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Are you now more likely to vote for REFORM (the party)

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Decisiondecisions · 18/02/2026 14:49

NC for this and apologies if Q already asked. My quick search yielded no result.

Reform plan to undo the reversal of 2 child cap benefit. Are you now likely (or more likely) to vote for them? There have been endless threads about the welfare bill.

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2dogsandabudgie · 21/02/2026 14:45

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Thechaseison71 · 21/02/2026 14:47

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 14:44

These people genuinely don’t believe you can be racist to whites, the white South Africans deserve it and any mention of grooming gangs they respond with “what about white rapists”.
A relative of mine was one of the only whites in a majority Pakistani school, got beaten up and spat on constantly. They genuinely don’t believe stuff like this happens only whites can be racist.

Then another post online from someone worried their son is becoming too right wing when really he’s just sick of hearing how he’s evil and privileged at school constantly

My cousin was the only one of 2 white girl in her class in an east London school. Was often called white honky, ghost girl and " not part of the sistahood"

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 14:51

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I'm not a jew hater either - reporting this

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 14:52

Thechaseison71 · 21/02/2026 14:47

My cousin was the only one of 2 white girl in her class in an east London school. Was often called white honky, ghost girl and " not part of the sistahood"

Yup I said a few pages back I went to a majority white school couple of blacks and a a couple of East Asians they were all treated just like everyone else. In comparison to my relative who got beaten and spat on.

They ignored the part about my relative and lectured me on how the non white kids MUST have suffered somehow. I’ve had similar conversations where people waffle on about “micro aggressions” and don’t want to hear about whites getting killed in South Africa or grooming gangs, just goes completely against their world view

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 14:58

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Did you? Why? Do you think being left wing and Jewish are mutually exclusive? That comes as a surprise to some of us!

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 14:58

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 14:52

Yup I said a few pages back I went to a majority white school couple of blacks and a a couple of East Asians they were all treated just like everyone else. In comparison to my relative who got beaten and spat on.

They ignored the part about my relative and lectured me on how the non white kids MUST have suffered somehow. I’ve had similar conversations where people waffle on about “micro aggressions” and don’t want to hear about whites getting killed in South Africa or grooming gangs, just goes completely against their world view

You have consistently talked me down and told me I am wrong when I told you that there was an outcry in my home town when refugees got some council homes no one else wanted - because that doesn't align with your views

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 14:59

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 14:30

You may not be racist in the classic definition of judging someone by the colour of their skin rather than the content of their character or achievements.

But by emphasising skin colour rather than a colour blind approach you perpetuate division in society rather
than unity and you perpetuate victim hood rather than ambition.

This is what is truly harmful as it destroys futures and hope, and is arguably worse than the ignorant and hateful verbal racist slurs of say the 1970s.

A colour blind approach has been long since debunked. Very outdated concept.

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 15:01

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 14:33

You seem to know a lot about me - just because I am left wing

I meant "you" in a metaphorical sense rather than "you" individually so let me reword that:

"by emphasising skin colour rather than a colour blind approach the left perpetuates division combined"

"the left perpetuates victim hood"

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 15:03

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 14:58

You have consistently talked me down and told me I am wrong when I told you that there was an outcry in my home town when refugees got some council homes no one else wanted - because that doesn't align with your views

No I just said how do you know “no one” wanted them for sure because people can’t be fussy these days I also said fair enough it might be different in Scotland which you also took offence to. I’m not sure what you want me to say, talking about houses in your home town is getting repetitive

2dogsandabudgie · 21/02/2026 15:06

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 14:51

I'm not a jew hater either - reporting this

Well if you think that's not true then don't assume that right wing voters are racist because that's not true either.

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 15:09

2dogsandabudgie · 21/02/2026 15:06

Well if you think that's not true then don't assume that right wing voters are racist because that's not true either.

False equivalence.

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 15:13

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 14:58

Did you? Why? Do you think being left wing and Jewish are mutually exclusive? That comes as a surprise to some of us!

So historically particularly in the 1930s there was strong support from the Jewish community for left wing politics.

This was largely because the Jewish community was discriminated against and viewed by left wing politics as the oppressed or victims.

This all changed with the creation of the State of Israel which through resisting Arab nation attacks and the resulting Palestinian refugee crisis became viewed by the left as no longer a victim so therefore an oppressor.

This in turn created the anti semitism of the left.

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 15:25

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 15:03

No I just said how do you know “no one” wanted them for sure because people can’t be fussy these days I also said fair enough it might be different in Scotland which you also took offence to. I’m not sure what you want me to say, talking about houses in your home town is getting repetitive

Well if you hadn't continually told me I was wrong the conversation would have been over three pages ago

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 15:26

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 15:13

So historically particularly in the 1930s there was strong support from the Jewish community for left wing politics.

This was largely because the Jewish community was discriminated against and viewed by left wing politics as the oppressed or victims.

