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School as child care

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Differentforgirls · 07/04/2026 18:45

From another thread.

A poster said that state schools are there for helping parents to work. Therefore teachers are childminders. Teachers!

I think schools are there to educate our children and, though the staff go above and beyond these days, that is their primary function.

AIBU?

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PoliteSquid · 08/04/2026 02:04

cloverblue · 07/04/2026 19:12

I know you say this negatively, but if school hours replicated nursery hours I could work more, earn more and give us a better life.

The state could never afford it! Private schools often pay teaching staff more… usually have longer hours too.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:09

GottaCatchSomeOfEm · 07/04/2026 19:40

I don't believe schools should be considered childcare, nor do I believe teachers are childminders. I also absolutely disagree that working parents are "letting someone else bring up their child" because they use wraparound care. There wouldn't be much of a need for teachers if working people stopped having children.

Teaching and child care are two different things.

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Pieceofpurplesky · 08/04/2026 02:09

I care for the kids I teach but I am not a childcare giver. There is a subtle difference. Childcare is something that parents do when they need their
child looking after, school is where their child is educated in a safe environment and their education and wellbeing is cared for.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:10

GardenCovent · 07/04/2026 22:02

School is not childcare.
The purpose of sending children to school is to educate them by qualified teachers.
Yes parents can choose to work whilst their children are in schools but sahp can’t just choose to not send their children to school because they are at home to provide childcare.

Agree.

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:11

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/04/2026 02:09

I care for the kids I teach but I am not a childcare giver. There is a subtle difference. Childcare is something that parents do when they need their
child looking after, school is where their child is educated in a safe environment and their education and wellbeing is cared for.

Agree.

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:14

takealettermsjones · 07/04/2026 18:52

Well yes they are there to educate, but they are also in loco parentis and have a duty of care. So they do carry out some of the duties a childminder would.

Like what? Not being snarky but which duties?

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:16

cloverblue · 07/04/2026 19:12

I know you say this negatively, but if school hours replicated nursery hours I could work more, earn more and give us a better life.

Who is “us” in this scenario?

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:22

MyTrivia · 07/04/2026 19:26

I agree with you! Parents should parent.

In fact, research shows that a child’s parental background dictates where they end up in life and not the school they went to.

Thank you.

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PivotPivotmakingmargaritas · 08/04/2026 02:39

FruAashild · 07/04/2026 21:24

This. Primary teachers want to distinguish themselves from nursery workers so they can be paid more even though they both teach the same curriculum. It's pure snobbery. Universal education was established in the western world to facilitate parents working outside the home, it was always about childcare.

No it wasn’t school…. as we know it wasn’t created during the industrial revolution to create a workforce that was ready to work in a mass situation

Yewoo · 08/04/2026 06:52

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 01:51

I’m retired.

Im going to presume by ‘retired’ you were once in paid employment. Did you have DC? If so, what happened to them around school hours while you were working?

welshweasel · 08/04/2026 06:53

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Now you’re being deliberately goady! I work full time and I’m a full time parent (as you’re well aware, parental responsibility doesn’t cease when your child isn’t physically with you). How would society function if no parents were allowed to work? Maybe we should all home educate our children and give up work. To be fair their school would have no teachers anyway as they would all be at home with their children. We’d have no GPs in the local surgery either… Should we exclude all mothers from working? My kids are off to sports camp for the day today so that I can work, shock horror!

rommymummy · 08/04/2026 07:07

Childminders also provide education. They follow the early years curriculum!

School is childcare. I don’t see why that’s so offensive. The teachers are educating and the whole school day is providing childcare.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 07:12

A school’s primary function is to educate children. Of course it is!

However, a significant number of parents wouldn’t be able to work if schools weren’t open. I’m not sure why that’s offensive?

There is a pastoral aspect of being a teacher which is important.

Didimum · 08/04/2026 07:13

Differentforgirls · 07/04/2026 19:04

I honestly think your view of education is appalling.

Teachers literally have in loco parentis – legally.
I think you should have done your research before replying snottily to such a basic thing.

Whenisitmyturntorest · 08/04/2026 07:13

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This is a ridiculous attitude. Part of parenting is providing for your DC. SAHM's rely on a second parent doing that part of parenting, and that parent is no less of a parent for doing so. Nor will the SAHM have failed as a parent if they need to return to work for whatever reason. But given you've said you are retired, I presume you are either talking bollocks or taking out your own failures on others.

