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to admire religious fasting for its discipline and commitment?

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catchingup1 · 23/03/2026 15:20

I’ve been thinking about this lately, especially with Ramadan just gone and the dry fasting of 24 hours by Jews and Mormons.

I can't help feeling impressed. Not in a gushy way, just genuinely. Going without food and water for long periods, while still getting on with normal life, work, family etc takes a level of willpower and discipline that I don’t think most people have.

It’s not even just the physical side. It’s the restraint, the routine, the intention behind it. The fact that people are doing it for something bigger than themselves, not just for a diet or health trend.

It's not just people who’ve grown up with it. There are converts every year across different religions who are doing these fasts for the first time as adults. They haven’t had years to “get used to it” and are choosing to take it on anyway. It’s a conscious decision, not just habit.

Even for people who have done it since childhood, plenty still find it challenging every year. It’s not like it becomes effortless, they’re still choosing to stick to it day after day.

Then you read so much now about people struggling with “food noise”, constantly thinking about what to eat next, cravings, snacking, not being able to switch off from it. So the idea of deliberately stepping away from all of that, even for a set period and managing your impulses like that. It does make me respect it.

I’m not saying it makes anyone better than anyone else, just that I admire the self control, discipline and commitment involved.

I came across this about the benefits of dry fasting:

www.bcm.edu/news/dawn-to-dusk-dry-fasting-leads-to-health-benefits-in-the-study-of-immune-cells

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catchingup1 · 25/03/2026 22:16

Ponderingwindow · 24/03/2026 13:26

Engaging in an unhealthy practice in the name of religion is not something to be celebrated.

The research shows many health benefits. It is not an unhealthy practice at all.

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Mummyoflittledragon · 26/03/2026 01:08

catchingup1 · 25/03/2026 14:15

No one is minimising how dangerous disordered eating can be. But it is silly to take one situation like that and use it to say that all forms of fasting are inherently harmful when the research shows the opposite.

There’s a big difference between an eating disorder, where someone believes they shouldn’t eat at all, and a structured, time-limited fast where people still eat daily and maintain nutrition. The two aren’t the same thing clinically or behaviourally.

You could just as easily say skipping a meal is dangerous because some people develop disordered eating, but we don’t treat every instance of not eating at a certain time as pathological.

For people who are vulnerable to eating disorders, yes, fasting of any kind might not be appropriate. But that’s about individual risk, not proof that the practice itself is universally unhealthy as the research shows.

In no post did I say all forms of fasting are inherently harmful. It can, however, increase the risks and be a trigger.

Therefore a structured time-limited fast where people eat daily and maintain nutrition can lead to ED in those susceptible to ED. That doesn’t mean to say it will in all people. Anecdotally, I have already explained that I can eat OMAD and be absolutely fine, whereas my dd must never do this even if she maintains the same level of nutrition as if she were eating throughout the day. She needs to eat at least 6 times a day.

For those people vulnerable to eating disorders, yes, fasting of any kind might not be appropriate. Might not be is wildly inaccurate. Instances of ED increase after fasting.

I didn’t state fasting is universally unhealthy. What I object to is the bold statements that fasting is universally health when it isn’t.

sashh · 26/03/2026 07:36

BlueMum16 · 25/03/2026 18:43

Oh it's not only Ramadan.

We have a carol concert and readings at Christmas by the Christians and people sharing how they abstain during Lent.

We have something to do with Henna tattoos on hands and food for another religion - I'm sorry I don't know which.

Literally almost every festival is celebrated. I only mentioned Ramadam due to the fasting.

We also do health or well-being topics - prostate cancer, menopause, visual impairment, diabetes,.

There is something for everyone but only if you want to join in or learn about others lives.

That sounds fabulous.

That's how it should be.

PottingBench · 26/03/2026 08:34

catchingup1 · 25/03/2026 22:13

Might be miserable for you but it is not miserable for many people.

It is also miserable for many people.

Berlinlover · 26/03/2026 08:37

I think it’s sad that so many people are brainwashed tbh

NemesisInferior · 26/03/2026 09:25

catchingup1 · 25/03/2026 20:21

Show me where women have been flogged for having a drink of water in the day. Is there happening everywhere? What has that got to do with fasting? So nobody should fast anywhere because women get flogged?

I have cited several studies that show that the dry fasting that Muslims, Mormons and Jews partake in have health benefits in peer reviewed journals.

