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To take myself off for a gastropub dinner and leave teens at home?

12 replies

user1469565563 · 19/03/2026 18:55

Ugh, single mum, had it up to here with teens and arguments, ebsa, school meetings, housework, the lot. Kids are 17 and 18. Im done. They can sort their own dinner tonight!! Maybe I'll do this every fortnight???

OP posts:
Octavia64 · 19/03/2026 18:57

Honestly at those ages they’ll be fine.

TemporarilyCantDoMyself · 19/03/2026 18:57

17 and 18, perfectly capable of getting themselves some dinner.
Go out and be cooked for and have some space!

HelenaWilson · 19/03/2026 19:00

Honestly at those ages they’ll be fine.

I should hope so. Something has gone badly wrong if a 17 and 18yo can't look after themselves for an evening.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/03/2026 19:01

Your kids aren’t even kids, off to the pub you go!

Tings · 19/03/2026 19:03

HelenaWilson · 19/03/2026 19:00

Honestly at those ages they’ll be fine.

I should hope so. Something has gone badly wrong if a 17 and 18yo can't look after themselves for an evening.

Fuck me, this is exactly what I was thinking! 🤣

You don't have to ask Mumsnet OP, you're a grown woman with two very nearly adult teens.

SmugglersHaunt · 19/03/2026 19:07

I’d be on a plane to Faliraki

BlueMum16 · 19/03/2026 19:10

Enjoy your quiet tea. Glass of wine or two? Or a big pudding to make the night last longer.

Mine probably wouldn't even notice if gone out if I did this 🤣

Allthesnowallthetime · 19/03/2026 19:12

Fortnightly is not often enough!

Go every week, at least

RoseField1 · 19/03/2026 19:13

Why have you got EBSA and school meetings with teens of that age?

10namechangeslater · 19/03/2026 19:13

Kids??? An 18 year old isn’t a kid…

user1469565563 · 19/03/2026 19:18

Haha, I love these responses! I wasn't asking for permission as such, just venting. Im about to order second glass of wine with my harissa chicken and 2 sides. Cheers!!

OP posts:
Dollymylove · 19/03/2026 19:27

Chicken kyev, glass of pinot, chocolate cheesecake with double cream
Do it!!

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