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AIBU to consider legal action after dismissal for long-term sickness?

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KittyCoo · 17/04/2026 19:18

I’ve been dismissed from my job today due to long term sickness since August last year. I have crohns, ASD, and very severe OCD. I have intrusive thoughts and last summer I declared these to my boss who completely misunderstood me and was worried I’d act on these thoughts shock I told her they caused me immense distress.

Last month, I was confident I’d be able to return to work as I’m finally having CBT and on the right medication, now on an SSRI combined with an anti psychotic. My boss was supporting my return. But then a week later she decided to place me on medical suspension without any prior warning because occ health deemed me unfit to work due to my OCD still taking up a lot of my day. I then fed this back to my line manager saying I’ll beat this decision as in prove occ health wrong and that I am indeed fit for work. She arranged a meeting with me to discuss suspension and she knew my union rep was on annual leave but decided to go ahead with it anyway!!!

They dismissed me due to long term sickness and not taking into account what’s working well with my mental health!! I’m looking at finding a solicitor as I believe this is unfair dismissal due to my disabilities under the Equality Act 2010. I’ve contacted a few and had a few quotes back.

AIBU by wanting to take legal action and sue them because my OCD is deliberating and because of my ASD I have different communication styles that they’ve completely misunderstood. Do you think this is unfair dismissal ?

im so traumatised by it all and im worried ill be made homeless and have my property repossessed as I’ll have no money and won’t be able to find a future job

OP posts:
MrsBrendaFarfetched · 22/04/2026 23:34

Upearlyaseva · 20/04/2026 11:31

What would you do
@bigboykitty if one of your team expressed OCD intrusive thoughts about violently harming colleagues with a knife ?

A few things...

  1. I would ask why that person was telling me these thoughts, ie do they have impulses, are these new thoughts, etc

  2. I'd ask what they are doing from a medical point of view, counselling, Dr's, medication, what not. I would be checking if this was a diagnoses or self diagnoses.

But I would be inclined to medically suspend with a meeting with occ health arranged asap.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 19:28

PhoebeBuffay1234 · 21/04/2026 13:20

I love how that’s all you took from Shrinkhole’s comments. Says a lot really.

I took her comments on board.

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