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Mass grave prepared for the school girl massacre, 165 souls

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Dirtydianaoh · 04/03/2026 01:34

For a nation to say they care about women and girl rights and liberation, and then to bomb a school wtf?!
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Alexandra2001 · 06/03/2026 06:15

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:40

The thing is, in war mistakes happen - usually with tragic consequences. Why would the US bomb a girls school on purpose?

The Israelis wouldn't care, military families children, from their pov, wont be growing up to be soldiers.

Plenty of Iranians fleeing into Turkey are very pissed off with all this bombing.

Getting rid of one terror govt only for it to be replaced with an even worse one (but without a nuclear program) wont be anything the ordinary Iranian... how do you imagine the families feel about the deaths of their children?

Unless you can point to a successful forced regime change the US has taken part in?

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:16

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:00

Maybe the Iranians would have been better advised not putting a girls school next to a military installation and not in old military buildings.

This looks like a tragic incident that resulted from a mistake

Gosh you really are determined to blame anyone else apart from the US/Israel for this. Obviously it’s still not clear what exactly happened but you are really clutching at straws here .

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:20

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:44

So are we clear this was a mistake? Are we clear mistakes happen in a fast moving war situation?

We aren’t clear on anything yet but regardless killing 165 little girls by “mistake” clearly isn’t good enough in a “fast moving war situation”. The language and lack of compassion on this thread is actually shocking .

rainingsnoring · 06/03/2026 07:10

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:16

Gosh you really are determined to blame anyone else apart from the US/Israel for this. Obviously it’s still not clear what exactly happened but you are really clutching at straws here .

Agreed. Excellent attempt at victim blaming in that post. Some people just can't help themselves, even when 160 school girls have been murdered.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 07:14

Alexandra2001 · 06/03/2026 06:15

The Israelis wouldn't care, military families children, from their pov, wont be growing up to be soldiers.

Plenty of Iranians fleeing into Turkey are very pissed off with all this bombing.

Getting rid of one terror govt only for it to be replaced with an even worse one (but without a nuclear program) wont be anything the ordinary Iranian... how do you imagine the families feel about the deaths of their children?

Unless you can point to a successful forced regime change the US has taken part in?

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The Israelis wouldn’t care?

Thought the consensus on this thread was that the US did it?

That it was done by mistake would seem logical.

Though we still don’t know factually who was responsible, the US seems the most likely at this stage.

Sherbs12 · 06/03/2026 07:21

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/05/world/middleeast/iran-school-us-strikes-naval-base.html

Interesting analysis in the NY Times on this horrific event. It’s a pity that the much of the UK media isn’t reporting more on this.
Both Trump’s and Hegseth’s speeches/comments after these initial strikes indicate that they will hold no accountability for the loss of innocent lives - and of course, we know that Netanyahu won’t.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 10:47

Thank you, that is a very detailed report. It really does look as though the US carried out the attack.

At best it was a catastrophic, reprehensible failure of their intelligence, with tragic consequences.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 10:56

N.B.
The US appear to be lying.

The US either have sloppy intelligence or faulty ‘precision weapons’

Pete Hegseth talking about how Iran will be ‘Toast’ is not a good look for America. Some of the children actually were ‘toast’ as it happens.

Having power, but losing dignity and control in this way, is a bad look.

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:20

We aren’t clear on anything yet but regardless killing 165 little girls by “mistake” clearly isn’t good enough in a “fast moving war situation”. The language and lack of compassion on this thread is actually shocking .

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

NotTerfNorCis · 06/03/2026 12:19

It seems clear now that the US killed those girls. Earlier reports were deliberate lying, something very familiar from the Gaza situation.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:26

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

It’s nothing to do with that … people in the UK were outraged at the death of thousands of Iranian protesters - including over 150 children, who weren’t American either.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 12:32

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood.

Yes.

kirinm · 06/03/2026 12:33

Investigations conclude it’s America. Posters here / we still won’t know categorically and it was probably a mistake anyway. How surprising.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:36

kirinm · 06/03/2026 12:33

Investigations conclude it’s America. Posters here / we still won’t know categorically and it was probably a mistake anyway. How surprising.

Wrong assumption as usual. If the official investigation has concluded it was the US, I accept that conclusion. I’ve already said I think it will probably turn out to be the US.

oldtiredcyclist · 06/03/2026 12:38

RichardOnslowRoper · 06/03/2026 00:12

I know you won't believe me, but I escaped Iran in 79 as a young child. I am not Iranian though. But my dad worked in the region.

Calm and factual enough for you? I am not particularly sheltered.

