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To think most jobs are boring and do not give people fulfilment ?

153 replies

HavefunGomadLivingInTheCity · 10/03/2026 14:59

Perhaps day 80percent maybe even 90 ?

it’s just a way to get money and pay bills and live and maybe have a few holidays and treats etc Along the way

I just find it fake how younger generations are told they need to find something that going to make them feel so good

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cobrakaieaglefang · 10/03/2026 21:50

FacingtheSun · 10/03/2026 21:22

Or you could see her as advocating lowering children’s ambitions and limiting their horizons.

Well, that was certainly how I saw it, and the refusal to help me stay at school, I had to support myself through 6th form although she got the tops ups for me but I spent years trying to climb career ladder to be thwarted by internal politics, backstabbing and I became disillusioned and dropped from management and I'm much happier. I have a better work/ life balance now. I have a job.

XenoBitch · 10/03/2026 21:53

MissApplejack · 10/03/2026 21:44

That’s true , it could turn a passion into a chore with deadlines

Yeah, I do crafts to help with my mental health. I was told on here to turn it into a job. Turning a coping skill into a paid job sounds like a recipe for disaster to me.... plus it seems no one has no idea how hard it is to turn crafts into money nowadays.

FacingtheSun · 10/03/2026 21:54

cobrakaieaglefang · 10/03/2026 21:50

Well, that was certainly how I saw it, and the refusal to help me stay at school, I had to support myself through 6th form although she got the tops ups for me but I spent years trying to climb career ladder to be thwarted by internal politics, backstabbing and I became disillusioned and dropped from management and I'm much happier. I have a better work/ life balance now. I have a job.

Oh, I hear you. My parents tried to get me to leave school at 15, and were adamant that university wasn’t ’for the likes of us’, and I’d never be happy if I got above myself. Fortunately I was stubborn.

TheNameWasOnceChosen · 10/03/2026 21:55

I loved my job. I was in the same job for 30 years (minus 3 years for a degree in social work). I only left because I had a Stroke (and Multiple Sclerosis and Epilepsy). I truly love it. Every day.

mjf981 · 10/03/2026 21:56

Generally yes.

I went in to a job I was 'passionate' about and studied for many years to get there. And now, 20 years on, I hate it. The wage is very mediocre. 90% of my profession is BS and designed to extract money from people for questionable benefit.

XenoBitch · 10/03/2026 22:00

FacingtheSun · 10/03/2026 21:54

Oh, I hear you. My parents tried to get me to leave school at 15, and were adamant that university wasn’t ’for the likes of us’, and I’d never be happy if I got above myself. Fortunately I was stubborn.

Similar here. Office jobs were not "real jobs". I am one of 3, and 2 of us left school and went into cleaning. It was considered "real" work.

echt · 10/03/2026 22:04

I taught for 43 years in secondary schools and was never bored. Not for one minute. Sometimes stressed and a couple of times unhappy, but never ever bored.

FacingtheSun · 10/03/2026 22:11

XenoBitch · 10/03/2026 22:00

Similar here. Office jobs were not "real jobs". I am one of 3, and 2 of us left school and went into cleaning. It was considered "real" work.

That’s certainly what mine would have preferred. Office work involved notions.

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:15

I think it's important to try and find something you enjoy and find meaningful. Otherwise it's depressing arguably to do something until you retire which you don't enjoy.

I'm Gen Z & hope to be a criminal barrister. I don't think it will be boring, stressful is another matter...!

SaucepanRattle · 10/03/2026 22:16

I think liking your job and being fulfilled is a privilege. But I think more people have it than don't. I certainly do. It's definitely not suitable for most people but it suits me and my interests and gives me purpose and fulfilment.

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:17

mjf981 · 10/03/2026 21:56

Generally yes.

I went in to a job I was 'passionate' about and studied for many years to get there. And now, 20 years on, I hate it. The wage is very mediocre. 90% of my profession is BS and designed to extract money from people for questionable benefit.

Edited

What kind of job is this?

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:20

SuzyFandango · 10/03/2026 19:00

At the end of the day most jobs are things you are paid to do and would not choose to spend your free time doing unless paid.

If they were super fun exciting things people would choose to do them for free. There's a word for these activities. Hobbies. Many people do hobbies to a high skill level that they have worked hard to achieve, but fundamentally they are activities which are enjoyable and fulfilling so people are happy to do them for free or even pay to do them.

I think a lot of young people have been given a notion that they must find something exciting and fulfilling etc to pursue a career in it and have unrealistic expectations of work.

