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AIBU to object to a large co-living dwvelopment near my home?

214 replies

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 20:20

I live in the North East. The local paper published an article yesterday about someone applying to turn a shop near me into a "large co-living development' with 18 rooms and communal area. Aimed at young professionals apparently and they're denying it's a HMO.

It's obviously a HMO

There's no parking. The space is small. It's 3 minutes walk from a primary school. I've looked up the developers - they're based in London.

Would you object?

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Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 21:29

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 21/03/2026 21:23

Why does it matter that the developer is based in London?

Because they're less likely to care who's living there surely?

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Birch101 · 21/03/2026 21:31

Well someone who can't afford their own studio or 1bed to rent, doesn't want to share a bathroom with strangers and I am assume will have a weekly cleaner it's basically living in halls but with other workers not students,

if they do it right should have utility room and decent size en suite bedrooms and enough kitchen storage space for everyone.

Personally it's better if it's a large block as you can add in things like libraries and cinema rooms and you'd have regular cleaners so yes that doesn't sound great but still better than some of the house shares where you have to share a bathroom with some randoms

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 21:32

Birch101 · 21/03/2026 21:31

Well someone who can't afford their own studio or 1bed to rent, doesn't want to share a bathroom with strangers and I am assume will have a weekly cleaner it's basically living in halls but with other workers not students,

if they do it right should have utility room and decent size en suite bedrooms and enough kitchen storage space for everyone.

Personally it's better if it's a large block as you can add in things like libraries and cinema rooms and you'd have regular cleaners so yes that doesn't sound great but still better than some of the house shares where you have to share a bathroom with some randoms

It's a small block. It was a cafe recently with a flat or 2 upstairs

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Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 21:38

HMOs can be problematic but this development sounds like it’s targeted at a specific demographic and therefore may price out the less desirable residents?

JulietteHasAGun · 21/03/2026 21:46

ThreadneedleRoad · 21/03/2026 20:49

I’m not in the UK, but the kind of development the OP describes wouldn’t get planning permission here if it had a car parking space per occupant. Policies aimed at reducing carbon emissions etc — lot of urban planning guidelines aim to minimise or eliminate parking, and to encourage public transport use.

Plus I assume that if this is targeting renters who don’t own vehicles.

Agree with this. Dd lives in a massive coliving building aimed at young professionals. The building is 50 floors high and there must be about 40-50 people on each floor. Not a single parking space and that was actually considered a positive when planning permission was granted. They don’t want cars and the traffic impact, they want people who are happy to walk/use public transport.

Her building is quite upmarket I would say. Certainly no issue with drugs or poor behaviour. She’s a young professional, they all have ensuite rooms, her flat has a shared kitchen and sitting area. The building has a large communal area (and a gym). It’s very sought after.

mondaytosunday · 21/03/2026 21:51

No. What’s wrong with an HMO? My student DD lives in one, and many young professionals that’s the only way they can afford to live in London is by renting in a house share. Sounds like a good idea to me.

Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 21:58

You still haven’t explained your comment about a primary school

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:02

Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 21:58

You still haven’t explained your comment about a primary school

If this development attracts the same kind of people as the one nearby then it'll be rapists, drug dealers, growers, people who attack others with machetes.

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grizzlyoldbear · 21/03/2026 22:04

I think you have to be quite wealthy to live in these, they're really boutique, not like HMO's at all. There's a few in London which I thought looked really nice and think it's a good way of building community where there are isolated people who don't want to live alone.

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:05

It's not an area that wealthy people would choose to live.

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Gingerkittykat · 21/03/2026 22:07

I think most people in a low end HMO will be on benefits and will not be able to afford an HMO aimed at young professionals.

It is not young professionals who carry machetes. and if there will be weekly cleaners then they wouldn't be able to hide a grow flat. No development can guarantee there will be no rapists in the buildin, just like any street in a new build area.

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:12

Weekly cleaners?

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cestlavielife · 21/03/2026 22:13

What does a rapist look like op? They come from all classes

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:17

cestlavielife · 21/03/2026 22:13

What does a rapist look like op? They come from all classes

It's not about what they look like. The HMOs nearby have housed people who are rapists (convicted whilst living in the HMO, having raped women in it) and drug dealers and machete wielders

I'm sure that statistically that many crimes wouldn't occur on a street without an hmo

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YourShyLion · 21/03/2026 22:22

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 20:43

I want to be open minded but what professional wants to live in a bedsit with shared communal area and no parking? I just can't see it.

