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Religion in the workplace

531 replies

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 17:27

For the last month we have been sent messages email, background screens and management briefings for a particular religion.

the following messages to

”showing visible support,
encouraging meaningful conversations, and deepening our understanding of the experiences of those of observences”

as well as being told to be considered with meetings etc and thoughtful and supportive!!!

OP posts:
BlueJuniper94 · 04/03/2026 20:55

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 20:52

I’m not interested in having an actual religious debate, I’m more interested in the rampant Islamophobia and racism apparent in this thread.

Well no, exactly, you know I am correct and your argument was silly.

Arlanymor · 04/03/2026 20:55

BlueJuniper94 · 04/03/2026 20:52

Because we are a country and culture that has been built on Christianty. Like it or not this is the software package that has shaped your beliefs and values of kindness, tolerance and hospitality to outsiders. Can you name any Islamic countries that extend that welcome to Christians within it?

Edited

Egypt.

MasterBeth · 04/03/2026 20:56

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 17:45

I think religion should be separate from work and not pushed onto others.

So do I. But being asked to understand others' religious beliefs isn't that.

Cherrysherbet · 04/03/2026 20:57

I’m happy to get to know all colleagues I work with, and I’m always respectful to everyone.

I do not, however, want to know anything about their religion. I am not a religious person. I actually believe that religion causes nothing but hate and conflict across the world (just look at this thread!)

I would be hugely irritated if my workplace forced this type of thing on me. I would not like to be told to take an interest in something I simply don’t believe in.

Bitsandbobs2 · 04/03/2026 20:57

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 17:45

I think religion should be separate from work and not pushed onto others.

This 100%!

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 20:57

BlueJuniper94 · 04/03/2026 20:55

Well no, exactly, you know I am correct and your argument was silly.

That’s really not how this works I’m afraid. You’re not a mind reader and your arguments just illustrate your lack of humanity and tolerance.

NotAWurstToIt · 04/03/2026 20:58

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 20:38

So we should be lectured to and supportive for colleagues whose religion is not tolerant of others

And there it is - you don’t like Islam. It’s not about religion ‘bring forced on you’, it’s about you not liking this particular religion. Haven’t you got any flags to shag?

nomas · 04/03/2026 20:59

Tartaupommes · 04/03/2026 20:22

It's very much a minority religion in the UK. About 5% of British people are Muslims. The issue is not that people are saying 'happy Ramadan', it's that they are actively promoting religious observance in the workplace in a very performative way. It's not actually helpful to anyone, hence why it's performative, because it isn't appropriate to make assumptions about what a religious person might want. If a person observing a religious festival needs a special accommodation, the most appropriate thing is for them to approach their seniors and ask for it.

What do you find performative?

Ramadan is just one of the religious events that employers recognise.

Most Muslims just want to go about their day quietly and without fuss.

But some things may be relevant for colleagues to know. It’s surprising how many people don’t know that Muslims aren’t even allowed to drink water whilst fasting for example.

Even so, if you unknowingly offered a Muslim a drink whilst they are fasting, they won’t be offended, they will just politely decline. But many people would want to be understanding and know these things so they don’t make any faux pas.

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 20:59

Cherrysherbet · 04/03/2026 20:57

I’m happy to get to know all colleagues I work with, and I’m always respectful to everyone.

I do not, however, want to know anything about their religion. I am not a religious person. I actually believe that religion causes nothing but hate and conflict across the world (just look at this thread!)

I would be hugely irritated if my workplace forced this type of thing on me. I would not like to be told to take an interest in something I simply don’t believe in.

Do you refuse to engage with Christmas then?

FatBottomGirlz · 04/03/2026 21:00

Happy Holi !!! I quite like extra chat about festivals, feast days and general cultural stuff. I work with global teams and the theme is : the more the merrier

nomas · 04/03/2026 21:01

Cherrysherbet · 04/03/2026 20:57

I’m happy to get to know all colleagues I work with, and I’m always respectful to everyone.

I do not, however, want to know anything about their religion. I am not a religious person. I actually believe that religion causes nothing but hate and conflict across the world (just look at this thread!)

I would be hugely irritated if my workplace forced this type of thing on me. I would not like to be told to take an interest in something I simply don’t believe in.

Would you not want to know if you are a manager for example, and someone in your team needed some adjustments during Ramadan?

saraclara · 04/03/2026 21:01

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 20:38

So we should be lectured to and supportive for colleagues whose religion is not tolerant of others

My Muslim colleagues were very tolerant folks.

You do understand that there's a big difference between being Muslim and being an extreme Islamist, right?

TheIceBear · 04/03/2026 21:03

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 20:59

Do you refuse to engage with Christmas then?

Gosh you are obsessed with Christmas .like people get a choice whether or not to engage with Christmas or not. Actually the whole thing with Xmas should be done away with as well truthfully .

nomas · 04/03/2026 21:04

BlueJuniper94 · 04/03/2026 20:52

Because we are a country and culture that has been built on Christianty. Like it or not this is the software package that has shaped your beliefs and values of kindness, tolerance and hospitality to outsiders. Can you name any Islamic countries that extend that welcome to Christians within it?

