"I don't want to have to think about having to do something else whilst the car is charging"
That makes no sense.
If you are driving and parking somewhere, unless you just randomly drive your car around for no reason you are already doing something. So you just charge the car while you ... do it.
If you are on the motorway but prefer to sit at a nice coffee shop, you just use one of the many charging map apps, or google maps, to find a charger nearby.
And the idea that charging facilities are "distant" - where I live if I'd have to drive past at least 10 EV charging points to get to a petrol station!
It really is funny how hard it is for people to let go of the idea that charging has to be as inconvenient as petrol.
There can be chargers in every street because unlike petrol we don't have to build a special facility because the stuff is so flamable that it can only be kept in a few places. You can set it to charge while you shop or meet a friend or have a meal so see a movie because unlike petrol you don't have to stand out in the cold holding a pump waiting for it to be done. And while not everyone can have a home charger, unlike petrol it's actually possible for a fair number of people to refuel at home! 😂
I guarantee that 95% of the people who have all the reasons EVs are worse than petrol have never actually tried living with one. (For the 5% who have tried it and for some reason it wasn't for them - fair play)