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Benefits v Defence Lord Robertson

645 replies

Wednesdayschild87 · 14/04/2026 23:46

Lord Robertson’s Speech… seriously does anyone care?? He’s laid out the fact that as a nation we can’t carry on like this… he said we can’t afford to keep throwing money at benefits whilst leaving our country defences I’m actually shocked no one has come out and spoken on this matter before. I’m incredulous.

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TigerRag · 17/04/2026 12:52

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 12:46

which evidence? how can you evidence GAD?

ETA: I'm struggling to think of physical disability which cannot be evidenced by objective tests such as bloods, X-rays, MRI, CT etc.

Edited

Migraine, vertigo, certain hearing problems (I have auditory processing disorder which because of the nature of the condition, doesn't show up on hearing tests)

x2boys · 17/04/2026 12:53

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 12:46

which evidence? how can you evidence GAD?

ETA: I'm struggling to think of physical disability which cannot be evidenced by objective tests such as bloods, X-rays, MRI, CT etc.

Edited

Mental health professionsls involved on your care ,visits to crisis team etc.

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 12:58

x2boys · 17/04/2026 12:53

Mental health professionsls involved on your care ,visits to crisis team etc.

Look, are you trying to say that it's impossible to fake MH problem? or perceive normal life challenges as MH crisis? that's why I'm saying it will take some time, but it's definitely doable within a year to get all evidences.

TigerRag · 17/04/2026 13:01

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 12:58

Look, are you trying to say that it's impossible to fake MH problem? or perceive normal life challenges as MH crisis? that's why I'm saying it will take some time, but it's definitely doable within a year to get all evidences.

I don't think anyone's saying that. But it's not as simple to get evidence, etc

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:01

TigerRag · 17/04/2026 12:52

Migraine, vertigo, certain hearing problems (I have auditory processing disorder which because of the nature of the condition, doesn't show up on hearing tests)

Migraine, vertigo, certain hearing problems don't require extra payments though, do they?

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:05

TigerRag · 17/04/2026 13:01

I don't think anyone's saying that. But it's not as simple to get evidence, etc

it is simple. Just requires a bit of persistence and spending some time online to learn.

TigerRag · 17/04/2026 13:07

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:01

Migraine, vertigo, certain hearing problems don't require extra payments though, do they?

It depends how they affect you. At some point, I was having vertigo plus migraine which meant I couldn't even stand.

TigerRag · 17/04/2026 13:08

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:05

it is simple. Just requires a bit of persistence and spending some time online to learn.

Please do it and tell me how you get on. When I was having mental health problems, I couldn't even get an appointment with a psychiatrist for months

x2boys · 17/04/2026 13:17

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 12:58

Look, are you trying to say that it's impossible to fake MH problem? or perceive normal life challenges as MH crisis? that's why I'm saying it will take some time, but it's definitely doable within a year to get all evidences.

So you think mental health professionals are thick then and dont know when somones faking it ?
I find that pretty insulting tbh as a former mental health nurse

MyLuckyHelper · 17/04/2026 13:34

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:01

Migraine, vertigo, certain hearing problems don't require extra payments though, do they?

They can. PIP and DLA aren't based on diagnoses but the way they affect your ability to live your life.

XenoBitch · 17/04/2026 15:52

nearlylovemyusername · 17/04/2026 13:05

it is simple. Just requires a bit of persistence and spending some time online to learn.

This is what the trash media want you to believe... that all people claiming for MH are swinging the lead. You have fallen for their lies.

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 16:48

Serenity75 · 15/04/2026 08:51

Sounds like bs to me. I agree benefit spending is too high, but my solution would be to start treating the people one long term disability benefits and get them better and back to work, rather than reintroducing work houses for them. Also, let’s looks at the facts. We live on an island that is eminently defensible (see history since 1066!). And according to this wiki link https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_with_highest_military_expenditures we are the 6th highest spender on defence.

so we spend more than double Poland who have Russia sitting next door, and almost as much as India who are defending a continent, not a little island and have a two nuclear adversary’s on either side in Pakistan and china!!!. Maybe the defence industry needs to stop spending billions on air craft carriers that are an aggressive tool and can be sink by 50k drones and start spending the enormous budget a bit more wisely.

I hope it’s ok by you if those of us who have little to no chance of getting better can stay on benefits….. which I would assume is a very large proportion of those on benefits. I have ME/CFS (amongst other things). There is no treatment for it.

MyLuckyHelper · 17/04/2026 16:59

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 16:48

I hope it’s ok by you if those of us who have little to no chance of getting better can stay on benefits….. which I would assume is a very large proportion of those on benefits. I have ME/CFS (amongst other things). There is no treatment for it.

I’d assume the long term disabled were the least likely to come off disability benefits too. Unless someone’s suggesting we get Jesus back to stay healing the sick, I’m not sure what this person thinks the cure will be for many of these disabilities 🤦🏻‍♀️

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 17/04/2026 17:02

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 16:48

I hope it’s ok by you if those of us who have little to no chance of getting better can stay on benefits….. which I would assume is a very large proportion of those on benefits. I have ME/CFS (amongst other things). There is no treatment for it.

