Unreasonable to expect anything on Mother’s Day?

[TheThreeStingrays]

But I would expect some effort on Mother’s Day. A card or an acknowledgement? I do lots for Father’s Day, should I stop bothering?

You shouldnt expect anything until the children are old enough. You don't need to do anything for Fathers day either.

It's nice if partners nudge things along but don't worry too much about it. Not that important

Match his effort for Father's Day