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Anyone else awake? In so much pain and feeling v sorry for myself!

28 replies

tiredSENmomma · 22/03/2026 04:37

Thought I probably had sinusitis yesterday as the back of my nose/top of my throat and mouth were so sore. Overnight it seems to have turned in to tonsillitis. I’ve got huge white spots all over my tonsils, I can’t sleep because everytime I do I wake up gasping for breath, I can’t swallow because the pain is so intense so I keep having to spit out my saliva jnstead (sorry TMI). And now my ear hurts too. Waiting for a call back from out of hours gp so hopefully they can give me some antibiotics but I could really do with being distracted. So why is everyone else up?

OP posts:
Latenightreader · 22/03/2026 04:45

Sympathies - sounds thoroughly miserable. Do you have any ice cubes or ice lollies in the freezer?

I have a huge spot/boil on my elbow which has been painful for a few days but has been getting worse and finally seems to be coming to a head. It woke me up - ridiculous for something about the size of a 5p piece!

tiredSENmomma · 22/03/2026 04:48

Oh no, hopefully if it’s coming to a head it will soon be gone! Sympathies that you are also in pain and unable to sleep!

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annonymousse · 22/03/2026 04:53

It was my birthday yesterday and we had an Indian takeaway for tea. I've been dieting/eating healthily for months and seemingly I can't tolerate a treat anymore. I feel so bloated I can't sleep

annonymousse · 22/03/2026 04:55

Ps are you sure it's just tonsillitis. My daughter had a quinsy(?) where she was unable to swallow saliva. Glad you've rung the out of hours service. Hope you get a call back soon

AnAudacityofinlaws · 22/03/2026 04:56

Can you gargle with some water and crushed aspirin? Or do you have any liquid paracetamol such as Calpol or liquid ibuprofen? If you could swallow those it might help.
I don’t know why I’m awake! Went to bed early knackered after a day of grandchildren so maybe I’ve just had enough sleep.

sashh · 22/03/2026 04:57

Nothing practical to add but I'm awake.

sparrowhawkhere · 22/03/2026 04:58

Hope you feel much better soon. I’m up because I was ill last week and my sleep is now all over the place.

FeralWoman · 22/03/2026 04:59

It’s a sunny 28 degrees Celsius Sunday afternoon here.

ouch222 · 22/03/2026 04:59

Yep have a fractured rib every time I roll on it, it wakes me up

Ace56 · 22/03/2026 05:03

I’ve got a cold so not sleeping very well, plus now I’m awake I can’t get back to sleep due to anxious thoughts. My sympathies OP, that sounds horrible.

BoldnessReborn · 22/03/2026 05:15

Yes been awake over 2 hours, trying to sleep (I'm ill) till I gave up, made some porridge, and came here. Don't know exactly what woke me.

thetinsoldier · 22/03/2026 05:21

I think you need to be seen asap, in case you have a quinsy (as per pp). They can come on quickly. Can you get to a hospital/urgent care?

PrincessofWells · 22/03/2026 05:26

Hi Op, it's a hot and sweaty 34 degrees here today and I'm sat in Starbucks for the a/c! It's lunchtime and I'm thinking of going to the pool later for a swim.

Tonsillitis is hellish, I hope you get some antibiotics soon and start to feel better.

GenderlessVoid · 22/03/2026 05:41

Back pain and pain from frozen shoulder woke me up. Hope your symptoms are resolved soon. My sympathies, OP.

Nofeckingway · 22/03/2026 05:45

I am awake too. It's almost like an alarm 4am most nights .

Anything that keeps you up in pain at night is dreadful. Morning and relief seem so far away . Hard to sleep except upright which is crap . If it gets to stage where you are having difficulty swallowing saliva you need urgent attention as it's likely a quinsy . Hope you get attention and start feeling better soon.

pinkblueyelloworange · 22/03/2026 05:49

Hope you get some meds soon, OP. I’m up as I’m about to leave for work in 10 mins. Joy!

ThatFairy · 22/03/2026 05:52

I've took my prescribed benzodiazepene at midnight and have just woke up. I don't know whether to stay up or risk going back to bed and wake up too late as I am feeling pretty drowsy. I might just stay up and do some cleaning. I'll have a coffee and see

I'm sorry you're suffering sounds like you need antibiotics and possibly steroids I would call 111 if I were you

ThatFairy · 22/03/2026 05:55

Do you have ice to make a cold drink and ibuprofen to bring down the swelling ?

ZenNudist · 22/03/2026 05:56

I'm up now. Have the clocks gone forward? I have a bad tummy from curry yesterday. I was at a wedding yesterday and now feeling flat and tired.

I realised no one had done the school shirt wash and youngest needs a white shirt for a recital later today so I got up to put a wash on but it's going to keep me awake when I go back upstairs.

Hope your pain subsides and you get some rest.

violetcuriosity · 22/03/2026 05:58

I feel your pain OP, Ive been on antibiotics since Friday for the same. The glands in my neck are so swollen and painful and it feels like my throat is closing up. The white spots are still there on mine, does anyone know how long until the antibiotics are supposed to properly kick in? I’m worried they’re not working, but I’m probably being impatient. Last night I had to sleep on a towel due to sweating so much. Hope you manage to get some antibiotics x

Roomforapony · 22/03/2026 06:12

I’m wide awake as I had surgery last week. I’m still very sore plus I haven’t had much sleep since as it hurts to move in any direction so I can’t get comfortable. Now I’m on the sofa listening to the dog snoring while I wait for the pain relief to kick in.
I hope you hear back soon OP and can get antibiotics as it sounds absolutely miserable for you ❤️‍🩹

PersephoneParlormaid · 22/03/2026 06:30

I had this once, throat so saw that I spat out my spit. By the time I got to the GP I was thoroughly fed up and started crying, so he asked me if there was anything else bothering me. So I just asked how he thought he’d feel if he couldn’t swallow his own spit!
Hope you get those antibiotics soon.

tiredSENmomma · 22/03/2026 10:04

Sorry I didn’t come back. I ended up in hospital. They were brilliant to be fair, I was taken to a ward within 30 minutes. The infection had made me much more poorly than they first thought so I’m hooked up to lots of different machines and medicines. Waiting to see an ENT specialist now.

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Nofeckingway · 22/03/2026 10:21

Oh wow what an update ! Glad that you are in the right place and swiftly getting treatment . Hope you recover soon 💐
But now you can legit say See I told you I was sick.

annonymousse · 22/03/2026 10:22

Oh dear! Sounds like you're in the right place. Hope you start feeling better very soon.