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To think that those terrified of Reform/Restore vastly overestimate the power parliament actually has?

145 replies

BlueJuniper94 · 21/02/2026 19:36

Just as the title says. The fear mongering is intense at the moment but I think people could surely find peace if they looked closer at what our parliament is actually capable of (not much, ask u-turn Kier) there's the Lords, Human Rights law, and the massive unelected bureaucracy which will thwart every effort made by these parties if they do find themselves with enough of a majority. It just won't happen. Look how watered now Meloni is now that she is, to the disappointment of many who voted for her I am sure.

There also seems to be a contradiction, Farage and Lowe are frequently reffered to as populists, populism defined as empty rhetoric without delivery. If you truly believe this, there is nothing to fear. It's all hot air. Anyone who gets close to power will find themselves absorbed into the uniparty or captured as containment.

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GOAT26 · 22/02/2026 18:25

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 16:21

My rights are better protected in a cohesive society which values women. Whatever happens, this is not how the future is looking

But will we be in a society that values women if we let right wing men dominate policy making? Look at the right to abortion being withdrawn in US states, is that the type of thing you want to see happen in the UK?

Dragonflytamer · 22/02/2026 18:29

Arlanymor · 21/02/2026 19:47

Yep and who didn’t set a ‘winning’ margin. And a bloke called Boris Johnson who illegally suspended parliament and misled the monarch?

Yeap then there was Liz Truss who killed the queen and crashed the economy in a week, then Reeves with the massive this is fully costed no more tax rises. I don't think we really need to worry about Reform and more than we do the legacy 20th century parties.

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 18:31

GOAT26 · 22/02/2026 18:25

But will we be in a society that values women if we let right wing men dominate policy making? Look at the right to abortion being withdrawn in US states, is that the type of thing you want to see happen in the UK?

Because the left with their transactivism and turning a blind eye to rape gangs are a better option?

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RedTagAlan · 22/02/2026 18:34

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 18:31

Because the left with their transactivism and turning a blind eye to rape gangs are a better option?

Ahh. So this is an anti left pro reform thread ?

5128gap · 22/02/2026 18:48

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 18:31

Because the left with their transactivism and turning a blind eye to rape gangs are a better option?

No. A left that doesn't support trans activism and takes action to bring all perpetrators of crimes against women to justice is the better option. As a left wing person I don't agree with everything left wing parties have done with regards to women's rights. But it would an act of idiocy to start supporting a right wing party that promises to be even worse, and racist and detrimental to the less well off to boot, rather than ally with other like minded left wing people and work towards women's rights from there.

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 18:55

5128gap · 22/02/2026 18:48

No. A left that doesn't support trans activism and takes action to bring all perpetrators of crimes against women to justice is the better option. As a left wing person I don't agree with everything left wing parties have done with regards to women's rights. But it would an act of idiocy to start supporting a right wing party that promises to be even worse, and racist and detrimental to the less well off to boot, rather than ally with other like minded left wing people and work towards women's rights from there.

I think people see things differently including the op. That’s ok, not everyone will be left wing anyway.

FrippEnos · 22/02/2026 18:58

Fleur405 · 21/02/2026 19:43

Erm… do you remember this bloke called David Cameron who decided to have a referendum because a bunch of fairly extreme back Benchers wanted to withdraw from the EU?!

Edited

At least be honest about this.
He decided to have a referendum a because the EU would let him have his way and he spat his dummy out.

Arlanymor · 22/02/2026 19:12

Dragonflytamer · 22/02/2026 18:29

Yeap then there was Liz Truss who killed the queen and crashed the economy in a week, then Reeves with the massive this is fully costed no more tax rises. I don't think we really need to worry about Reform and more than we do the legacy 20th century parties.

I think the death of her spouse and Andrew’s behaviour is far more likely to have hastened her end than anything Truss did. And I deeply dislike Liz Truss!

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 19:24

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 18:55

I think people see things differently including the op. That’s ok, not everyone will be left wing anyway.

Actually - economically I am probably more left than most Labour voters.

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Marmalademorning · 22/02/2026 19:25

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 18:55

I think people see things differently including the op. That’s ok, not everyone will be left wing anyway.

Thankfully.

Marmalademorning · 22/02/2026 19:27

RedTagAlan · 22/02/2026 18:34

Ahh. So this is an anti left pro reform thread ?

No, it’s just a thread with people who don’t all share the same opinions as you.

