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AIBU to regret leaving a doormat behind when moving house?

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Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 15:43

Inspired by another thread about leaving light shades when moving house.

I left an outdoor mat when I moved. Figured, it's just a mat and would be lovely for the new tenants to have one less thing to worry about.

What I didn't appreciate was how impossible it would prove to replace said mat. It's since been discontinued and no one else is silly enough to get rid, so nothing on the resale sites.

I've since purchased many disappointing ones and have almost given up.

What's your one seemingly non-important thing you left behind and lived to regret?

YABU - It's just a mat, it wasn't .
YANBU - Regret some things.

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Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:25

PlasticFantas · 15/03/2026 19:06

Sorry, mine was also not light-hearted and I've surprised myself at the fury behind it. It was a stressful time, in my defence.

And I do now have a nice home with a nice fridge freezer.

Oh yay, all's well that ends well ❄️.

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Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:26

Hankunamatata · 15/03/2026 19:22

I paid a fortune for a mat for inside the door at one of those parties people hold to sell you stuff
Its amazing. Will never be able to get another one.

Never leave it behind, pack it first if you ever move 😅.

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Forestgreenblue · 15/03/2026 19:29

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:18

Sorry about your plants and garden.
A friend left plants and I didn't appreciate how reasonable she was to regret it until I started gardening.

Another poor door mat 😅. You should have, gone and got it, as punishment for mistreating the plants.

I know - yet another abandoned doormat out there wondering why it was left behind… it’s like Toy Story but just worse. And yes the sodding garden!! Nevermind the fact I was forced to pay for gardeners to adhere to the T&Cs of my tenancy - clearly they don’t have the same wording in theirs given the state of it now. But my poor trees too…. I’m shit at gardening but those trees were so easy to keep in shape

Serious advice - just steal the doormat back. Get one of those bush outfits off amazon and discretely sneak along the road and run off with it. I believe in you

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:31

AddictedToBooks · 15/03/2026 19:22

The stupidest thing I regretted leaving at our old house was the gorgeous thick Victorian wrought iron gate - I was really houseproud and used to sit and de-rust and lovingly paint that gate every single Spring (still even remember it had 32 curls that were a bugger to paint because they curled into proper spiral curls) - I sometimes have to go past our old house and the gate is still there but totally rusty and in such a bad state and it's such a shame as it was the original to the house (a Victorian terrace) and was the only original gate on the street.

Such a stupid thing to regret but I'm massively into traditional/vintage and especially the Victorian era - when we bought this house, it had a plain front which I turned into a traditional garden and after much searching, I found two gorgeous Victorian wrought iron gates - if we sell this house, those buggers are coming with me lol

I can see why, after looking after it ao well.

Please tell your buyers, otherwise they'll be in shock like @Alaap 😅.

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Hankunamatata · 15/03/2026 19:31

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:26

Never leave it behind, pack it first if you ever move 😅.

I may be buried with it lol

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:33

SaucepanRattle · 15/03/2026 19:24

I'm a petty twat so I literally left nothing at my last house. The new owners have turned out to be actually quite nice so I feel a bit bad.

Actually. I left the recycling bag and at our new house the bin men nicked it and they no longer provide bags but boxes which don't fit where the bag fitted.

Thoughts and prayers for my recycling bag 😞

Well, sod's law means if you had left anything, they wouldn't have turned out to be nice. So don't feel bad.
Your recycling bag is in our thoughts. Hopefully not in some landfill.

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gmgnts · 15/03/2026 19:36

I left a really nice sculpture of a heron looking over our garden pond. I had meant to take it, but it got forgotten in the removal. When I went back a couple of years later, it was still there - I hope the new owners were enjoying it.

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:37

Forestgreenblue · 15/03/2026 19:29

I know - yet another abandoned doormat out there wondering why it was left behind… it’s like Toy Story but just worse. And yes the sodding garden!! Nevermind the fact I was forced to pay for gardeners to adhere to the T&Cs of my tenancy - clearly they don’t have the same wording in theirs given the state of it now. But my poor trees too…. I’m shit at gardening but those trees were so easy to keep in shape

Serious advice - just steal the doormat back. Get one of those bush outfits off amazon and discretely sneak along the road and run off with it. I believe in you

That's the thing, you jump through hoops and yet the next person gives 0%!

Haha, may well do. It was 8 years ago though, but I belive in it's powers, so it's probably still going strong 😅.

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Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:37

Hankunamatata · 15/03/2026 19:31

I may be buried with it lol

😅.

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AddictedToBooks · 15/03/2026 19:38

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:31

I can see why, after looking after it ao well.

Please tell your buyers, otherwise they'll be in shock like @Alaap 😅.

I'm taking them off and replacing them with cheaper Wickes versions before we even put the house up for sale 😂

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:40

gmgnts · 15/03/2026 19:36

I left a really nice sculpture of a heron looking over our garden pond. I had meant to take it, but it got forgotten in the removal. When I went back a couple of years later, it was still there - I hope the new owners were enjoying it.

Oh, great it's still there and not chucked out. Doesn't make it right of course.

Makes me wonder if some people go back and ask steal things back.

