my NHS physio referral resulted in an AI consultation so I'm very sceptical.

Small boat arrivals will continue to happen until politicians agree to introduce safe routes to the UK. Nobody will do that because any party with a possibility of electoral success is trying to out Reform the real Reform. So Mr Farage bears responsibility for the fact that thousands of people each year are being exploited by gang masters and having to make terrifying, often lethal crossings.

I'm not opposed to immigration but, if you're of that mind, remember that Mr Farage has, in fact, done more to increase it and create a need for it than anyone else I can think of.

50ftQueenieeee · 24/04/2026 09:56

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:08

We’ve got Senedd elections next month in May and it’s tight between Reform and Plaid Cymru. Most people in my area are voting for Reform, we are a typical working class valleys area with low wages and high unemployment. I never thought I’d see anything apart from a Labour government in Wales so it’s going to be a massive thing for us regardless of which party out of the two win. Personally I’ve still not decided on my voting intentions yet but I doubt it will make much difference if I voted for anyone else apart from reform because they are so popular here.

We have moved from FPTP in Wales https://electoral-reform.org.uk/there-is-a-new-way-of-voting-at-the-senedd-election-this-may-how-does-it-work/ although the system is not without issue as highlighted here.

There is a new way of voting at the Senedd election this May. How does it work?

Whatever happens in May, the next Senedd election is set to be historic. For instance, recent polling has pointed to the chance that Labour might not be the largest party in the Senedd f

https://electoral-reform.org.uk/there-is-a-new-way-of-voting-at-the-senedd-election-this-may-how-does-it-work/

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:56

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 09:54

Small boat arrivals will continue to happen until politicians agree to introduce safe routes to the UK. Nobody will do that because any party with a possibility of electoral success is trying to out Reform the real Reform. So Mr Farage bears responsibility for the fact that thousands of people each year are being exploited by gang masters and having to make terrifying, often lethal crossings.

I'm not opposed to immigration but, if you're of that mind, remember that Mr Farage has, in fact, done more to increase it and create a need for it than anyone else I can think of.

Greens are going up in the polls, will they do this? Safe routes instead that is. They don’t need to worry like Labour do about proposing something different.

BrownBookshelf · 24/04/2026 09:57

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 09:35

They -Reform and Farage -DIDNT do this though did they?
The people voted to leave -only we didn’t have a ‘leaver’ in charge did we?
So it was not don’t correctly and that is why we are in the shit show we are in.
People who voted leave wanted to regain control of our borders - well that’s got even worse and despite his repetition Starmer hasn’t manged to ‘smash the gangs’has he - as if that was never ever going to work.
People wanted to stop ‘human rights’ lawyers who seem to have everybody’s human rights at the front of their minds apart from the people who are paying them - which is the tax payer.
People wanted to see the steel works beimg re invested in and providing jobs, for ports to have the ability to send out boats and for our government to stop French, Spanish and Dutch horrendous overfishing in OUR waters.
To stop boats throwing fish Back because they hauled too much. Madness.

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more
. When the human rights of people who came here illegally are more important than the h7man rights of those who have lived here for centuries something is terribly wrong,
Why are taxpayers paying for top level barristers to defend the rights of a rapist to stay here? Or murderers?
Why don’t we check the fingerprint/dna of every single person who comes here?
America checks fingerprints and biometric scans but not the uk.
’Human Rights’.
Those of us who voted Brexit -the majority- are equally as frustrated as remainers as the ‘pretend’ Brexit we got is nothing like what we voted for, Frankly I think Jeremy Corbyn an ardent Euro sceptic might have done a better job.

This sounds like when tankies say communism hasn't failed it's just never been tried.

MumofCandR · 24/04/2026 10:03

Northerner here - it's not geography but education and class that dictate who votes for Reform. And no I won't be voting for an incorporated company full of ignorant racists.

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 10:06

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 24/04/2026 09:12

The older, wealthy generation who got everything handed to them...

If this is your level of comprehension then its not worth even reading the rest of your post.

Shock horror. After 40-50 years of working away every day, older people somehow have managed to accumulate more savings than 20-somethings.

This dog-whistle of generational unfairness is as distasteful and wrong as anything Reform spouts.

In what sense is it a dog whistle?

I think there's a sound basis to say that people of the baby boomer generation who benefitted greatly from the postwar settlement subsequently acted/voted to dismantle that settlement, inevitably increasing inequality and lowering living standards for subsequent generations.

Stnam · 24/04/2026 10:10

ForWittyTealOP · 24/04/2026 09:54

Small boat arrivals will continue to happen until politicians agree to introduce safe routes to the UK. Nobody will do that because any party with a possibility of electoral success is trying to out Reform the real Reform. So Mr Farage bears responsibility for the fact that thousands of people each year are being exploited by gang masters and having to make terrifying, often lethal crossings.

I'm not opposed to immigration but, if you're of that mind, remember that Mr Farage has, in fact, done more to increase it and create a need for it than anyone else I can think of.

I pointed out that net migration was down and that was a bad sign for the economy, so I don't know why you think I am anti immigration. I have been an immigrant and my daughter is currently an immigrant in another country.