My wife was born in Tehran, went to university there at the start of the revolution in 1979, then came to England in 1986. I have visited there a few times, always felt a bit nervous when we got to the airport for the return journey and was very anxious when my wife went back there on her various trips. All the Iranians we me were very friendly, certainly didn't see many fundamentalists there, so this latest war on Iran by the US/Israel has really saddened us. We would be pleased if the regime went, but this isn't the way to do it, because it didn't work in Libya, Syria, Afghanistan or Iraq and it certainly didn't work in 1953 where the US/UK organised coup d'etat removed the democratically elected prime minister Mossadeq, because he wanted to nationalise Iranian oil.

https://archive.globalpolicy.org/us-military-expansion-and-intervention/iran/26389-oil-and-economic-interests-in-iran.html

Oil and Economic Interests in Iran

Global Policy Forum is a policy watchdog that follows the work of the United Nations. We promote accountability and citizen participation in decisions on peace and security, social justice and international law.

https://archive.globalpolicy.org/us-military-expansion-and-intervention/iran/26389-oil-and-economic-interests-in-iran.html

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 12:50

US pilots “have maximum authorities granted personally by the president and yours truly,” he added. Rules of engagement “are designed to unleash American power, not shackle it.”
(Pete Hegseth March 4.)

Maybe this unshackled licence lead to undue attention by intelligence being paid to the inconvenient detail that there was a school here with children arriving that very morning.

Detailed bothering with intelligence here might have been considered to be too ‘shackling’.

TessSaysYes · 06/03/2026 13:08

Foggybottomblues · 04/03/2026 02:41

It is very sad but there is no evidence this was caused by US/. Israeli forces. The evidence points to a failed Iranian rocket launch.

I think the Russians already used this excuse.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 13:33

@Foggybottomblues Foggybottomblues · 04/03/2026 02:41
It is very sad but there is no evidence this was caused by US/. Israeli forces. The evidence points to a failed Iranian rocket launch.

This has been debunked. You must not have caught up with analysis.

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 13:35

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:26

It’s nothing to do with that … people in the UK were outraged at the death of thousands of Iranian protesters - including over 150 children, who weren’t American either.

The protesters were killed by an Islamic regime not a Western one so it really doesn't disprove my theory of Western superiority. When Western powers or countries that try to align themselves with the West kill children it's different. It's clear to see.

People are defending this war on the basis of these protest killings, they are calling it 'genocide'(and no one is questioning the use of genocide there), there has been no investigations, we don't even know how many people were killed. Ask any questions though and you are accused of supporting the Iranian regime. When the West kills over 100 little school girls its all we must wait and see, let's not jump to conclusions, they probably did it themselves.

Look at the way that the figure of over 30000 protesters killed by an Islamic regimes has been readily accepted by many of the same people who spent two years denying the numbers of dead coming out of Gaza, they needed proof, let's wait and see what investigations say, the difference being it was a country who aligns themselves with the West who killed the 10s of 1000s of people in Gaza.

There is one rule for Western countries and another for, let's face it, Muslim countries.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 14:17

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 13:35

The protesters were killed by an Islamic regime not a Western one so it really doesn't disprove my theory of Western superiority. When Western powers or countries that try to align themselves with the West kill children it's different. It's clear to see.

People are defending this war on the basis of these protest killings, they are calling it 'genocide'(and no one is questioning the use of genocide there), there has been no investigations, we don't even know how many people were killed. Ask any questions though and you are accused of supporting the Iranian regime. When the West kills over 100 little school girls its all we must wait and see, let's not jump to conclusions, they probably did it themselves.

Look at the way that the figure of over 30000 protesters killed by an Islamic regimes has been readily accepted by many of the same people who spent two years denying the numbers of dead coming out of Gaza, they needed proof, let's wait and see what investigations say, the difference being it was a country who aligns themselves with the West who killed the 10s of 1000s of people in Gaza.

There is one rule for Western countries and another for, let's face it, Muslim countries.

I haven't called it genocide, I know that genocide is a specific term that does not just mean a big number of people got killed. Genocide isn't even about a specific number, it's largely about intent.

I also disagree that the figure of over 30000 protesters killed by an Islamic regimes has been readily accepted by many of the same people who spent two years denying the numbers of dead coming out of Gaza, they needed proof...

People who want proof of numbers from a reputable source (like me) have equally not accepted a definite number who were killed in Iran - because we just don't know yet.

I have quoted various sources as giving their estimate of what they think the numbers are, but such quotes always say we don't know exactly due to the internet blackout etc.