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Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:41

AddictedToBooks · 15/03/2026 19:38

I'm taking them off and replacing them with cheaper Wickes versions before we even put the house up for sale 😂

Great plan. That's what I'm doing with my lampshades 😅.

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BoarBrush · 15/03/2026 19:42

Forestgreenblue · 15/03/2026 18:54

I left plants behind - 2 well cared for healthy Flamingo Salix. Id just had enough of moving bulky things. They were in large pots to allow them to grow

Wish I’d took them. Drove past my old house in the last 6 months and the outside is rife with weeds so god knows what the back garden is like or indeed my trees. I bet they are dead

Weirdly I also left a doormat too. A really nice one. And a few months of living at my new house ended up buying a similar one. Although I did consider driving past old house in the middle of the night and stealing mine back 😂technically wouldn’t be theft since they didn’t ’buy’ my old house/fixtures and fittings - it’s a rental

This my friend is exactly why I dug up all my dahlia tubers, no way was some fecker getting the chance to ruin them when they brought so much joy.

Awishcometrue · 15/03/2026 19:46

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 16:11

Totally agree. I had a favourite peppermint Burts Bees shower gel that was discontinued for reasons unknown. I still daydream about that one too.

Is it the bee lovely bath and shower gel? If so they have it on ebay
Edited ...just realised you wanted the peppermint one🙄

AddictedToBooks · 15/03/2026 19:47

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 19:41

Great plan. That's what I'm doing with my lampshades 😅.

😂

DeftWasp · 15/03/2026 19:51

Choccyp1g · 15/03/2026 16:59

Capitalism innit.

Problem is communism didn't do any better, they designed the product and stopped developing it - I give you the Trabant and the Lada, both with near 30 year production spans, both shite and no improvements.

ImNotReallyHere · 15/03/2026 19:52

Two things spring to mind.

Left a set of gorgeous expensive curtains behind. They had been made to measure and huge. We were moving into rented whilst looking to buy. Then found a house where they would have been perfect.

Second is also a rug. My mum left behind as downsizing and was too big and I couldn’t fit it in my car. I do miss that rug.

AnotherExpatKiwi · 15/03/2026 19:55

I’m on the other side of this as when I bought my first house in 1994, the owner (who was a painter decorator I believe) left behind an aluminium stepladder with his name painted on the side. I still have it, 32 years later and every time I use it I go “thank you G Moon”. Some left behind things are cherished.

Forestgreenblue · 15/03/2026 19:57

ImNotReallyHere · 15/03/2026 19:52

Two things spring to mind.

Left a set of gorgeous expensive curtains behind. They had been made to measure and huge. We were moving into rented whilst looking to buy. Then found a house where they would have been perfect.

Second is also a rug. My mum left behind as downsizing and was too big and I couldn’t fit it in my car. I do miss that rug.

OMG! Curtains!!! Almost forgot about this!! Had an ex who had a gorgeous set of grey curtains in the living room. Full length. Perfectly matched with the room.

He sold the house and I went round a few weeks later to collect post and they had removed them for - a set of BRIGHT RED velvet curtains. Bloody awful. They had also added a load of really shit pine furniture. It looked like a really naff 1980s ski lodge

DreamTheMoors · 15/03/2026 20:00

My friend gave me the perfect doormat when I moved house. It’s a a lovely tan brush mat that has big black letters reading, “GO AWAY.”

It was perfect, funny and I loved it - but it was too high. It blocked the door when you tried to open it. So I had to place it beside the actual doormat where it lost a bit of its punch.

I still love it, though.

Occasionalcyclist · 15/03/2026 20:02

@Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease I have this doormat which is quite astroturfy and has grooves? Could it be a replacement for your long-lost doormat?
www.diy.com/departments/jvl-mud-grabber-spaghetti-scraper-doormat-40x60cm-black-square/5017440511039_BQ.prd

WingsofRain · 15/03/2026 20:09

I got a beautiful tea and dinner set from M&S as wedding presents and I was unreasonably proud of it. I had the whole thing, even the useless bits like the gravy boat and graded milk jugs.
When I left I had to just take what I could fit in my car and so my exH got it all. It was just china but 40 years later I still regret that I couldn’t take it all with me. I can’t even remember what the pattern was called so I could replace it from second hand shops.

godmum56 · 15/03/2026 20:09

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 15/03/2026 16:11

Totally agree. I had a favourite peppermint Burts Bees shower gel that was discontinued for reasons unknown. I still daydream about that one too.

L'occitane rose oil in a pump bottle sigh......

Manzana · 15/03/2026 20:10

mine is a really really large slab of limestone, with ripple marks, we left it in the garden where it lay in front of our compost bin, made a good standing area. we thought it too heavy to shift but I wish we had made the effort.

FussyFancyDragon · 15/03/2026 20:32

I left my Laura Ashley curtains in a house that I sold to a friend, as they had been made to fit a big window. I didn’t expect her to keep them if they weren’t her style, but it was lovely material and could have gone to a charity shop when she was ready to redecorate. Instead, she replaced them with curtains too short, and used them as painting dust sheets before binning them.