DH Girls night joke

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I need to know if I’m overreacting here please.

i went out with the girls for the first time since pregnancy and having my 7 month old. Was really nervous about it but had a fun time and didn’t come back too disorderly. The plan was for DH to have baby through the night as I would have had a few drinks. I’ve been doing the nights exclusively for months.

i had the baby like normal today, and then DH wanted to take baby out around 4pm as he hadn’t seen him much this week. I took the opportunity to have a nap which ended up being an hour and half.

when I woke up DH made a ‘joke’ along the lines of ‘can you imagine if I went on a night out and had a nap the next day’

its really bothered me as it’s the first time I’ve asked for a chance to let loose and have a bit of extra support as I inevitably was going to have a bit of a hangover. I’ve said it’s upset me and I’ve taken myself off to have a bath, and now he’s getting shirty with me, saying I’m being over the top and it was a joke. To me it feels like a dig. He’s stormed off.

This

What a load of bollocks.

Has he had a night out in the last 7 months?
This bit is hard, be kind to each other, it passes.

Like PPs, also interested to know whether your husband has had a night out/nap since arrival of baby….

I get the same when I take things literally. Solidarity!

You’re being ridiculously over dramatic. He was making a joke. Unless this is a massive drip feed, he hasn’t had an issues in you going out? And has what he said touched a nerve, is he actually right?

It's a very common term and it was very very clear it was with friends not children.

Because as I explained above I’m ND and didn’t realise as sometimes I read things literally.

Because as I explained above I’m ND and didn’t realise as sometimes I read things literally.,

Surely this isn't the first time you have heard the expression though.

Every time someone uses it describe a night out with their friends on here certain people tie themselves in knots to criticse that poster.

Anyway, what does it matter who she was with? The issue was her feelings about her husband's comments.

Anyway, what does it matter who she was with? The issue was her feelings about her husband's comments.

And yet have you posted twice about what someone else said, rather than posting about the op's feelings about her husband's comments.

Is it ok to do that, or not?

Sweet Jesus 🙄😂

OP he sounds like an utter arse. I’d be pissed off too.

This! Calm down. Sounds like a silly spat. Make up and put this behind you both.

It was a joke and tbf if you had came on here saying DH had went out and was now having a nap leaving you to deal with the baby, the pitchforks would be out.

Yep! It would be
-go to your parents and leave him with the baby and a note..
-book yourself a weekend spa!!

Well I have never posted to prove a point.

So far I have had some nasty-ass comments directed at me. I misunderstood the OP. Sometimes it takes time for my brain to catch up. Hence why I asked. This is a public forum and I was asking for clarification.

I apologise if my neurodivergence has offended you.

So not your boobs?
😉😁.

Did you nap whilst he took the baby out? I don’t see his problem! What a dick

Errr when women call their breasts ‘the girls’ it makes me want to vomit

Unnecessary and rude

Men also have boys' nights...

true. I wonder if people turn their nose up at this phrase too

Fucks sake - someone else piling on. I am not trying to prove a point. I was seeking clarification BECAUSE I AM ND AND SOMETIMES MISUNDERSTAND.

But by all means have a go at me about it.

Jesus even if it was a dig it wasn’t a big one. Get over it. Do you usually throw a tantrum/go in a huff over fuck all?

You’re at it, it’s fairly obvious ND or not what “the girls” means.

Interesting that you decide my motives. I had to read your comment three times until I realised the ‘ND or not’ was a separate clause.

I can’t help being ND - presumably you can avoid being an arse to someone who made a genuine error due to circumstances beyond their control?