If you want to live your live brainwashed by religion, then be my guest. It's not hard to find information about the problems.

CorvusPurpureus · 26/03/2026 09:45

I live in a Muslim country (I’m an atheist) & have fasted for Ramadan for over a decade now.

After last year I just kept going all year as far as food is concerned - evening meal, piece of fruit just before sunrise. I do have water & coffee during the day.

I’ve lost over 4 stone 😂. (Yes, I’m on WLI).

Tbh, for all the years I’ve fasted for Ramadan, I’ve felt it’s a really good re-set. No one expects you to join in as a non-Muslim, but once they notice, you get invited to all the best iftars…it’s a really special month.

Not so much in a country where fasters are a minority & other people get annoyed by them being tired, grumpy etc, maybe, but where pretty much everyone is fasting, AND making a superhuman effort to cut each other some slack, it’s a lovely, gentle paced, thoughtful time.

BoredZelda · 26/03/2026 09:53

catchingup1 · 23/03/2026 20:38

A quick google search shows the majority are positive.

Fasting gives the body what it needs and you can live life.

Ahh, so now we are reducing science to “a quick google” are we?

Cochrane has looked at all the dry fasting studies and concluded there are no health benefits whatsoever, particularly when done over a short period. It also reports high levels of negative effects, and that it must be avoided by people with particular health concerns.

I’m all for adults making a choice but I disagree entirely with children taking part. My daughter’s friend has been fasting since she was 13 and the impact on her school day is quite severe. Right now they are studying for exams and she lacks the concentration she needs and has headaches every day.

catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:35

Mummyoflittledragon · 26/03/2026 01:08

In no post did I say all forms of fasting are inherently harmful. It can, however, increase the risks and be a trigger.

Therefore a structured time-limited fast where people eat daily and maintain nutrition can lead to ED in those susceptible to ED. That doesn’t mean to say it will in all people. Anecdotally, I have already explained that I can eat OMAD and be absolutely fine, whereas my dd must never do this even if she maintains the same level of nutrition as if she were eating throughout the day. She needs to eat at least 6 times a day.

For those people vulnerable to eating disorders, yes, fasting of any kind might not be appropriate. Might not be is wildly inaccurate. Instances of ED increase after fasting.

I didn’t state fasting is universally unhealthy. What I object to is the bold statements that fasting is universally health when it isn’t.

Saying instances of ED increase after fasting makes it sound like fasting itself is causing it across the board which there is no evidence for.

There are loads of factors behind eating disorders, psychological, social, environmental. You can’t isolate fasting and treat it like the driver.

Also, most people don’t fast at all, and if fasting was a key driver of ED one would expect the highest rates in populations where fasting is common. That’s not what we see. In fact, in places where fasting isn’t part of everyday life, you’re still seeing high levels of disordered eating and obesity. That alone tells you it’s not as simple as fasting = more ED.

Not all fasting is the same. Religious fasting is structured, time limited, and followed by normal eating. That’s very different from ongoing restriction or weight focused behaviours that are more closely linked to ED patterns.

For some individuals it might not be appropriate absolutely. But presenting it as though fasting leads to increased ED instances is unproven.

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:36

PottingBench · 26/03/2026 08:34

It is also miserable for many people.

It is also not miserable for many people.

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:36

Berlinlover · 26/03/2026 08:37

I think it’s sad that so many people are brainwashed tbh

By consistent research in peer reviewed journals? That makes sense to me.

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:39

BoredZelda · 26/03/2026 09:53

Ahh, so now we are reducing science to “a quick google” are we?

Cochrane has looked at all the dry fasting studies and concluded there are no health benefits whatsoever, particularly when done over a short period. It also reports high levels of negative effects, and that it must be avoided by people with particular health concerns.

I’m all for adults making a choice but I disagree entirely with children taking part. My daughter’s friend has been fasting since she was 13 and the impact on her school day is quite severe. Right now they are studying for exams and she lacks the concentration she needs and has headaches every day.

Where is that Cochrane review?

Cochrane reviewed intermittent fasting for weight loss, not all dry fasting studies, and found little evidence of a meaningful weight loss advantage. That is very different from saying Cochrane concluded dry fasting has no health benefits whatsoever.

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:40

NemesisInferior · 26/03/2026 09:25

If you want to live your live brainwashed by religion, then be my guest. It's not hard to find information about the problems.

You don't even back up what you say 😂

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:41

PottingBench · 26/03/2026 08:33

None of these quote research in peer reviewed journals unlike the beneficial effects of dry fasting.