This all changed with the creation of the State of Israel which through resisting Arab nation attacks and the resulting Palestinian refugee crisis became viewed by the left as no longer a victim so therefore an oppressor.

This in turn created the anti semitism of the left.

Thanks for the explanation.
You're wrong but thanks anyway.

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 15:27

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 15:25

Well if you hadn't continually told me I was wrong the conversation would have been over three pages ago

From the get go I said it might be different in Scotland which you chose to take as an insult as well

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 15:51

Moonshadowmoon · 21/02/2026 15:27

From the get go I said it might be different in Scotland which you chose to take as an insult as well

I didn't take it as an insult. In my home town you can get a one/two bedroom private let for around 450 - 500 pounds and some people might prefer to stay in a better area than go into a council tenancy in a rougher area. It was my landlord (the local council) that posted on social media saying that they were offered to refugees because they couldn't let them

Just because you believe that people will take anything to get into council housing doesn't make it the same in every area in the UK

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:10

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 15:09

False equivalence.

So those on the left may view many of those on the right as racist, whilst those on the right will deny this.

Equally those on the right may view many of those on the left as anti semetic while those on the left will deny it.

There is an equivalence.

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:11

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 15:26

Thanks for the explanation.
You're wrong but thanks anyway.

Thank you for the thank you.

Would you care to explain why I'm wrong?

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 16:13

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:10

So those on the left may view many of those on the right as racist, whilst those on the right will deny this.

Equally those on the right may view many of those on the left as anti semetic while those on the left will deny it.

There is an equivalence.

Racist parties like Reform are on the right. Nobody's said that all right wing parties are racist.

pointythings · 21/02/2026 16:14

2dogsandabudgie · 21/02/2026 15:06

Well if you think that's not true then don't assume that right wing voters are racist because that's not true either.

Right wing is such a broad church. It includes those (increasingly rare) Conservatives that Kemi doesn't seem to want in her party and it also includes frothers like Ten Names Tommy. The Venn diagram incorporating right wing voting and racism has a substantial overlap, but is not a single circle. I'm not at all sure the same thing applies to antisemitism though, that Venn diagram would have to include racism, left wing voting behaviour and right wing voting behaviour.

ForWittyTealOP · 21/02/2026 16:15

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:11

Thank you for the thank you.

Would you care to explain why I'm wrong?

It's an overly simplistic narrative based on faux Marxism and denies both centuries of history and the existence of socialist Jews like myself.

pointythings · 21/02/2026 16:16

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 15:13

So historically particularly in the 1930s there was strong support from the Jewish community for left wing politics.

This was largely because the Jewish community was discriminated against and viewed by left wing politics as the oppressed or victims.

This all changed with the creation of the State of Israel which through resisting Arab nation attacks and the resulting Palestinian refugee crisis became viewed by the left as no longer a victim so therefore an oppressor.

This in turn created the anti semitism of the left.

That's really only the case if you operate on the premise that 'is opposed to the excesses of the Israeli government with regards to Palestinians' equals 'antisemitic'. It is of course far mroe complex than that.

Your premise is that the left creates victimhood. This implies that genuine oppression and racism don't exist, and that if only people would pull themselves up by their bootstraps they could all be Alan Sugar.

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:28

pointythings · 21/02/2026 16:16

That's really only the case if you operate on the premise that 'is opposed to the excesses of the Israeli government with regards to Palestinians' equals 'antisemitic'. It is of course far mroe complex than that.

Your premise is that the left creates victimhood. This implies that genuine oppression and racism don't exist, and that if only people would pull themselves up by their bootstraps they could all be Alan Sugar.

My premise is that it is in the vested interests of the left to promote and perpetuate the sense of victim hood.

This in turn destroys ambition and hope, which from a racism perspective is far more harmful than an ignorant and hateful verbal racist slur.

1dayatatime · 21/02/2026 16:36

pointythings · 21/02/2026 16:16

That's really only the case if you operate on the premise that 'is opposed to the excesses of the Israeli government with regards to Palestinians' equals 'antisemitic'. It is of course far mroe complex than that.

Your premise is that the left creates victimhood. This implies that genuine oppression and racism don't exist, and that if only people would pull themselves up by their bootstraps they could all be Alan Sugar.

What you view as the excesses of the Israeli Government with regards to the Palestinians can be viewed by others as self defence after being attacked.

The anti semitism of the left has been repackaged with the code word of "anti Zionism " but is clearly evident from simple incidents like shouting "free Palestine "
against anyone Jewish or extreme incidents such as the Manchester synagogue attack.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUyHhSvCMia/?igsh=cmprem0yeWtuMmVm

London & uk Street News on Instagram: "Actor Matt Lucas harassed on tbe London Underground as a Palestine activist says “Free Palestine”.to him."

1,454 likes, 393 comments - london_ukstreetnews on February 15, 2026: "Actor Matt Lucas harassed on tbe London Underground as a Palestine activist says “Free Palestine”.to him.".

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUyHhSvCMia/?igsh=cmprem0yeWtuMmVm

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