WildDenimDuck · 08/04/2026 07:14

I think the school day is too long in R/KS1 especially(I firmly believe lunch time should be the end of the day), but even in KS2 it could do with being an hour shorter maybe. I don’t think it’s in child’s best interests to have such long days, and is there to suit working parents more. They take kids in nappies (in my day you wouldn’t even be able to join the school nursery at 3 if not reliably potty trained - not alone at school!). Almost impossible to expel disruptive pupils.
Shouldn’t be the case. But I think some changes should take place to make it a place of education and not childcare.

newornotnew · 08/04/2026 07:15

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You're ignoring the structural and societal changes since school was introduced.

These days it costs two full time wages to sustain a household, plus it is no longer acceptable for children to just be unsupervised, plus it's more common for younger children not to have older siblings to supervise them as family size has decreased.

The pressures on parents are different in 2026 than in 2006, 1986, 1966, 1946, 1926...

Are teachers childminders? No.
Is childcare needed by parents? Yes.
How do we organise things in society to ensure families can thrive? There isn't a consensus on this.

BippityBopper · 08/04/2026 07:15

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 01:50

A school’s primary function is education.

You didn't answer my question. Who takes care of a child while they are at school?

newornotnew · 08/04/2026 07:19

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 02:14

Like what? Not being snarky but which duties?

Not losing a child.
Not letting a child engage in dangerous behaviour.
Pastoral care.
First aid and seeking medical attention for emergencies.
Resolving peer conflict.
Discipline for bad behaviour.
Setting out good behaviour standards.
PSHCE topics.

CarlaLemarchant · 08/04/2026 07:20

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/04/2026 02:09

I care for the kids I teach but I am not a childcare giver. There is a subtle difference. Childcare is something that parents do when they need their
child looking after, school is where their child is educated in a safe environment and their education and wellbeing is cared for.

It’s only a subtle difference in your head though. Children have to be in the care of someone and if it’s not in the care of their parents then by default they are in the care of the school and the parents are free to do whatever they please during these hours as the children are not in their care or supervision.

Some people are treating this like they’ve been insulted. It’s no insult.

My mum was a single parent, she needed me to be in school so she could work…as a teacher!

nomas · 08/04/2026 07:21

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 07/04/2026 20:56

Because childcare is deemed as a lowly profession whilst teaching is a professional profession don't you know.

All the 'educators' wouldn't want to be mistaken for a childcare worker.

Why shouldn’t teachers want to be recognised for the role they’re in?

Would you want a nursery teacher to teach your child when they’re not qualified to do so?

Nursery teachers should be paid and appreciated more, but you don’t need to drag teachers down to do it.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 07:22

WildDenimDuck · 08/04/2026 07:14

I think the school day is too long in R/KS1 especially(I firmly believe lunch time should be the end of the day), but even in KS2 it could do with being an hour shorter maybe. I don’t think it’s in child’s best interests to have such long days, and is there to suit working parents more. They take kids in nappies (in my day you wouldn’t even be able to join the school nursery at 3 if not reliably potty trained - not alone at school!). Almost impossible to expel disruptive pupils.
Shouldn’t be the case. But I think some changes should take place to make it a place of education and not childcare.

Schools are a place of education and there are very strict guidelines and standards linked to that.
It just also happens that they facilitate parents working.

nomas · 08/04/2026 07:23

FruAashild · 07/04/2026 21:24

This. Primary teachers want to distinguish themselves from nursery workers so they can be paid more even though they both teach the same curriculum. It's pure snobbery. Universal education was established in the western world to facilitate parents working outside the home, it was always about childcare.

Nursery workers do not teach the same curriculum as teachers.

This thread is crazy.

Itsmetheflamingo · 08/04/2026 07:27

nomas · 08/04/2026 07:23

Nursery workers do not teach the same curriculum as teachers.

This thread is crazy.

Well they do, Just for different age groups.

I am not sure what point it’s making though.

Iocanepowder · 08/04/2026 07:28

I view it more as part of the ‘village’ that helps to raise my kids. And as a working parent, I appreciate this.