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AIBU to think it was never that complicated to define a woman.

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Abisequer · 26/03/2026 14:51

The International Olympic Committee (IOC) has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category of Olympic events will now be limited to biological females, starting from the LA 2028 Games.

AIBU to think the category ‘women’ was never complicated and the obfuscation by certain governing bodies has compromised fairness in sport for women.

Examples of obfuscation include claims that genital checking would be needed or that biological men with lowered testosterone would be on an even playing field with biological women.

AIBU to think it was never complicated to define a woman and a cheek swab is all it takes.

Article

Transgender women banned from female Olympic events in new IOC ruling

The International Olympic Committee has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category will now be limited to biological females

https://www.independent.co.uk/sport/olympics/transgender-ban-ioc-female-category-gender-eligibility-b2946193.html

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NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:31

development is that what was intended to be a clitoris and vagina become instead a penis, not the other way around as you suggest.

What is intended to be. It isn’t a clitoris and vagina, it’s the precursor. Dihydrotestosterone in foetuses turns that precursor tissue into a penis and scrotum. There is still testosterone and AMH from functioning testes, as a result of the SRY gene, that allows all the other development internally to take place.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:33

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:23

Why don’t you look up 5 alpha reductase deficiency? My description is absolutely medically correct.

It doesn’t matter if the athlete thinks they have a vagina. It isn’t a vagina. And when they acknowledge they are male they know it isn’t a vagina.

And people with CAIS, and some with PAIS, have a short or blind-ending vagina. They function as other vaginas in terms of facilitating intercourse, but the remainder of the reproductive system is not present.

They are not akin to a surgically-created vagina-proxy.

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:34

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:29

But we're talking about studies - already posted - that has nothing to do with DSDs, and everything to do with the poor state of education, facilities and medical expertise even among elite female athletes and their coaches.

You say that those studies are proof that nobody involved in supporting [DSD] athletes will admit to their suspicions. How so?

I have taken a brief look at those studies and I can't see anything in them that supports your view that a DSD athlete going through male puberty could have no signs of that at all.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:35

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:29

It matters very much to the argument about whether these people are knowingly cheating.

If medics want to call a body part by another name when an ordinary person can't tell the difference between that body part and a vagina, that's up to them. It adds nothing to this discussion.

To a layman, it's just like saying that an ear canal is not an ear canal because the rest of the hearing apparatus is missing.

Well it’s not a great analogy because an ear canal is an ear canal and is not dependent on being defined as an ear canal based on the rest of the hearing apparatus or the sex of the person with a hearing canal.

With vaginas, it is. It is a vagina in a female person. It is blind ending pouch in a male person.

And it equally doesn’t matter if the athletes 100% believe it’s a vagina. Believing that and knowingly cheating are not mutually exclusive. You can’t honestly look at that picture of Semenya aged 15 and think he thought of himself as female and didn’t knowingly compete in a category he shouldn’t have?

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:36

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:31

development is that what was intended to be a clitoris and vagina become instead a penis, not the other way around as you suggest.

What is intended to be. It isn’t a clitoris and vagina, it’s the precursor. Dihydrotestosterone in foetuses turns that precursor tissue into a penis and scrotum. There is still testosterone and AMH from functioning testes, as a result of the SRY gene, that allows all the other development internally to take place.

And in the absence of those androgens the default development of a foetus is female with a vagina.

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:39

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:35

Well it’s not a great analogy because an ear canal is an ear canal and is not dependent on being defined as an ear canal based on the rest of the hearing apparatus or the sex of the person with a hearing canal.

With vaginas, it is. It is a vagina in a female person. It is blind ending pouch in a male person.

And it equally doesn’t matter if the athletes 100% believe it’s a vagina. Believing that and knowingly cheating are not mutually exclusive. You can’t honestly look at that picture of Semenya aged 15 and think he thought of himself as female and didn’t knowingly compete in a category he shouldn’t have?

Your argument is now getting ridiculous.

We were discussing whether female looking people with what they believe to be a vagina are cheating if they compete as a female.

Semenya does got come into this discussion.

Why are you so absolutely hooked up on a medical definition of a vagina that isn't adding a single useful point to this discussion?