In a report presented on Wednesday, January 21, to the Iranian parliament’s National Security and Foreign Policy Committee seen by Iran International, the number of those killed was listed as at least 27,500.
According to sources within Iran’s Interior Ministry who spoke to Iran International on condition of anonymity, a consolidation of figures received from provincial security councils by Tuesday, January 20, showed the death toll had exceeded 30,000.
Two informed sources from the Supreme National Security Council also told Iran International that in two recent reports by the IRGC Intelligence Organization, dated January 22 and January 24, the number of those killed was listed as more than 33,000 and more than 36,500 respectively.
Despite the confusion and concealment, the rapid increase in death toll figures in classified government reports has heightened concerns that the actual number of those killed may be even higher.

https://www.iranintl.com/en/202601255198

Over 36,500 killed in Iran's deadliest massacre, documents reveal

More than 36,500 Iranians were killed by security forces during the January 8-9 crackdown on nationwide protests, making it the deadliest two-day protest massacre in history, according to documents reviewed by Iran International's Editorial Board.

https://www.iranintl.com/en/202601255198

OneFunBrickNewt · 06/03/2026 18:05

Wabbajack · 04/03/2026 20:25

"Look like Westeners?" WTF does that mean?

You know exactly what I mean.
If not, read up on the racism Ahed Tamimi has faced due to her appearance.

Ahed Tamimi - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ahed_Tamimi

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 18:11

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 14:17

I haven't called it genocide, I know that genocide is a specific term that does not just mean a big number of people got killed. Genocide isn't even about a specific number, it's largely about intent.

I also disagree that the figure of over 30000 protesters killed by an Islamic regimes has been readily accepted by many of the same people who spent two years denying the numbers of dead coming out of Gaza, they needed proof...

People who want proof of numbers from a reputable source (like me) have equally not accepted a definite number who were killed in Iran - because we just don't know yet.

I have quoted various sources as giving their estimate of what they think the numbers are, but such quotes always say we don't know exactly due to the internet blackout etc.

In a report presented on Wednesday, January 21, to the Iranian parliament’s National Security and Foreign Policy Committee seen by Iran International, the number of those killed was listed as at least 27,500.
According to sources within Iran’s Interior Ministry who spoke to Iran International on condition of anonymity, a consolidation of figures received from provincial security councils by Tuesday, January 20, showed the death toll had exceeded 30,000.
Two informed sources from the Supreme National Security Council also told Iran International that in two recent reports by the IRGC Intelligence Organization, dated January 22 and January 24, the number of those killed was listed as more than 33,000 and more than 36,500 respectively.
Despite the confusion and concealment, the rapid increase in death toll figures in classified government reports has heightened concerns that the actual number of those killed may be even higher.

https://www.iranintl.com/en/202601255198

I can only say what I see. I certainly see threads here where the word genocide is being readily used to describe what happened in Iran and not a single one of the regular 'it isn't a genocide' posters who are present and actively posting on those threads have corrected or questioned it. Nor have any of those posters questioned when the figure of 35000 is readily being used. It begs the question why?

Why is it so important that when Muslim killings are perpetrated by the West that all of the checks and balances, investigations and court cases have to happen before people can even start to condemn them but people will quickly jump to supporting war when it is Muslim countries without any of the above at all?

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 18:45

OneFunBrickNewt · 06/03/2026 18:05

You know exactly what I mean.
If not, read up on the racism Ahed Tamimi has faced due to her appearance.

This is an interesting read . Thanks for posting.

rainingsnoring · 06/03/2026 23:05

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:26

It’s nothing to do with that … people in the UK were outraged at the death of thousands of Iranian protesters - including over 150 children, who weren’t American either.

Err, that's a completely different scenario isn't it. I'm surprise you don't understand that. The killing of protestors by the regime was widely covered by the Western media in an attempt to whip up a storm and justify the US/Israeli in starting the war! By the way, the protests had already been whipped up by interference by the US in causing a financial crash and the CIA being involved as well. This on top of the economic hardship imposed by decades of sanctions.

As @FloralDeerPattern says, that outrage if Iran had murdered 160 US school girls or British school girls would be completely and utterly different and the acceptance of figures of 30,000 from Western media by those who deny that many hundreds of thousands have been murdered by the IDF in Gaza is total and utter double standards. Let's not be disingenuous about this.

rainingsnoring · 06/03/2026 23:07

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 18:11

I can only say what I see. I certainly see threads here where the word genocide is being readily used to describe what happened in Iran and not a single one of the regular 'it isn't a genocide' posters who are present and actively posting on those threads have corrected or questioned it. Nor have any of those posters questioned when the figure of 35000 is readily being used. It begs the question why?

Why is it so important that when Muslim killings are perpetrated by the West that all of the checks and balances, investigations and court cases have to happen before people can even start to condemn them but people will quickly jump to supporting war when it is Muslim countries without any of the above at all?

Hypocricy? Intellectual and moral dishonesty? Blatant racism?
Mostly all three.

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