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So scared after DHs test results and trying to be brave

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Scared908 · 13/03/2026 18:47

DH has had a scan today and the results were fired back to the GP who called within 4 hours of the scan (unheard of here to even get an appointment most of the time!). They have found what they think are calcifications and nodules of "unknown cause", and he is being fast tracked to specialists for further scans and investigations and should have an appointment within 2 weeks.

He has lost a lot of weight and has been feeling really tired for a while, and also a couple of other worrying symptoms. He is only 50. I am just so scared about what will happen next and keep telling myself it isn't real and I will wake up any minute.

it has to be nothing, it has to be.

Just looking for an outlet really because I am really scared and am holding back tears so I can be strong for him, but I am in bits :( There is no one in RL I can talk to.

OP posts:
Villanousvillans · 15/03/2026 19:49

I’ve been through this with my DH. It’s excellent advice to take one day at a time. The other things we did was trying to keep busy and do nice things.

You will get through this, whatever it is. We find a strength we didn’t know we had. Sending love and strength your way. ❤️💪

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