I see it as the world doesn’t owe our teens a living
We could have sat back whilst they were 13 but we didn’t we told them to do something
So they got delivery rounds and do farm volunteering
and hit the books for their GCSEs
it would have been much easier, less resistance, to
let them eat biscuits and do online gaming - we can bank roll them for sure
but they have turned up (sometimes pissing and moaning) most weekend mornings for 4-5 years now
one plays football, and has seen their 16 yr old student coach do ref and coaching badges, on top of college, during the evenings and weekends, covering first aid etc and cutting grass on pitches, a full 7 day week with evenings - because this is the sort of hours that you need to put in to do this job (he wants to be a head coach and we all want tickets to his first premier club game). It’s relentless dedication. He’s an impressive young man.
People think the same opportunities should just happen for everyone and think if you hurt someone’s feelings by asking them to fill out a form you are a very bad person.
Life is hard and competitive. And boring and thankless. At least at first.
At some point you need to put in hard boring low paid, or free graft, that can be training or exams.
But just to know other young people are up against thousands who are already doing this. And is it fair? Yes it’s totally fair.
Do you think a weed smoking, lazy gamer who’s “good at FIFA” deserves a trainee football coaching position over someone who has spent hundreds of hours gaining badges and certificates, studying and working evenings, plus refereeing at the weekend?
Most teenagers are capable. Many are lazy and entitled. That’s for their parents to sort out.
Ones that struggle a bit more but could work need to work out what they can do not what they can’t.