5128gap · 22/02/2026 19:27

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 18:55

I think people see things differently including the op. That’s ok, not everyone will be left wing anyway.

Of course they're not. But I am. I'm a left wing feminist and I'm responding to the either/or statement made by the OP, as though the equal opposite to Restore/Reform is trans activism and turning a blind eye to grooming gangs. Which is reductive and ridiculous.
I'm not denying that left wing parties have left a lot to be desired when it comes to women's issues. But I'm looking at the big picture.
My feminism isn't just for white privileged women. It includes black and brown women and financially and socially disadvantaged women. The right wing parties the OP is holding up as 'no worse than the left' have not only disclosed policies that directly undermine all women's rights, but also bring with them an ideology which would cause great harm to women who are not white; and to lower income women, who are disproportionately likely to depend on health services and the welfare state. Disabled women, women who are ill or old and not wealthy, who are carers. All stand to lose out if these parties come to power.
A left who doesn't get it right for women all the time is better than a right that doesn't even make a pretence of benefitting any but white privileged women. And even then, its only if its a by product of benefitting white men.

AllTheChaos · 22/02/2026 19:30

BlueJuniper94 · 21/02/2026 20:34

What is happening in the US and how does it pertain to us?

Vote for who you like. It makes no difference

Tory austerity measures made a lot of difference to a lot of people in fact.

Marmalademorning · 22/02/2026 19:32

AllTheChaos · 22/02/2026 19:30

Tory austerity measures made a lot of difference to a lot of people in fact.

Labour have made a lot of difference to pensioners - and not in a good way. I guess they’re not the core voting base though, which probably explains why.

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 19:41

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 19:24

Actually - economically I am probably more left than most Labour voters.

Do you know much about Denmark’s policies? Ok if not, but they seem to be combining a mix that could be closer to what you’d like? A question as I haven’t read the thread fully

AllTheChaos · 22/02/2026 19:46

Marmalademorning · 22/02/2026 19:32

Labour have made a lot of difference to pensioners - and not in a good way. I guess they’re not the core voting base though, which probably explains why.

I wonder if it’s because of the assumption that pensioners are largely Conservative voters? It’s something I read a lot and find strange, as amongst the people I know who are over 70 it’s not the case for most.

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 19:53

EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 19:41

Do you know much about Denmark’s policies? Ok if not, but they seem to be combining a mix that could be closer to what you’d like? A question as I haven’t read the thread fully

Very familiar with Denmark and something like that would be a vast improvement here

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EasternStandard · 22/02/2026 20:14

BlueJuniper94 · 22/02/2026 19:53

Very familiar with Denmark and something like that would be a vast improvement here

Labour’s hypocrisy is too much on this, eg spending the first part of the term ramping up rhetoric and insulting people, I’m not sure they’ll get those voters back.

But I can see without that hypocrisy the Danish leader is doing well with a combination closer to what you want.

Arlanymor · 22/02/2026 21:01

AllTheChaos · 22/02/2026 19:46

I wonder if it’s because of the assumption that pensioners are largely Conservative voters? It’s something I read a lot and find strange, as amongst the people I know who are over 70 it’s not the case for most.

I think people conflate it with the fact that overwhelmingly it is pensioners who actually vote as an age bracket - so when we get repeated Conservative UK governments (as was the case until relatively recently) the two get bundled together?

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 07:51

BlueJuniper94 · 21/02/2026 19:36

Just as the title says. The fear mongering is intense at the moment but I think people could surely find peace if they looked closer at what our parliament is actually capable of (not much, ask u-turn Kier) there's the Lords, Human Rights law, and the massive unelected bureaucracy which will thwart every effort made by these parties if they do find themselves with enough of a majority. It just won't happen. Look how watered now Meloni is now that she is, to the disappointment of many who voted for her I am sure.

There also seems to be a contradiction, Farage and Lowe are frequently reffered to as populists, populism defined as empty rhetoric without delivery. If you truly believe this, there is nothing to fear. It's all hot air. Anyone who gets close to power will find themselves absorbed into the uniparty or captured as containment.

It’s empty rhetoric now becuase they aren’t in power. It won’t be if they’re elected.

i do agree they’ll u turn on lots due to constraints, both legal & finanacial.

they campaigned hard on the 20k tax threshold and withdrew that insanely quickly, so there’ll definitely be more in that vein, but I’d rather not put them in charge to find out.

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