Yes, not every disability is curable given that it is congenital, lifelong, and likely to degenerate...

Chocaholick · 17/04/2026 17:10

MyLuckyHelper · 17/04/2026 16:59

I’d assume the long term disabled were the least likely to come off disability benefits too. Unless someone’s suggesting we get Jesus back to stay healing the sick, I’m not sure what this person thinks the cure will be for many of these disabilities 🤦🏻‍♀️

Again, all of this is immaterial. A thought exercise but what would happen if every person woke up tomorrow with CFS?

Julen7 · 17/04/2026 17:18

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 16:48

I hope it’s ok by you if those of us who have little to no chance of getting better can stay on benefits….. which I would assume is a very large proportion of those on benefits. I have ME/CFS (amongst other things). There is no treatment for it.

Future governments might not be ok with it 🤷‍♀️

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 17:20

Julen7 · 17/04/2026 17:18

Future governments might not be ok with it 🤷‍♀️

That is my fear.

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 17:22

Chocaholick · 17/04/2026 17:10

Again, all of this is immaterial. A thought exercise but what would happen if every person woke up tomorrow with CFS?

That seems like a pointless exercise because it won’t happen.

Chocaholick · 17/04/2026 17:23

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 17:22

That seems like a pointless exercise because it won’t happen.

It won’t but an ever increasing number of benefits recipients, and people out of work due to disability, is happening. So looking at where we are now, and the scenario I just mentioned, at what point between here and there do we do something?

Daisycakes9 · 17/04/2026 17:40

x2boys · 17/04/2026 12:49

Im getting sick of repeating myself but you need evidence to back up your claims and by evideence i mean proper evidence from
professionals who are qualified in the area of disability
It ,s rather more complex than just popping to your GP and telling them your a bit anxious and hey presto PIP.

My sister who I was close to claimed PIP with lots of help from well meaning people from the local community groups and others who had successful applications and only had her GP letter with her numerous mentions of anxiety over a number of years and a letter from my dad. She was awarded PIP at c£500 a month.

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 18:13

Chocaholick · 17/04/2026 17:23

It won’t but an ever increasing number of benefits recipients, and people out of work due to disability, is happening. So looking at where we are now, and the scenario I just mentioned, at what point between here and there do we do something?

well it’s massive task to turn things around. We’re in the situation we’re in now due to decades of under investment.

massive increase in spending in the NHS, funding into research into illnesses and conditions that are causing people to be chronically ill (eg doctors know virtually nothing about ME/CFS, so there is no treatment and most people who have it are too ill to work - and it’s not rare), public heath work to improve people’s diet and exercise habits, reduce obesity and reduce dangerous habits such as smoking, vaping, alcoholism, gambling etc.

Incentivise employers to take on disabled people.

Support people when they are on long term sick leave.

Offer highly individualized support to get back to work. And don’t make people wait months and montbs for support like they do now with the Access to Work
Scheme. Process each application within a month rather than many months.

Alexandra2001 · 17/04/2026 18:18

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 18:13

well it’s massive task to turn things around. We’re in the situation we’re in now due to decades of under investment.

massive increase in spending in the NHS, funding into research into illnesses and conditions that are causing people to be chronically ill (eg doctors know virtually nothing about ME/CFS, so there is no treatment and most people who have it are too ill to work - and it’s not rare), public heath work to improve people’s diet and exercise habits, reduce obesity and reduce dangerous habits such as smoking, vaping, alcoholism, gambling etc.

Incentivise employers to take on disabled people.

Support people when they are on long term sick leave.

Offer highly individualized support to get back to work. And don’t make people wait months and montbs for support like they do now with the Access to Work
Scheme. Process each application within a month rather than many months.

All of which costs billions, which we don't have or aren't willing to tax for....

....& would mean an even smaller defence budget

Julen7 · 17/04/2026 18:22

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 18:13

well it’s massive task to turn things around. We’re in the situation we’re in now due to decades of under investment.

massive increase in spending in the NHS, funding into research into illnesses and conditions that are causing people to be chronically ill (eg doctors know virtually nothing about ME/CFS, so there is no treatment and most people who have it are too ill to work - and it’s not rare), public heath work to improve people’s diet and exercise habits, reduce obesity and reduce dangerous habits such as smoking, vaping, alcoholism, gambling etc.

Incentivise employers to take on disabled people.

Support people when they are on long term sick leave.

Offer highly individualized support to get back to work. And don’t make people wait months and montbs for support like they do now with the Access to Work
Scheme. Process each application within a month rather than many months.

Never going to happen.

Kirbert2 · 17/04/2026 18:49

Julen7 · 17/04/2026 18:22

Never going to happen.

Then I'm not sure what is expected from those who are either genuinely long term disabled and can't work or can't work because they have a disabled child.

What are we supposed to do?

dizzydizzydizzy · 17/04/2026 19:45

Alexandra2001 · 17/04/2026 18:18

All of which costs billions, which we don't have or aren't willing to tax for....

....& would mean an even smaller defence budget

I know. But how else can we reverse the trend
of people getting sick and being too ill to work? It’s clearly not going to happen without intervention. The pandemic has made it so much worse.