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To absolutely loathe the increase in smear campaigns against businesses because of the halal meat debate?

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nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

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EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:27

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:23

Well, I presume that Holy Communion wafers have special significance to Christians.

And likewise, I presume that halal meat has special significance to Muslims.

As far as I'm concerned, as an atheist, they are just wafers and meat with no significance at all, hence I wouldn't have any objections to eating them (if I actually ate meat, which I don't).

I asked about schools. I agree with @NoisyViewereveryone should give consent before consuming food connected to religious rituals. No they shouldn’t happily eat anything just because they are unaware.

It is always ok for people to choose to opt out of religious ritual and practise. And it should be made clear so they can decide. Or parents for them if too young.

nc0007 · 11/03/2026 10:31

FrizzyFrizbee · 11/03/2026 10:11

The fact of the matter is that any thread can generate debate around the opinions expressed. Did you call out anyone “derailing” your thread, whose beliefs were aligned to your own?

And I don’t think this debate is only about animal welfare either. People are calling out the dubious exceptions given In laws to groups of people based on religion. It is NOT bigoted or racist to be cheesed off about that, nor to call it out. And I may not agree some forms of protest, but I have seen far, far, far worse forms of protest around other contentious issues.

As far as I am concerned, I am glad the issue is getting more attention. I think it’s high time the government ditched the two tier legal system, and mandated ever higher welfare standards, also applying to imported meat.

I have, upthread. I’m engaging with you directly because you decided to quote me in the first place.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:32

NoisyViewer · 11/03/2026 10:21

But the point your missing is your daughter wouldn’t be given a blessed piece of bread because as an atheist and someone who hasn’t taken their first communion they’d only get it fraudulently by lying they have been. This would never be inflicted on her knowingly .

To suggest it doesn’t matter anyway is to be wilfully ignorant about others consent into participating in a religious practice. They may not want their food blessed by a pray of a religion they don’t follow if they’re atheist or not. Some people maybe as vehemently anti religion that they wish to be no part of any religious practices by eating that blessed meat unwittingly they’re being made to. Their beliefs are not any less valid just because they didn’t witness fhe ritual doesn’t mean it’s ok. They should label the meat and advertise it.

I'm not missing that point at all, I'm responding to a hypothetical scenario put forward by a pp. I recognised that the scenario was flawed for precisely the reasons that you have outlined, I was trying to respond to the pp's question in good faith.

I don't understand why people keep putting forward strawman arguments about people being forced to eat halal meat against their will. Nobody is arguing that people should have to eat it if they don't want to, and nobody is arguing that it shouldn't be labelled.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:33

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:27

I asked about schools. I agree with @NoisyViewereveryone should give consent before consuming food connected to religious rituals. No they shouldn’t happily eat anything just because they are unaware.

It is always ok for people to choose to opt out of religious ritual and practise. And it should be made clear so they can decide. Or parents for them if too young.

Who is stopping anyone from opting out?

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:33

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:32

I'm not missing that point at all, I'm responding to a hypothetical scenario put forward by a pp. I recognised that the scenario was flawed for precisely the reasons that you have outlined, I was trying to respond to the pp's question in good faith.

I don't understand why people keep putting forward strawman arguments about people being forced to eat halal meat against their will. Nobody is arguing that people should have to eat it if they don't want to, and nobody is arguing that it shouldn't be labelled.

Plenty are saying people are bigoted or intolerant if they don’t want to eat, buy halal or have it as the only option in schools. That’s the problem.

If that’s changed and people accept a no without that in return then great.

Edndns · 11/03/2026 10:34

As a non religious Hindu..I would eat holy communion wafers if I wanted to..I eat halal and non halal. It doesn't bother me. I just don't need beef and pork. If someone blessed and prayed over my refried beans for example I wouldn't be bothered. I'd enjoy the food.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:37

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:25

So blissfully oblivious wouldn't cut it in that scenario.

Well, clearly not.

Anyone who has specific dietary requirements doesn't have the luxury of being blissfully oblivious - they will need to proactively check.

