I work in care sector and often get calls for extra hours /shifts due to family commitments I cannot just drop and go in, I have a excellent attendance record but I'm getting messages and calls at stupid times of the day night, from personal phones and social media apps asking me to go in, I try but genuinely cannot just go in due to young children in family, I have now exit social media platforms and blocked personal numbers in a attempt to be left alone, and only allow calls direct from work am I been unreasonable? After all I'm entitled to days off and my privacy it feels like they own me and I cannot say no