Edited

values of kindness, tolerance and hospitality

Oh the irony. Why do you think Muslims are not deserving of this?

NorthXNorthWest · 04/03/2026 21:04

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 20:38

So we should be lectured to and supportive for colleagues whose religion is not tolerant of others

People (not all) can be intolerant and corrupt, and religion (A front for the patriarchy) is often the mask they hide behind. That has been as true of Catholics and Protestants as it has been of any other faith. If there is something to be angry about, it is the patriarchy that transcends most religions and uses them as a tool for power.

Arlanymor · 04/03/2026 21:04

ADF who don’t recognise gay people, don’t believe women have a right to an abortion and have spent millions in dark money. Massive right-wing extremists. Oh hang on… your posts make sense now!

Yeah, they’re great people. Huge thumbs up!

Honestly… evil fuckery.

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 21:05

TheIceBear · 04/03/2026 21:03

Gosh you are obsessed with Christmas .like people get a choice whether or not to engage with Christmas or not. Actually the whole thing with Xmas should be done away with as well truthfully .

Are you being forced to fast for Ramadan or something? Because unless that’s the case you also get a choice, don’t be ridiculous.

saraclara · 04/03/2026 21:08

I actually believe that religion causes nothing but hate and conflict across the world

You'd be wrong. I'm an atheist who works with a charity that supports a demographic that is constantly judged as undeserving. My role is to find local help for our service users all around the country. And the organisations who are most likely to step in and help with warmth, generosity and without judgement, are the faith based/church based organisations.

I sometimes wish I was religious, because I come across many amazing people,faith groups and organisations who quietly and without fanfare, step up to help people who most people would be happy to leave to their fate. I admire them hugely.

godmum56 · 04/03/2026 21:08

loislovesstewie · 04/03/2026 18:59

Can it also include the bloody Olympics? Do I get fed up with that! 😞

yes please. also darts, cricket and snooker.

MasterBeth · 04/03/2026 21:11

Tartaupommes · 04/03/2026 20:32

Yes, people of various religions will do a strict fast at some points. Obviously levels of observance will vary in Islam and in other religions. But my workplace is not promoting understanding and accommodations during Maha Shivaratri or Yom Kippur or Lent. It's really odd, for some reason being pro-Islam is considered progressive, so public sector organisations really support it, alongside things like trans visibility and Black History Month. I don't know why other religions don't get the same look in but they just don't have the progressive aura.

It's only "really odd" if you're being deliberately obtuse.

Ramadan is a month of fasting. The fasting periods in the other religions are each for one day. The impact of the Ramadan fast in the workplace will be much greater.

BlueJuniper94 · 04/03/2026 21:12

Arlanymor · 04/03/2026 21:04

ADF who don’t recognise gay people, don’t believe women have a right to an abortion and have spent millions in dark money. Massive right-wing extremists. Oh hang on… your posts make sense now!

Yeah, they’re great people. Huge thumbs up!

Honestly… evil fuckery.

You sound deranged, and shockingly naive about how women and homosexuals fare in Islamic countries.

I am socially conservative. Which ironically means I'd probably be a lot more comfortable than you would if the UK bent more in Islams favour. Which is quite amusing.

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 21:12

Arlanymor · 04/03/2026 20:53

As I have said before, I have no dog/cat/budgie in this race…

People being intolerant of Islam and following Christianity need to recognise the murky depths of their own religion surely? The Crusades?!

But it was so long ago… I wasn’t alive then… I’m allowed to be a bigot NOW.

Exactly the same mentality that led to religious wars… guess what, neither side is innocent!

There's plenty of intolerance in Christianity. The issue of same-sex relationships has been causing chaos in the Anglican communion for years. Trad wives stay at home and look to men as the head of household and provider. Sex is for marriage between a man and a woman.

Intolerance is bound into all faiths. Difficult though it may be to believers, there would be no faith without a greater or lesser measure of intolerance eg Christian: 'Jesus is the son of God.' Infidel (good intolerant word): 'No he's not.' Christian: 'Oh, OK then, he's not.'

TheIceBear · 04/03/2026 21:13

KatsPJs · 04/03/2026 21:05

Are you being forced to fast for Ramadan or something? Because unless that’s the case you also get a choice, don’t be ridiculous.

No I’m not but I’m not going around trying aggressively to get people to admit that they engage with Christmas in some way the way you are . Like I saw if emails going around about advent or Christmas mass or Ash Wednesday or something i would be just as bothered . I just think religion should be separate from work . Yet you just jump down my neck and assume that I’ve something against Muslims when that is not the case at all here

nomas · 04/03/2026 21:14

Op would have conniptions if she worked where I worked.

We’ve recently had emails about celebrations and food, including donuts for Hannukah, a dragon dance and food for Chinese Year celebrations, and food for the first Day of Ramadan.

All this on top of a Christmas choir and party and Shrove Tuesday of course, although I suspect these two things don’t bother OP.

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