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Keeping a 3 bedroom council house when your children have grown up

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Iwishitwerewarmer · 03/04/2026 07:41

Just pondering - what are everyone’s opinions on a single parent raising their children in a council house/housing association house and staying there once their children have moved out? Should they downsize into a one bed flat/smaller property or is it their right to remain in their home/neighbourhood?

Added extra - they have looked after the property well, have landscaped the garden, installed a new kitchen and generally added value to the property.

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1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:47

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Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:47

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:46

You should move to somewhere remote.

Such as?

ElizabethReed · 03/04/2026 13:48

Differentforgirls · 03/04/2026 13:46

Is there a reason why you find this thread hilarious?

I find it disgusting how feral and lacking in morality many posters are.

It’s frightening.

I find your comments ridiculous.
I was highlighting the snobbery, agreeing with you. And yet here you are.

Kirbert2 · 03/04/2026 13:48

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:42

Move to a cheaper area.

I live in a cheap area and still can't afford to buy.

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:48

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Living in a council house is not sponging off the state.

You are just one accident/illness away from "sponging" yourself.

ElizabethReed · 03/04/2026 13:48

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We don’t have the highest taxes in 40 years.
Its 70

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:48

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:46

Don't refer to me as "love". I've worked my arse off too while living in council housing. Hard work isn't just confined to high taxpayers

Listen darling, start saving a deposit and move on.

hazelberry · 03/04/2026 13:49

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:47

Such as?

I'd ignore that poster. Someone bored and on a wind up.

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:49

ElizabethReed · 03/04/2026 13:48

We don’t have the highest taxes in 40 years.
Its 70

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Ever since the lefties got in taxes have shot up.

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:49

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You're calling people who live in council housing spongers? I actually bought my last council flat and it was sold from under me, and I was rehoused because I was homeless - see if you want to start running around calling people names get your facts right.

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:49

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:46

You should move to somewhere remote.

I think you should, personally. Mars is nice this time of year.

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:49

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:48

Listen darling, start saving a deposit and move on.

I'm not buying property. Hope that helps.

hazelberry · 03/04/2026 13:50

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:49

I think you should, personally. Mars is nice this time of year.

They probably live under a bridge.

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:50

hazelberry · 03/04/2026 13:49

I'd ignore that poster. Someone bored and on a wind up.

Calling people love and darling to boot - urgh. Vomit inducing

Jellybunny98 · 03/04/2026 13:50

It seems to be controversial but I do think people should downsize when they can to give another family that actually needs that size property the same space they had when they needed it. It’s a huge issue where we are, we have young families crammed into 1 bedroom flats while over the road there is 1 person or 1 couple living in a 3 bedroom house they got when they had young children living at home.

If people who no longer need 3 bedrooms downsized and opened those homes back up to families then it would be much easier for more families to be suitably housed.

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:50

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1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:51

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:49

I think you should, personally. Mars is nice this time of year.

Don’t be so rude.

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:51

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:51

Don’t be so rude.

Hello Pot. Have you met Kettle?

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:52

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:51

Don’t be so rude.

Only as rude as you've been to others

Thechaseison71 · 03/04/2026 13:52

AirborneElephant · 03/04/2026 12:59

Yes, of course they pay tax just like everyone else. And they are subsidising council housing rents. But that doesn’t mean they should get subsidised in return any more than any other taxpayer.

Why is it that people in council housing who are paying their rent are looked down on yet those is private rentals that are having rent paid by LHA aren't

Like post above saying all council housing should be at market rent ( ie to make profit) All that would achieve us more people needing help to pay the rent surely

It seems ok to have " taxayers money" making profits for private landlords strangely enough

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:52

Blueshoey484 · 03/04/2026 13:49

You're calling people who live in council housing spongers? I actually bought my last council flat and it was sold from under me, and I was rehoused because I was homeless - see if you want to start running around calling people names get your facts right.

That’s what it is for, homeless people.

ElizabethReed · 03/04/2026 13:53

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:49

Ever since the lefties got in taxes have shot up.

And taxes will need to go up further to make up for 14 years of austerity and whatever we want to call 2020
But it does make me laugh those shouting loudest about increased taxes tend to be the business owners that haven’t paid back their Bounce Back Loan’s
Oh, the irony

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:53

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:51

Hello Pot. Have you met Kettle?

That is so immature.

XenoBitch · 03/04/2026 13:53

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:52

That’s what it is for, homeless people.

Then why are you not in one then. Must be miserable under a bridge.

1457bloom · 03/04/2026 13:54

ElizabethReed · 03/04/2026 13:53

And taxes will need to go up further to make up for 14 years of austerity and whatever we want to call 2020
But it does make me laugh those shouting loudest about increased taxes tend to be the business owners that haven’t paid back their Bounce Back Loan’s
Oh, the irony

You must be a Labour mole.

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