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John Davidson shouting the N word during the BAFTAS

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Crawse · 23/02/2026 10:02

John Davidson has Tourettes and is a campaigner for the condition. Whist Michale B Jordan and Delroy Lindo were presenting he shouted out the racial slur. It’s extremely uncomfortable to watch. I feel terrible for the two presenters. I’m really conflicted on this one.

What are your thoughts?

No one should be subjected to abuse. That is my bottom line. Maybe the fact I was called P*** (I’m half Indian) growing up has influenced my views. I obviously recognise Tourette’s is involuntary.

https://edition.cnn.com/2026/02/22/entertainment/baftas-2026-tourettes-racist-slur

British acting awards interrupted by racist slur from man with Tourette Syndrome | CNN

At Sunday night’s BAFTA ceremony in London, a man yelled a racist slur as two of the world’s most celebrated Black actors, Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo, presented an award on stage.

https://edition.cnn.com/2026/02/22/entertainment/baftas-2026-tourettes-racist-slur

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ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:42

It's a weak argument to say 'oh well he couldn't help it'. There are plenty of things people 'can't help', but the impact on others can still be very unpleasant. This is one of those occasions - awful for the guy shouting out I'm sure, but also awful for the guys on the receiving end. It's evident that the situation should have been handled differently in order to avoid this outcome for all of them.

I would equate this to taking an autistic child to the soft play when they can't handle the bright lights and the noise. It's not fair on the child, nor on those around that child if they start kicking off. And no, I am not saying he is a child, it's just an example I am thinking of that often comes up on mumsnet, where someone is in a situation they cannot handle.

There are some things that it just isn't possible for people with certain disabilities to do, regardless of the adjustments made. A blind person cannot drive a bus. This man was unable to sit through a ceremony without shouting offensive words, upsetting others and himself. It's not suggesting 'bringing back to the asylum' to say that he shouldn't have been there in that situation.

alittleprivacy · 23/02/2026 17:42

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 23/02/2026 10:18

I realise that it's entirely involuntary and must be a very debilitating condition; but I'm curious as to how it's neurally triggered. I know some sufferers find that it presents with them saying/shouting neutral, inoffensive words - like that person on TV who used to keep randomly saying "Biscuits".

Was it just a coincidence that there happened to be two black people presenting when the N-word was shouted? Would it have been just as likely if they'd been white?

Again, I'm not blaming the sufferer at all; but just wondering out loud what happens subconsciously if an offensive word is said specifically 'targeted at' the object of it?

He has an uncontrollable urge to say the thing that he'd never want to say. I have a facial disfigurement, if he saw me, he'd say something awful about that. Not because he wants to hurt me, or because it's a horrible truth about what he really feels when he sees me. He just knows what would be the worst thing to say and is literally compelled to say it.

If the word he said about those men indicates anything about him, it's that what he said was the last thing he'd ever want to say. If he was actually racist, he wouldn't have said it because it wouldn't have been taboo to him.

BippityBopper · 23/02/2026 17:42

Crawse · 23/02/2026 10:38

I’m not saying JD should apologise. But I don’t think the impact of Michael and Delroy hearing that word and how it makes them feel is being acknowledged enough. That should also be a part of the discourse. They had the N word shouted at them at the end of the day. Thats just horrible. Involuntarily or otherwise

Exactly. Very publicly, whilst they were on stage with spotlights on them. I'm sure it was awful experience.

And for those feeling sorry for John, for multiple reasons, this further adds to reasons why the inaction of the BBC was wholly unacceptable. All three men involved were not protected. The severity of this could have been avoided if the BBC had edited that part out.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:43

LeopardSnow · 23/02/2026 17:41

This is a pretty weird comment @clickthat. enslavement of black people isn’t something I’d be aiming to diminish or find white comparators to if I were you.

You’ve misunderstood.

Black people don’t hold the monopoly on bad things happening to them. So I don’t see why the N word is SUCH an issue compared with other slurs.

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 17:43

On this thread:

The N word has magical powers and is elevated above all other insults when it shouldnt be
Black men sometimes call each other by that name so we should be able to
White people were and apparently still are victims of slavery.
The 3 black people involved have made too much of a fuss.
Rich black men can take insults.

I think all the above goes beyond John Davidson. Who deserves no hate. But there is a wider issue about how BAMES should apparently just lie back and shut up.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:44

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 17:43

On this thread:

The N word has magical powers and is elevated above all other insults when it shouldnt be
Black men sometimes call each other by that name so we should be able to
White people were and apparently still are victims of slavery.
The 3 black people involved have made too much of a fuss.
Rich black men can take insults.

I think all the above goes beyond John Davidson. Who deserves no hate. But there is a wider issue about how BAMES should apparently just lie back and shut up.

Edited

You’ve really jumped the shark here.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:44

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:42

It's a weak argument to say 'oh well he couldn't help it'. There are plenty of things people 'can't help', but the impact on others can still be very unpleasant. This is one of those occasions - awful for the guy shouting out I'm sure, but also awful for the guys on the receiving end. It's evident that the situation should have been handled differently in order to avoid this outcome for all of them.

I would equate this to taking an autistic child to the soft play when they can't handle the bright lights and the noise. It's not fair on the child, nor on those around that child if they start kicking off. And no, I am not saying he is a child, it's just an example I am thinking of that often comes up on mumsnet, where someone is in a situation they cannot handle.

