What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done?

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I’m in a reflective mood, and it’s got me thinking about something I did a few years ago which is probably the thing I’m most deeply ashamed of.

There was a coworker who really rubbed me up the wrong way. I was very unhappy at the time, and going through an awful time personally. She would make snide comments about me, do things with my family members (who were colleagues too) which really got my back up, I felt like she judged me harshly and was pretty rude. Along with another colleague they made three or four very nasty comments which still stick with me.

Instead of raising a grievance, which I should have done, I took to posting about her on another website (along the lines of Mumsnet), not realising she used it too. She saw the posts and reported me, and I ended up facing a meeting with HR and a senior partner of the firm I was working in. It damaged my reputation within the firm forever and I ended up leaving after not being offered a promotion. I still feel ashamed of it now, nearly half a decade on, and feel like it’s tarred me forever.

Whats the worst thing you’ve ever done?

There was a boy in my class who had very bad eczema. The boys were really awful to him. I never participated and I dont remember any of the other girls doing so. I was in a detention with him once and he was the only person I knew in the classroom so we chatted a while. He just seemed so happy that someone actually talked to him without taking the piss. He was actually a nice lad . I felt so sorry for him x

Flushed cocaine & weed down the toilet as armed police were trying to bash my door in.
They found nothing.
Many, many years clean & sober now, thank god.

Mine is awful 😂 I had my 2-year old and newborn with me and we were heading back to my car in a multi-storey car park. A guy reverse parked his car in the space behind mine just as I got to my car. His wheels were touching the line and his boot/bumper was over into my space. I politely asked him to pull forward so I could open my boot and put my pram in. He said “nah, not my problem” and walked away…

I played jenga with getting toddler and baby into the car and then had to leave the pram to the side whilst I got in and pulled forward enough to open my boot. The exact same moment, my baby did an explosive poo… I used the open boot to change his nappy and babygro and when I turned round to look for a bin, I decided to rub the open nappy all over his rear reg plate 😂 I hope he got a ticket for concealing his registration and I hope he cleaned it himself. I’ve never done anything like that before but it made me happy at the time.

I'm really embarrassed about this because I don't know why I did it, it's very unlike me but I was just overcome with rage... One day I was walking past Reform's constituency office and I spat in the doorway. 😳 I'm a respectable middle aged woman who has never spat in public before or since!

How did you pass a DBS check?

I never had any problems with the DBS check, the authorities are looking for issues in a person's background concerning abuse etc..my travails were seen as 'high spirits' , also they were considered 'spent' under the law, rehabilitation act

Angela

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Yvonne Couper

Maybe it's not too late to unghost your friend, if she's a friend she will understand.

My friend ghosted me a number of months ago after decades of friendship. I was going through absolute hell on earth.
My friend lost her mum and I was there in the midst of my crisis, I was checking in doing what I could do to help, I didn't want help in return I just wanted to be there for my friend.

Sadly after all the effort I was putting in ...around 2 years worth of being the first to reach out, I stopped messaging and I've not heard from her since :-( I tried I really did and it kept hurting me, the no responses.
I would 100 percent welcome her back into my life though she was going through such a tough time. I really miss her.

Okay, you win! 🤣

I found my DH had been using a sex toy and hiding it. It was like a mechanical vagina type thing. I rubbed a hot chilli all around the inside.

The worst thing I have ever done? Well, I suppose it depends who you ask!

My husband a few years ago was really unsympathetic when I had severe D&V to the point I could barely stand and nearly passing out, slept on bathroom floor etc he actually said I was being dramatic. While I was in the bathroom I scrubbed my teeth with his tooth brush and ultimately my GERMS, two days later he's bed ridden and sick as hell and very humbled. He's never been unsympathetic again...I've also never told him this.

The worst thing was a a teenager I got off with my boyfriends older brothers friend who I might add I didn't even really like that much, and I gave him a handy!. I proceeded to break up with and get back together with said boyfriend on and off through my teens and early twenties and I never divulged my indiscretion. Anyway to cut a long story short I am now in my 40's married to that boyfriend, very happily I might add but unfortunately his older brother is still friends with that same guy I got off with. I luckily don't have to see him too often but I do cringe every time I end up at the same wedding or party and he is there. That ladies, is my punishment.

Depends if you left it there/dug a hole first

Guys you all are so funny
this is great

Mine is disgusting, but I was on my period and I’d just had a poo. As I reached round to get the toilet paper (that we kept on the windowsill), I accidentally knocked an expensive ring of my mum’s into the toilet. I didn’t want to fish around for it in a toilet full of blood and poo, so I just flushed. I was about 17. I don’t think it was insured either. Oops.

I reckon it was one of those haunted stretches of road and the police were used to reports of drivers encountering an old lady, and not in a good way.

This sounds like it was fun, rather than a worse thing you have done? Guessing uou weren't hurting anybody.

Had a one night stand with a stag on his stag do

@TheBewleySisters i could have written this word for word. ❤️

Heartbreaking to read. That poor little girl - no wonder so many things went wrong. None of this is your fault.

Fuck I don’t think I would even know where to start with that question 😂😂😂😂😂

I want to know why the daughter bothered with a degree if all she was going to do is sit around and wait for her mum to hand her an admin job. Seems like a massive waste of money and effort if that’s all she wants to do. Although the setup to it is suspicious and I’m sure this is just the admin assistant troll at work hoping we’ll pile on again about what a pointless job it is.

Taking a university place from someone who could actually appreciate it is really worthy of being on this thread.

I’ve done a lot of stuff I’m not proud of, but I have never done that.

I did this once too years ago.....in the corner of a pub garden 😅 On the way home from work was so desperate I honestly didn't have a choice as there were no loos anywhere in the vicinity.

Omg that's awful....I couldn't forgive someone for that 🤮