I don't understand what difference it makes if it's "young professionals" or not.

If it's somewhere people can live safely and happily then that's got to be a good thing surely? Or am I missing something

grizzlyoldbear · 21/03/2026 22:23

This thread is boring.
Move out if you don't want an a co-living space near you. Sounds like you don't like the area much anyway.
The end.

HangingOver · 21/03/2026 22:24

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 20:43

I want to be open minded but what professional wants to live in a bedsit with shared communal area and no parking? I just can't see it.

You can have a job and still be broke

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:24

grizzlyoldbear · 21/03/2026 22:23

This thread is boring.
Move out if you don't want an a co-living space near you. Sounds like you don't like the area much anyway.
The end.

Don't read it then!

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YourShyLion · 21/03/2026 22:25

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:17

It's not about what they look like. The HMOs nearby have housed people who are rapists (convicted whilst living in the HMO, having raped women in it) and drug dealers and machete wielders

I'm sure that statistically that many crimes wouldn't occur on a street without an hmo

Sorry missed your last post.

This is a completely ridiculous way to think. You've been reading far too many issues of certain newspapers and watching too much of certain tv stations.

For goodness sake, leave other people alone and stop being so bigoted, judgemental and nasty. Your views are based on hate speech. Please educate yourself!

Doggymummar · 21/03/2026 22:26

HotRootsAndNaughtyToots · 21/03/2026 20:45

Those waiting to get on the housing ladder and not wanting to live with students for a start

Me at 35 fleeing DV and it's all I could afford

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:26

YourShyLion · 21/03/2026 22:22

I don't understand what difference it makes if it's "young professionals" or not.

If it's somewhere people can live safely and happily then that's got to be a good thing surely? Or am I missing something

I think it's that nobody round here believes it is actually aimed at young professionals and that it's an HMO in disguise. This is because other HMOs nearby were also billed as being for young professionals but actually house people who commit terrible crimes.

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Doggymummar · 21/03/2026 22:28

JulietteHasAGun · 21/03/2026 21:46

Agree with this. Dd lives in a massive coliving building aimed at young professionals. The building is 50 floors high and there must be about 40-50 people on each floor. Not a single parking space and that was actually considered a positive when planning permission was granted. They don’t want cars and the traffic impact, they want people who are happy to walk/use public transport.

Her building is quite upmarket I would say. Certainly no issue with drugs or poor behaviour. She’s a young professional, they all have ensuite rooms, her flat has a shared kitchen and sitting area. The building has a large communal area (and a gym). It’s very sought after.

This seems to be the new model in Brighton to. They are safe secure but expensive to my mind. Fully furnished you just bring your clothes

Mathsdebator · 21/03/2026 22:30

YourShyLion · 21/03/2026 22:25

Sorry missed your last post.

This is a completely ridiculous way to think. You've been reading far too many issues of certain newspapers and watching too much of certain tv stations.

For goodness sake, leave other people alone and stop being so bigoted, judgemental and nasty. Your views are based on hate speech. Please educate yourself!

I'm not reading anything (although I did follow the latest rape case as an ex student of mine was found guilty of it)

I know people who live in the street. I know people whose kids have been offered drugs. I know a paramedic who dealt with a stabbing in one of the HMOs recently. I'm not sitting in an ivory tower reading the Daily Mail - I live in the North East, on a council estate. I'm not clutching my pearls and wanting to banish the peasants to the slums

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cestlavielife · 21/03/2026 22:32

Where do these people come from op? Are they housed from.prison? Is it a hmo specifically for ex offenders? Or does living in an hmo turn them into criminals? Is unclear what you mean really.
Have the machete wielders been arrested? Have the drug dealers been arrested?
For example maybe it is ained at key workers young teachers doctors social workers etc
Will they turn into machete wielding drug dealers because they share communal spaces?

likelysuspect · 21/03/2026 22:32

Sidebeforeself · 21/03/2026 20:44

What’s being near a primary school got to do with it?

Im wondering this. The most puzzling part of it.