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AIBU to feel torn about complaining after finding hair in our hotel room?

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LadyLavenderUrchin · 14/03/2026 15:47

My sisters and I just got to our spa hotel getaway, our children gifted us this experience for mothers' day, we really needed something like this. We got our room, but I found multiple long strands of black hair on my pillow.
i would really like to complain, but at the same time I don't want some poor staffmember get in trouble. Especially if she is a mom with mothers day this weekend. It is just frustrating, I know the kids ans hubbies paid good money for this.

Am I being unreasonable to consider her being scolded? Should I just do it anyway? I must be hormonal being so hung up on it

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HotRootsAndNaughtyToots · 14/03/2026 15:51

Definitely complain

LoveWine123 · 14/03/2026 16:00

Just ask for a new pillowcase and enjoy your stay.

Pieceofpurplesky · 14/03/2026 16:03

Regardless of the day it's someone's job to ensure this doesn't happen. I would complain as if you can see the hair what can't you see???

chateauneufdupapa · 14/03/2026 16:04

Don’t complain, it’s ridiculous.

MissMoneyFairy · 14/03/2026 16:05

Is be checking all the bed and towels, speak to reception and ask for a full bed and pillow change, take photos.

CrocusesFlowering · 14/03/2026 16:11

Yes I’d ask for a full change of the bed linen. Why wouldn’t you?

LadyLavenderUrchin · 14/03/2026 16:19

yes it makes sense to have it sorted. thank you. something just made me feel a bit entitled about it

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MsRosewater · 14/03/2026 16:34

Eeeeuw! Defo ask them to change the bedding. It’s not unreasonable or demanding to expect basic cleaning

Mrsmouse71 · 14/03/2026 16:57

Yes you are entitled….. to have a clean bed!

TheChosenTwo · 14/03/2026 17:02

You don’t need to make a song and dance about it, just call down and ask for replacement bedding 😵‍💫

ToKittyornottoKitty · 14/03/2026 17:07

You don’t need to complain, you just need to ask for a new pillow

LadyLavenderUrchin · 14/03/2026 17:40

Mrsmouse71 · 14/03/2026 16:57

Yes you are entitled….. to have a clean bed!

lol! true!

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Zov · 14/03/2026 17:42

That's rank and vile and grim. Shock

New pillow case for sure.

Makes me wonder what other horrors lie in there though, and I would reconsider if I wanted to stay!

Wildgoat · 14/03/2026 17:42

I said unreasonable but I meant as uou actually are considering complaining.

JMSA · 15/03/2026 01:58

LoveWine123 · 14/03/2026 16:00

Just ask for a new pillowcase and enjoy your stay.

Exactly this 🤷‍♀️

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