There are some things that it just isn't possible for people with certain disabilities to do, regardless of the adjustments made. A blind person cannot drive a bus. This man was unable to sit through a ceremony without shouting offensive words, upsetting others and himself. It's not suggesting 'bringing back to the asylum' to say that he shouldn't have been there in that situation.

Edited

The film about his life had one best actor award. The film to raise awareness of the condition. Segregating him from the award would have made a mockery of that, and of the OBE he was given for his services as a campaigner.

loislovesstewie · 23/02/2026 17:45

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:42

It's a weak argument to say 'oh well he couldn't help it'. There are plenty of things people 'can't help', but the impact on others can still be very unpleasant. This is one of those occasions - awful for the guy shouting out I'm sure, but also awful for the guys on the receiving end. It's evident that the situation should have been handled differently in order to avoid this outcome for all of them.

I would equate this to taking an autistic child to the soft play when they can't handle the bright lights and the noise. It's not fair on the child, nor on those around that child if they start kicking off. And no, I am not saying he is a child, it's just an example I am thinking of that often comes up on mumsnet, where someone is in a situation they cannot handle.

There are some things that it just isn't possible for people with certain disabilities to do, regardless of the adjustments made. A blind person cannot drive a bus. This man was unable to sit through a ceremony without shouting offensive words, upsetting others and himself. It's not suggesting 'bringing back to the asylum' to say that he shouldn't have been there in that situation.

Edited

So he's not allowed to go to an awards ceremony featuring a film about him which is intended to inform people about Tourettes syndrome?

nomas · 23/02/2026 17:45

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:43

You’ve misunderstood.

Black people don’t hold the monopoly on bad things happening to them. So I don’t see why the N word is SUCH an issue compared with other slurs.

So what’s a common equivalent slur against white people?

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 17:46

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:44

You’ve really jumped the shark here.

Have I? Please point out any inaccuracy.
You have just said you don't think the N word is SUCH an issue.

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:46

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:44

The film about his life had one best actor award. The film to raise awareness of the condition. Segregating him from the award would have made a mockery of that, and of the OBE he was given for his services as a campaigner.

I understand that. But has he come out of this situation well? I imagine he is deeply embarrassed and upset. It's not nice for anyone involved.

nomas · 23/02/2026 17:47

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:44

You’ve really jumped the shark here.

Really? I thought it was a pretty succinct summary of the thread.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:47

nomas · 23/02/2026 17:45

So what’s a common equivalent slur against white people?

I don’t know. We haven’t collectively decided on a word that’s unutterable.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:47

nomas · 23/02/2026 17:47

Really? I thought it was a pretty succinct summary of the thread.

Perhaps you’re both not very bright

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:47

loislovesstewie · 23/02/2026 17:45

So he's not allowed to go to an awards ceremony featuring a film about him which is intended to inform people about Tourettes syndrome?

If 'informing people about Tourette's' includes two black actors having the n-word shouted at them, then yes, I think this should have been done differently. None of those men will be feeling good about this today.

Miggledyhiggledy · 23/02/2026 17:48

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:46

I understand that. But has he come out of this situation well? I imagine he is deeply embarrassed and upset. It's not nice for anyone involved.

You should also imagine that he's used to ignorant people reminding him of his unintended ignorance.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:48

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:46

I understand that. But has he come out of this situation well? I imagine he is deeply embarrassed and upset. It's not nice for anyone involved.

He's come out the situation just fine imo - it's people who have reacted so ridiculously who have shown their arses here.

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:48

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 17:46

Have I? Please point out any inaccuracy.
You have just said you don't think the N word is SUCH an issue.

I don’t.

Miggledyhiggledy · 23/02/2026 17:48

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:48

He's come out the situation just fine imo - it's people who have reacted so ridiculously who have shown their arses here.

Their motives are clear.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:48

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:47

If 'informing people about Tourette's' includes two black actors having the n-word shouted at them, then yes, I think this should have been done differently. None of those men will be feeling good about this today.

That's what coprolalia looks like though. That's the condition. It can't be changed, so best to learn about it and show understanding.

Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 23/02/2026 17:49

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:48

I don’t.

Then perhaps it is you who is not very bright

loislovesstewie · 23/02/2026 17:49

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:47

If 'informing people about Tourette's' includes two black actors having the n-word shouted at them, then yes, I think this should have been done differently. None of those men will be feeling good about this today.

How? What should have been different? Bearing in mind that he could have shouted anything.

ScarlettSarah · 23/02/2026 17:49

SpaceRaccoon · 23/02/2026 17:48

He's come out the situation just fine imo - it's people who have reacted so ridiculously who have shown their arses here.

Really? So you think he feels OK about having shouted the N word at two black men in such a public arena? I thought the whole film was about the impact his tourette's had on him. Do you think it was just water off a duck's back?

CharlotteRumpling · 23/02/2026 17:49

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:47

Perhaps you’re both not very bright

And yet you still can't point out an inaccuracy in my summary. Ad hominem is easy.

nomas · 23/02/2026 17:49

clickthat · 23/02/2026 17:47

I don’t know. We haven’t collectively decided on a word that’s unutterable.

So which word would you like to utter more? The N word or the P word?

And the fact that you can’t name an equivalent word for white oeople should show you your privilege and maybe explain why the N and P
words are so hurtful to many.

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