In reality most jobs:

  • have some fulfilling/rewarding moments
  • have some work that is demanding/challenging/stressful
  • have a lot of fairly dull work, including dealing with annoying people or frustrating systems, repetitive or unrewarding admin/process stuff

Hobbies are work if you do them for a job though. People who act or sing or play sport enjoy it hopefully but they also have to do stressful or boring stuff.

If something is a hobby only of course it will be more fun because you can pick the more fun bits, there's less pressure etc

XelaM · 10/03/2026 22:22

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:17

What kind of job is this?

Law most likely 😂 I feel the same way

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:23

SuzyFandango · 10/03/2026 19:21

I enjoy my job in the context of being paid to do it but its not how I'd spend time if it didn't pay well.

There are some "fulfilling" low stress jobs I'm aware of (pet sitting always seems to come up) but they are generally low paid, insecure, self employed etc with no pension and would not allow me to provide adequately for my family.

What kind of job do you have?.

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:26

FacingtheSun · 10/03/2026 17:05

And some people can't make their passion pay, or not enough to live on, or they don't want to make the compromises with their passion that would be needed to make it pay, so they arrange their working life around facilitating doing what they really love.

I know a writer who makes most of his money from being a postman, for example. He enjoys the exercise and starting and finishing early, so he has the bulk of the day to write. He probably won't do it all his life, but it suits him now. He's chosen that over writing more commercial novels.

I'd love to write novels but I thought doing it as a job would take the enjoyment away. That solution sounds good if it works for him.

Carla786 · 10/03/2026 22:32

I think another element is some people are better able to switch off/compartmentalise so they may be less affected by stressful environments that may come with a fulfilling job.

Forthesteps · 10/03/2026 22:35

HavefunGomadLivingInTheCity · 10/03/2026 15:09

I just think young people are sold some sort of unrealistic dream

By whom? I certainly never told my kids any such thing.
Can you live on the money? Does it use your skills? Is it socially useful? Those are the questions I encouraged them to ask

Forthesteps · 10/03/2026 22:35

Double pot sorry

LittlestMouse · 10/03/2026 22:53

Im a relatively young person in my late 20s

Ive never loved any job...I get bored and fed up around the 6 month mark.

But my job is fine. I dont hate it. My colleagues are nice, the pay is good, the hours are flexible, if i work more than my contracted hours i get the time back and it feels like im making a net positive to society.

Sure i'd rather not work, but this will do

I used to do a 'passion job' that would never have paid enough for me to move out of my parents house. Now i own a home (outer London), have pets and hobbies and can comfortably save

This is better!

bonbonours · 10/03/2026 23:04

I'm self employed and do various different types of teaching (not school staff) to adults and kids. There are some parts of my job I'd prefer not to do but overall mostly enjoy my work. My previous job was in radio production which again, on the whole I enjoyed most of. I'd say at least 80 per cent of the time I enjoy my work. It's not particularly well paid but I'd rather be happier in work than do something I hate for a massive salary.

Vigorouslysnuggled · 10/03/2026 23:16

mjf981 · 10/03/2026 21:56

Generally yes.

I went in to a job I was 'passionate' about and studied for many years to get there. And now, 20 years on, I hate it. The wage is very mediocre. 90% of my profession is BS and designed to extract money from people for questionable benefit.

Edited

Law?

TouchtheEarth · 11/03/2026 02:37

Once I found the right career I didn't have a boring day for the next 15 years. (when I retired) and I loved the job and the product we were making.
If you are bored, find something that you are good at and that you care about. Life's too short to watch a clock.

Crushed23 · 11/03/2026 04:19

TouchtheEarth · 11/03/2026 02:37

Once I found the right career I didn't have a boring day for the next 15 years. (when I retired) and I loved the job and the product we were making.
If you are bored, find something that you are good at and that you care about. Life's too short to watch a clock.

If only I had time to watch the clock. My job is not unfulfilling because I’ve got nothing to do, it’s stressful AF with not enough hours in the day to get the job done to an excellent standard and have any semblance of a life outside work. But it pays well, so that I can find fulfilment in other ways (travel, hobbies, socialising with friends etc.), - that’s why I and 90% of the profession stays. No one would put themselves through this shit if it didn’t pay well.

Edit: the other 10% seem to love it, the crazy, masochistic weirdos.

SantiagoShaming · 11/03/2026 04:34

I love my job. I’ve been in my sector since I graduated just under 20 years ago and I can honestly say I always look forward to my work day. I’ve never dreaded going to work. I’m unlikely to ever be a very high earner, but I earn about 75K which is enough to not have to worry and I still have room for growth.

paintedpanda · 11/03/2026 04:40

I work in healthcare in a job I love and find really rewarding. However, if I didn’t have to be there I wouldn’t be. I love the job but I hate the politics and getting up at 6am and 12h shifts.

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