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AIBU not wanting son's friends peeing in the garden

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DandyLemonTraybake · 08/03/2026 11:17

My son's (20M) football team had a big game yesterday evening and we were hosting the after party as he's the team captain. I drove my son and a few of his teammates home and the others Ubered to ours. I was pulling into the driveway and noticed a few of his teammates just arriving and getting out of the car. They were already quite drunk as there had been drinking at the game in the change rooms and a few of them made a beeline to the bushes and began peeing. One of them was also peeing into the bushes lining the drive way. I got out and asked him if he could please not do that and he just gave me a dismissive look and ran off after finishing. I find this to be pretty disrespectful but am not sure if it's just me.

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CakeMeHomeIveSeenEnough · 08/03/2026 14:04

Disrespectful, unhygienic, and stinky. And then dismissive when you asked them not to do it?! These friends wouldn't be welcome back in my home. They can arrange to meet elsewhere next time.

Fast5 · 08/03/2026 14:09

I know plenty of people (including me when needs must) who don't mind a wild wee, but in someone's garden? Just no.

TON618 · 08/03/2026 20:21

You are most definitely NOT unreasonable. Those minging feral pissheads would not have got off so lightly my garden.

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