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AIBU to complain again about sandwich shop manager.

58 replies

StressedOutButProudMama · 16/03/2026 20:03

AIBU to be annoyed at new Sandwich shop manager . So for years we've used the same Shop for sandwiches (a well known firm) and me and my son get two half white subs. I have issues with texture due to autism and prefer softer bread and my son prepares harder bread. So for years we've always asked for the the roll to be sliced and two bottoms used for my sub and two tops for my son's. I'll then add chicken mayo and cheese and my son tuna mayo and cheese. Staff had no issue as they are charging same amount because we both have a 6 inch sub roll it's just the tops are switched with each other. So essentially it's one 12" sub cut in half and the tops switched, I have the two bottoms he has the two tops. I'll say nothing about the staff who worked there up until now they are fantastic.

But yesterday we went in and there is a new manager. The girl who usually serves us started to swap the tops but was stopped. The manager insists that if we want two bottoms and two tops then we'd each have to buy a 12" and discard the half of the bread that's wasted. No amount of pointing out that we were paying for the whole sub anyway and were just a asking that she swap the tops over would register. She was adamant that we should have been served for a 12" every sandwich before then and that we'd effectively been getting freebies for years⁶⁸⁸. Even the normal staff tried to explain. But she wouldn't have it. Her other suggestion was that we dismantle our sandwiches after purchase and do it ourselves. Again tried to explain that it doesn't work like that with autism my son won't touch the bread once it comes into contact with chicken and I certainly don't want my chicken tasting of tuna. Well we ended up leaving and travelling a town away to get the same at another subway. (No issues there, and they gave us contact details for corporate)
So I emailed the firm asking why they had managed to do it so long but now the manager couldn't. Had a lovely call follow from them and was told they'd ensure the new manager was spoken too and would serve as normal after that they'd be advised that the method she suggested of buying a 12" each isn't acceptable as it would lead to unnecessary waste and overcharging us, when we only wanted a 6" and they should in fact give me two bottoms even if I wasn't swapping with my son if I requested it, because customers have ultimate choice of bread and filling.
So today we returned hoping that this manager was at least a little apologetic or would act as if nothing had happened. Instead she almost threw our sandwiches together while berating me for wasting corporates time and that insisted that clearly I had talked corporate into getting a freebie because they only value me because they believe the customer is always right, but she disagreed with that decision and she wasn't afraid to tell me and I shouldn't expect service with a smile when I'm taking advantage of the firm. AIBU if I went back to corporate because this woman is impossible. Even her staff asked her to stop but she ignored them. She isn't much nicer with them from what I have observed and much as I don't wish to stop going there because the other staff are lovely and it's a massive break in our routine,. But I really don't wish to deal with her much more.

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pinkyredrose · 16/03/2026 20:06

Best make your own rolls! The manager sounds a right piece of work though.

NoSoupForU · 16/03/2026 20:06

She sounds like a cunt. Complain away!

WoollyandSarah · 16/03/2026 20:07

Go for it. She's being illogical and intentionally difficult because she doesn't like being called out through appropriate channels.

Cherrysoup · 16/03/2026 20:07

Doesn’t sound very bright! How does she not understand that simply cutting the sub in half but putting the 2 bottoms/tops together = same bread as having a top and a bottom put together? Bizarre!

KellsBells7 · 16/03/2026 20:07

I’d complain without a doubt. I’m sure the staff will be grateful too. If she’s like that to a customer, I dread to think what’s she’s like to work for.

itsmeits · 16/03/2026 20:10

Yep.
Please start your email subject: Complaint regarding manager complaining, I complained about them to corporate.

wwhatthedickens · 16/03/2026 20:11

I don't usually advocate filming people but I'd be tempted to and send that off to head office too.

ChoosingMyOwnRandomUsername · 16/03/2026 20:12

Absolutely complain again, she sounds terrible.

Poppins2016 · 16/03/2026 20:12

I'd complain. The woman doesn't sound cut out for hospitality/customer facing roles/management. I feel really sorry for her team.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 16/03/2026 20:15

She’s being a complete twat. How can she actually think you’re getting freebies when she also suggested that you could swap the tops yourselves, therefore clearly you are not getting anything extra above what you’d be getting anyway (I understand why you don’t swap the tops).

Flannelfeet · 16/03/2026 20:18

Greedy for money.

I dont see what the problem is with sharing the same bloody roll with your son but how you like it!! 😤.

Hope you told him to stick it up his erse.

dooadoobydoobydoo · 16/03/2026 20:19

Please do complain again. She needs serious customer service retraining!

Holdmybeermoment · 16/03/2026 20:19

Given what their head office said to you then yes, go back to them and tell them exactly what she said to you today. Thats totally out of order and she sounds a bit thick… what does she think you are getting for free?

sugarshales · 16/03/2026 20:23

All this over a sub.

CynthiaRothrock · 16/03/2026 20:25

Definitely complain again, even if your request was unreasonable (which it isnt) she shouldn't be berating a customer.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 16/03/2026 20:26

That another email to head office then. She won’t be there long.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 16/03/2026 20:29

I'd email again with a complaint on the basis that those poor staff shouldn't be putting up with such an awful manager. Imagine how she treats them if she treats a paying customer like that? Unbelievable! I'd be hoping she'd be removed and the nice staff have their happy working environment back again!

ExitPursuedByABare · 16/03/2026 20:31

Do they serve 6” sandwiches?

ThisMustBeMyDream · 16/03/2026 22:04

ExitPursuedByABare · 16/03/2026 20:31

Do they serve 6” sandwiches?

Of course. It's Subway. They are famous for it.

Runningismyhappyplace50 · 16/03/2026 22:20

They are so in the wrong job. Complain again, they sound like a nightmare to customers and staff.

Miaminmoo · 18/03/2026 23:36

She needs to get a different job - she’d do well as a doctors receptionist (joking before you all start)

Wholelottawoman · 18/03/2026 23:50

She’s disrespectful to customers, staff members and corporate team (and a petty bitch) - she shouldn’t be a manager. I think you 100% need to complain again x

FruitFlyPie · 18/03/2026 23:56

She sounds horrible but would you want to go back to that store? I wouldn't. Life's too short, just go to another store.

Itsabingthin · 19/03/2026 00:16

Sounds very irritating all round

CassandraCan · 19/03/2026 01:05

You seem to have a lot of time on your hands. Make your own subs?