Isn't this just common sense?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:41

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:33

Plenty are saying people are bigoted or intolerant if they don’t want to eat, buy halal or have it as the only option in schools. That’s the problem.

If that’s changed and people accept a no without that in return then great.

That isn't what people are saying. People can choose to eat, or avoid eating, whatever they like. I don't eat halal meat because I'm vegetarian. That doesn't make me a bigot.

The issue is with people claiming to avoid halal because of animal welfare reasons when they are quite happy to eat other mass produced meat without any concerns about animal welfare. This is clearly disingenuous, and it's therefore reasonable to question people's motivations.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:43

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:33

Who is stopping anyone from opting out?

Some do it through accusations of bigotry and intolerance as below. Rather than accepting it and saying ok.

However since everyone seems to want clear halal labelling and options for everyone including those who wish to avoid it, in schools and hospitals too then great perhaps all agree.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:46

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:41

That isn't what people are saying. People can choose to eat, or avoid eating, whatever they like. I don't eat halal meat because I'm vegetarian. That doesn't make me a bigot.

The issue is with people claiming to avoid halal because of animal welfare reasons when they are quite happy to eat other mass produced meat without any concerns about animal welfare. This is clearly disingenuous, and it's therefore reasonable to question people's motivations.

Both reasons are valid.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:48

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:43

Some do it through accusations of bigotry and intolerance as below. Rather than accepting it and saying ok.

However since everyone seems to want clear halal labelling and options for everyone including those who wish to avoid it, in schools and hospitals too then great perhaps all agree.

The allegations of bigotry arise from the shameless attempts to portray halal meat as being intrinsically more cruel than non-halal meat. The evidence doesn't support this, and it's clear that the people pushing this narrative are doing so with their own agenda.

There is no issue with people making personal choices about what they do or do not wish to eat.

Anonanonay · 11/03/2026 10:49

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 00:36

Well, yes, I've been a vegetarian for almost 40 years too. I'm not a fan of slaughtering animals in a cruel way either, and I agree it's unnecessary. However, I am also against the cruelty involved in factory farming and I don't find that necessary either.

In addition, as a vegetarian and not a vegan, I'm aware of the tremendous cruelty involved in the dairy industry. I'm not ready to give up milk just yet, but i recognise that it would be hypocritical of me as a non-vegan to start lecturing others on what type of animal cruelty is tolerable and what type is intolerable.

Why aren’t you opposed to cruel ritual slaughter?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:49

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:46

Both reasons are valid.

I disagree.

JellyCatsOnToast · 11/03/2026 10:50

BigYellowBus · 09/03/2026 07:19

People seem far more outraged about halal than kosher food. Funny that...

They don’t sell Kosher chicken in KFC, it’s not niche so obviously people care less

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:53

Anonanonay · 11/03/2026 10:49

Why aren’t you opposed to cruel ritual slaughter?

I am. But I'm equally opposed to cruel non-ritual slaughter. And I'm opposed to cruel farming methods employed in mass produced meat.

I'm also opposed to people making spurious claims purporting to care about animal welfare in order to push hateful narratives when their behaviour makes it very clear that they don't actually care about animal welfare at all.

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:53

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:37

Well, clearly not.

Anyone who has specific dietary requirements doesn't have the luxury of being blissfully oblivious - they will need to proactively check.

Isn't this just common sense?

If regular non slaughtered by a Muslim under strict sharia law meat has always been the standard then why would you feel parents would have to check if schools have changed their food, the onus should be on the school or establishment to inform their pupils or customers about that unless you think sharia law slaughtered animals should now be the standard in the UK?
Isn't this just common sense?

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 11/03/2026 10:57

nc0007 · 09/03/2026 08:12

This thread isn’t about that! The debate isn’t a debate because there are people out there that think like this. That they have to defend whether they’re racist or not because someone points out that smearing businesses is driven by racism. Nobody out in the real world who possesses the emotional intelligence to have an actual debate resorts to those actions. They’re able to hold a conversation and appreciate that people have different points of view. Note how I’ve purposely left out my opinion on the wider debate - because it’s not part of this discussion.