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:40

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:33

And people with CAIS, and some with PAIS, have a short or blind-ending vagina. They function as other vaginas in terms of facilitating intercourse, but the remainder of the reproductive system is not present.

They are not akin to a surgically-created vagina-proxy.

Both are pouches in males. There are differences in the tissue composition.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:41

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:39

Your argument is now getting ridiculous.

We were discussing whether female looking people with what they believe to be a vagina are cheating if they compete as a female.

Semenya does got come into this discussion.

Why are you so absolutely hooked up on a medical definition of a vagina that isn't adding a single useful point to this discussion?

Because Semenya claims he has a vagina and we are meant to believe he didn’t think he was cheating! He absolutely comes into this discussion, that’s the whole point of the discussion.

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:42

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:41

Because Semenya claims he has a vagina and we are meant to believe he didn’t think he was cheating! He absolutely comes into this discussion, that’s the whole point of the discussion.

Nobody on this thread is disagreeing about Semenya!

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:42

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:34

I have taken a brief look at those studies and I can't see anything in them that supports your view that a DSD athlete going through male puberty could have no signs of that at all.

Edited

That's because they aren't studies about DSDs. They're about the persistent lack of proper education and treatment surrounding menstruation among female athletes - 20 years after the IOC's original push for proper monitoring.

Males with CAIS cannot experience male puberty because their bodies cannot absord testosterone, so it converts to estrogen, and they experience (most of) the aspects of female puberty - but not periods.

PAIS means they will absorb some testosterone but how much varies greatly. The less testosterone they absorb, the more estrogen they do, so they could experience puberty in a way that is far more female-typical than male-typical (or vice versa).

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:44

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 09:42

Nobody on this thread is disagreeing about Semenya!

So what are you arguing then? It’s perfectly possible that men who think they have a vagina can still be knowingly cheating.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:49

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:44

So what are you arguing then? It’s perfectly possible that men who think they have a vagina can still be knowingly cheating.

Edited

Yes. It is perfectly possible.

It is not a universal rule.

Most on here are apparently adamant that every male athlete to ever have a DSD knew as much, regardless of their life circumstances or access to healthcare.

Presumably, this is also the case for all the many non-athletes who claim to have been shocked to learn they are genetically male despite how their bodies appear. Perhaps they're "cheating society" and it was all a ploy to get sympathy for infertility, or something.

(And feel very free to produce any medical resource that denies that a blind-ending or shallow vagina is not, anatomically, a vagina).

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:56

(And feel very free to produce any medical resource that denies that a blind-ending or shallow vagina is not, anatomically, a vagina).

The vagina (pl.: vaginas or vaginae)[1] is the elastic, muscular reproductive organ of the female genital tract through which mammals copulate and give birth.

My bold. By its very definition, it exists only in female mammals. Ergo, male mammals can’t have one. It being blind ended or shallow has nothing to do with it.

HTH.

It’s a deliberate attempt to butcher language. Like saying “people with uteruses” as though men can have them.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 09:57

Imdunfer · 29/03/2026 08:57

That's pedantry to the nth degree unless you are a medic, I'm afraid.

Until somebody discovers there's no uterus, it's a baby born with a vagina

No. A vagina is an internal female sex organ

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:00

Most on here are apparently adamant that every male athlete to ever have a DSD knew as much, regardless of their life circumstances or access to healthcare.

And you keep repeating the notion that because of where they lived and grew up, that can’t possibly have had any idea and where all in the dark until the testing authorities told them. So patronising.

Is it likely that every single one of the 60 athletes in major athletics finals in the last 25 years was fully in the knowledge of how much they were cheating? Probably not. But it was probably most. And the idea that they were all “shocked” at the news is laughable, naive, patronising and gaslighting.

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:02

And bear in mind, the majority of those 60 competed AFTER they were told of their condition.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 10:04

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 09:56

(And feel very free to produce any medical resource that denies that a blind-ending or shallow vagina is not, anatomically, a vagina).

The vagina (pl.: vaginas or vaginae)[1] is the elastic, muscular reproductive organ of the female genital tract through which mammals copulate and give birth.

My bold. By its very definition, it exists only in female mammals. Ergo, male mammals can’t have one. It being blind ended or shallow has nothing to do with it.

