what do you think

[help1972]

here we go again ... because of my af and not knowing what treatment is going to work i havent made any big decisions but here is the joke he has now decided that he wants to change religion and please not judgement - i am a believer of all faiths but having being a christian all his life now he wants to switch to judadism.. if i thought this was serious i would obviously support it but i do think its all done for his narccissstic sefl

Previous thread for context https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5490701-am-i-unreasonable?postsby=help1972

Sorry you're going through this OP x

Is he circumcised already?

But, seriously, with you health issues, you need to focus on yourself, not his mental journey.

i am in such a state my health issues are not sorted today i spent a bit of money taking the kids to the cinema and he said he would come - he bought tickets using a voucher when we got there i spent £23 on icecream and drinks (which is actually quiet good ) he never comes usually and he went ballistic.. i really have had enough i am strugglign to walk and live and he his making matters worse but i just dont know how to tell him= i can tell he is getting frustrated with me ..

this is the guy when he was been unfaithful had another sim card was never available for the kids and really just is narccistic i am really being pushed to my limit but dont know if its because i feel crap or if i am desperate to hold things together

Why haven't you thrown him out?

thats the question i keep asking myself - doubt myself think its my fault.. i dont know i am scared two kids... he is just so. bloody difficult even my daughter said that today and she said he doesnt speak nicely to me so i am really now thinking if the kids are noticing it then its bad