I sense this comment isn’t meant to be a joke, but it’s a big one. OP, you opened your post by saying, “You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal.” “Seething” is a pretty high emotion word; we don’t often use it about ourselves, but we do use it more often with people we feel are over-acting their anger. Also “may or may not be” implies the type of person that allows their anger to overflow about a situation that isn’t even certain. I doubt you’d say it about a group you belonged to, so we know that’s not your opinion. Your comments have only made it clearer that you have disdain for these “seething” people and since you mentioned them signing “Restore Britain,” we all know who you mean, and it’s not the kebab shop owner down the road, is it?

So… halal and kosher discussion is inherently either a discussion of understanding OR of racism or religious intolerance - if it doesn’t change the flavor of the meat, why are all these “Restore Britain” types so up in arms? I’ll give you a hint: it starts with Is and ends with lam. Or if they’re complaining about kosher instead, it starts with Je and ends with wish. Shrug. If someone is SO into animal welfare that think halal or kosher is more cruel than regular factory farming methods, then I hope they’re either vegetarian or only buying meat from small holdings that’s been hand reared. 🤷‍♀️

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:57

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:53

If regular non slaughtered by a Muslim under strict sharia law meat has always been the standard then why would you feel parents would have to check if schools have changed their food, the onus should be on the school or establishment to inform their pupils or customers about that unless you think sharia law slaughtered animals should now be the standard in the UK?
Isn't this just common sense?

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I would say it's common sense to assume that schools can choose to serve any food that is legally permitted in this country. If parents have specific requirements around what they want their children to eat, then I would expect them to check.

Most people won't be bothered either way. Those that consider it important will make an effort to find out.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 11:01

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:53

I am. But I'm equally opposed to cruel non-ritual slaughter. And I'm opposed to cruel farming methods employed in mass produced meat.

I'm also opposed to people making spurious claims purporting to care about animal welfare in order to push hateful narratives when their behaviour makes it very clear that they don't actually care about animal welfare at all.

Reading the post below on the process I’m happy to avoid for both reasons.

So clear labelling and all options in public places. Let consumers show demand based on that.

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 11:05

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:57

I would say it's common sense to assume that schools can choose to serve any food that is legally permitted in this country. If parents have specific requirements around what they want their children to eat, then I would expect them to check.

Most people won't be bothered either way. Those that consider it important will make an effort to find out.

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Dont be so ridiculous, regular meat has always been the norm so any change from that should be relayed to them. So how often should parents check if their is no onus on the school to let them know? Daily? Weekly? Monthly?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 11:07

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 11:01

Reading the post below on the process I’m happy to avoid for both reasons.

So clear labelling and all options in public places. Let consumers show demand based on that.

Edited

I support clear labelling, but I think it should be more than just halal or kosher.

It should be clear as to whether animals are stunned or not, and further details should be provided about how the animal was slaughtered and how it was treated while alive. I'm sure that anyone who genuinely cares about animal welfare would support the provision of such information, so that everyone can make informed decisions about the food that they eat.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 11:09

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 11:05

Dont be so ridiculous, regular meat has always been the norm so any change from that should be relayed to them. So how often should parents check if their is no onus on the school to let them know? Daily? Weekly? Monthly?

I'm sure anyone with particular concerns could ask to be informed if the school changes its meat supply.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 11:10

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 11:07

I support clear labelling, but I think it should be more than just halal or kosher.

It should be clear as to whether animals are stunned or not, and further details should be provided about how the animal was slaughtered and how it was treated while alive. I'm sure that anyone who genuinely cares about animal welfare would support the provision of such information, so that everyone can make informed decisions about the food that they eat.

Fine if you like. Halal, kosher and welfare. No problem.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 11:12

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 11:10

Fine if you like. Halal, kosher and welfare. No problem.

Great.

RobinEllacotStrike · 11/03/2026 11:15

Whats wrong with wanting to know if meat is "halal" or "kosher" or not?

Surely the religious people being accommodated by halal or kosher means of slaughter need to know so they can eat at that restaurant or buy that product, and people who object to eating halal/kosher meat want to know so they can avoid it.

If we are going to have animals killed by religious instruction it needs to be labelled correctly. Othewise what is the point?

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