My DH has a friend who's been on benefits for a long time, many years and since her daughter was very young.
AFAIK, the friend is in fairly good health. Possibly a long term back problem, but nothing that would mentally stop her from finding and holding down a job. She's been on benefits for nearly 15 years, and I sympathise that she's a single mum whose partner passed away from cancer, which is obviously very sad.
But I fear for her daughter, who isn't well either, possibly with ME or some form of Long Covid. This again, extremely sad to hear, but I know she is very bright and could have easily worked hard to achieve all excellent GCSEs. Unfortunately, her poor health has meant she took no exams at all, and now aged 18 has no qualifications and not even maths or English.
I know it's nothing to do with me really at all, and when I raise it with my DH, he just brushes it off and says it's sad, but we have enough of our own things to worry about (which is true). I just know that there might be an element of the mum almost not wanting her daughter to do well, go and get on in life, perhaps she's wanting to see her stay at home and keep her company.
I see a young person whose future is uncertain, with a mum who's not worked and shown a good role model. It makes me feel very sad there is so much potential to do well, but if she wants to do anything with GCSEs, there's not even money to pay for exams now.
Circumstances aside, sometimes the parents are the best example of how maybe not to do things.