Referring to the article shared, and speaking as a former Dubai expat, it’s difficult to know which rules in Dubai are actually meant to be followed.
The lifestyle there is so contradictory and far removed from what you read beforehand. Before moving, you study the rules, promising yourself you’ll follow them all and live responsibly. But once you arrive, reality is very different. Alcohol, gambling, prostitution is everywhere, the debt cycle is encouraged, and the supposedly conservative dress code is almost entirely ignored. You quickly find yourself adapting, mingling, networking, and doing what’s needed to fit in, which often means bending the rules.
Many people move there imagining a clean, respectable, disciplined lifestyle where they’ll save money and progress in their careers. Instead, many end up caught in a culture that contradicts the laws on paper.
And when a major issue arises, like the current crisis, authorities suddenly use those laws selectively, choosing who to make an example of for “breaking the law.” The truth is, pretty much everyone breaks the rules there. It just depends on who they decide to target.
I genuinely feel sorry for those being made examples of now. My frustration (and the frustration of many expats I know still living there) is with the braggy, clueless, tone deaf, grifter influencers who have spent months, and years, undermining their home countries, only to turn to those same nations for help when things go wrong.
In response to PP’s comment that expats in other destinations don’t receive as much criticism, people who move abroad generally don’t behave in that ‘influencer’ manner. They’re not incentivised by their host governments to spread propaganda.
And those who get defensive, claiming that any criticism is “Dubai bashing,” I suspect either belong to that army of deception, live there and are deluding themselves, have family or friends they’re trying to justify, or simply don’t understand how harsh life is there outside the privileged bubble.
So OP, I vote, YANBU for your comment about influencers. Still, I can’t help but feel for those now being singled out by Dubai as examples.