HTH.

It’s a deliberate attempt to butcher language. Like saying “people with uteruses” as though men can have them.

What medical resource is that?

Want to try again?

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:05

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 10:04

What medical resource is that?

Want to try again?

Do you think males can have a uterus?

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:05

Or that women can have a penis?

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 10:06

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:00

Most on here are apparently adamant that every male athlete to ever have a DSD knew as much, regardless of their life circumstances or access to healthcare.

And you keep repeating the notion that because of where they lived and grew up, that can’t possibly have had any idea and where all in the dark until the testing authorities told them. So patronising.

Is it likely that every single one of the 60 athletes in major athletics finals in the last 25 years was fully in the knowledge of how much they were cheating? Probably not. But it was probably most. And the idea that they were all “shocked” at the news is laughable, naive, patronising and gaslighting.

Is it likely that every single one of the 60 athletes in major athletics finals in the last 25 years was fully in the knowledge of how much they were cheating? Probably not.
Great, we agree.

the idea that they were all “shocked” at the news is laughable, naive, patronising and gaslighting.
And, to be clear, we still agree. Thank goodness nobody on here has claimed that.

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 10:06

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 09:29

But we're talking about studies - already posted - that has nothing to do with DSDs, and everything to do with the poor state of education, facilities and medical expertise even among elite female athletes and their coaches.

You say that those studies are proof that nobody involved in supporting [DSD] athletes will admit to their suspicions. How so?

You posted a study of women in educational institutions showing that menstrual difficulties - usually heavy or irregular periods are common.

The solution was better access to medical care.

However, when it was pointed out that at 2006 an athlete competing at Olympic level could have expected investigation into the complete lack of periods by 24 years you stated - without a link - that medical input back then was just fitness screening 🙄.

No one can actually believe that. It’s embarrassing to admit you’ve been duped, but you have.

Brainworm · 29/03/2026 10:15

We are almost 2 years in to The Generation Study where 100,000 babies are having full genetic screening. The cost of FGS is coming down, so in the near future, in the UK at least (and likely other developed countries), all DSDs will be identified at birth. I expect the normalisation of screening will undermine arguments that (i) it’s unethical for the IOC to test (ii) that sex is difficult to determine.

The more road that trans activists run out of in their pursuit to eradicate the female category (as determined by natal sex), hopefully the more energy they will spend on campaigning to ensure people with trans identities aren’t genuinely discriminated against (e.g experiencing detriment in housing, jobs etc.).

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 10:16

NotBadConsidering · 29/03/2026 10:05

Do you think males can have a uterus?

In terms of gender ideology, no. I feel like your framing conflates the two issues.

In terms of rare DSDs, yes.

Males with Persistent Müllerian Duct Syndrome (PMDS) have uteruses and fallopian tubes but cannot carry a child, even via fertility treatment.

Then you have those with Swyer Syndrone who are genetically male (XY) but can, through fertility treatment, carry and birth children. I'm not sure how you would choose to class them, male or female.

DeepBluDeer · 29/03/2026 10:21

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 10:06

You posted a study of women in educational institutions showing that menstrual difficulties - usually heavy or irregular periods are common.

The solution was better access to medical care.

However, when it was pointed out that at 2006 an athlete competing at Olympic level could have expected investigation into the complete lack of periods by 24 years you stated - without a link - that medical input back then was just fitness screening 🙄.

No one can actually believe that. It’s embarrassing to admit you’ve been duped, but you have.

Feel free to read up further on the history of medical screening, even in developed countries, and when we moved away from the normalization of irregular or delayed periods.

Also consider that several of the studies discuss the prevalence of the normalization myth, a lack of sexual education and enduring misogynistic social taboos serve as barriers towards proper healthcare to this day, let alone 20 years ago when the IOC first said "hey, maybe this is something sports federations should monitor".

nolongersurprised · 29/03/2026 10:25

“Fairly androgynous” is doing some heavy lifting here, isn’t it?

The brow ridge and Adam’s apple are entirely masculine, even whilst “presenting as female”.

A masculine appearance and no period ever and yet their medical team thought, “nothing to see, very normal female”. such a shock to find out the chromosomal results.

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