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catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:44

CorvusPurpureus · 26/03/2026 09:45

I live in a Muslim country (I’m an atheist) & have fasted for Ramadan for over a decade now.

After last year I just kept going all year as far as food is concerned - evening meal, piece of fruit just before sunrise. I do have water & coffee during the day.

I’ve lost over 4 stone 😂. (Yes, I’m on WLI).

Tbh, for all the years I’ve fasted for Ramadan, I’ve felt it’s a really good re-set. No one expects you to join in as a non-Muslim, but once they notice, you get invited to all the best iftars…it’s a really special month.

Not so much in a country where fasters are a minority & other people get annoyed by them being tired, grumpy etc, maybe, but where pretty much everyone is fasting, AND making a superhuman effort to cut each other some slack, it’s a lovely, gentle paced, thoughtful time.

That actually sounds really nice, to be honest.

You’ve taken what works and made it your own and 4 stone is no small thing at all. Well done 👏

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NemesisInferior · 26/03/2026 12:43

catchingup1 · 26/03/2026 11:40

You don't even back up what you say 😂

I'm not your servant. Presumably you can operate a search engine. I'm not dogmatically trying to convince you of anything, unlike yourself and whatever weird agenda you are pushing here.

The fact is, ramadam is used as one of many means of oppression in strict muslim countries. If you think that's fine, then crack on.

Valeriekat · 27/03/2026 04:47

BlueMum16 · 23/03/2026 19:35

We were invited to fast during Ramadan to experience what others as part of an inclusivity thing at work.

I wanted to try but struggled with no water all day and by mid afternoon I had to quit.

Hats off to everyone that has the commitment to stick it out.

I used to give something up for Lent when DC were younger but would basically cheat by picking something I didn't really eat like, so maybe biscuits but could still eat chocolate.

Why would anyone do that? It's outrageous that a workplace does something like this. Do they do something similar for Lent?

Valeriekat · 27/03/2026 04:49

HeddaGarbled · 23/03/2026 20:28

Having worked with women who were fasting and heard how difficult it was for them, I’m more inclined to think it’s abusive, especially the lack of water.

Yes especially as they are the ones expected to prepare the Iftar!

BlueMum16 · 27/03/2026 07:29

Valeriekat · 27/03/2026 04:47

Why would anyone do that? It's outrageous that a workplace does something like this. Do they do something similar for Lent?

Yes

catchingup1 · 27/03/2026 07:39

NemesisInferior · 26/03/2026 12:43

I'm not your servant. Presumably you can operate a search engine. I'm not dogmatically trying to convince you of anything, unlike yourself and whatever weird agenda you are pushing here.

The fact is, ramadam is used as one of many means of oppression in strict muslim countries. If you think that's fine, then crack on.

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You say I quote dubious links when I provide evidence even when I have provided numerous evidence from peer reviewed journals.

At least I back up what I say with scientific journals.

You are best ignored.

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catchingup1 · 27/03/2026 07:42

Valeriekat · 27/03/2026 04:47

Why would anyone do that? It's outrageous that a workplace does something like this. Do they do something similar for Lent?

Why is it outrageous? We are told about Lent in my workplace every year and invited to take part.

It is voluntary not compulsory.

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RodneysGotaNewHairdo · 27/03/2026 12:21

Valeriekat · 27/03/2026 04:47

Why would anyone do that? It's outrageous that a workplace does something like this. Do they do something similar for Lent?

I agree. The workplace is for working, not promoting religion. It would be equally inappropriate if it was Lent.

We can participate in religious observance if we want to without having our employer pushing it.

NemesisInferior · 27/03/2026 13:00

catchingup1 · 27/03/2026 07:39

You say I quote dubious links when I provide evidence even when I have provided numerous evidence from peer reviewed journals.

At least I back up what I say with scientific journals.

You are best ignored.

Says it all, really. Just another religious zealot blind to the harm it causes.

catchingup1 · 28/03/2026 08:38

RodneysGotaNewHairdo · 27/03/2026 12:21

I agree. The workplace is for working, not promoting religion. It would be equally inappropriate if it was Lent.

We can participate in religious observance if we want to without having our employer pushing it.

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How are the employers pushing it? Nobody is being forced to participate or take part. Those who want to take part do and those who do not ignore it. It is not written into our contracts that we must participate.

People often take part because fasting has proven health benefits and they often feel better for doing it.

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