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To absolutely hate the word… snacks

150 replies

Ughughughughugh · 18/02/2026 14:25

When did the word snacks come in?! When I was a kid it wasn’t used. It gives me the ick… kids have a snack, give them snacks, snacks snacks snacks . Why not meals?! I could rant all day about the word snack and my hate for it . If you do give your kids food just call it fruit , crisps etc but snacks can jump off a cliffe

OP posts:
Floatlikeafeather2 · 19/02/2026 10:28

I think you mean it wasn't used in your home but I can guarantee people elsewhere were using it. Snack is an ancient word, documented since the 15th century, with a more or less consistent meaning. I'm 70. Snack was a word used in my home as a child. The difference is that a snack usually meant a light meal, taken at meal times. For example, my mother would say "We'll have a snack for lunch because we're having a big meal tonight". The snack might be a sandwich or a small salad. We didn't eat between meals - nobody did - except for maybe a biscuit with a mid morning drink and the same, with a cup of tea, mid afternoon or a piece of cake if there was any around. Chomping away all day just wasn't done (or even thought about).

Katemax82 · 19/02/2026 10:42

My autistic 7 year old don grazes constantly all day. I've tried getting him to wait for meals but he's so skinny and at age 4 went through a phase of not eating at all so I give him snacks about 20 times a day! He calls them "nacks"

ImpatientlyWaitingForSummer · 19/02/2026 12:19

Ughughughughugh · 18/02/2026 22:17

Is he from the West Midlands by any chance?

Yes!! 😂 I am too, I genuinely never realised it might be a regional thing!

NigelFromAccounts · 19/02/2026 12:23

I like the word "snack". Currently fond of "shnack" too.

Don't like "nibbles". Makes me think of a hamster.

I love how it took less than 10 posts for someone to suggest that snacks are part of the agenda of Big UPF. Peak Mumsnet.

EdwinStarrTheBackStreetsNSoul · 19/02/2026 12:55

TeenToTwenties · 18/02/2026 14:35

A snack is a 'treat you can eat between meals without ruining your appetite ' isn't it? We had that in the 70s.

Milky way advert 70s.

TeenToTwenties · 19/02/2026 12:55

EdwinStarrTheBackStreetsNSoul · 19/02/2026 12:55

Milky way advert 70s.

Yes. Before the red car and the blue car started racing.

SunnieShine · 19/02/2026 13:49

Deadringer · 18/02/2026 15:27

Nibbles is worse

Far worse.

SunnieShine · 19/02/2026 13:52

I loathe "a glass of something". Fortunately, I only see it on MN.

Madarch · 19/02/2026 13:59

OP, yes! I hadn't realised how much I hate it until now.

It's horrible!

Snacks can get fucked.

Notmyreality · 19/02/2026 14:02

When were you a kid OP?
The fifteenth century?

Madarch · 19/02/2026 14:04

Ughughughughugh · 18/02/2026 20:17

You’ve got me to a T… hook line and sinker… what a silly billy I am . I feel humiliated and like a slithery toad

Please don't back pedal!

Snacks is a shit concept and a shit word!

Butchyrestingface · 19/02/2026 14:08

Whether you like the word “snacks” or not, it’s disingenuous to pretend the word is some kind of recent phenomenon, in the way “ick” and “picky bits” are.

OP’s objections in any case seem more rooted in the actual practice of eating between meals, rather than the word itself.

Cosyblankets · 19/02/2026 14:10

moofolk · 18/02/2026 16:20

Lol I love a middle class troll thread.

I assume you are purposefully parodying the unbearably snooty Hyacinth Bucket stereotype?

👏👏👏

I don't know anyone who says charcuterie unless they're speaking French

MammaBear1 · 19/02/2026 14:30

We have “snicky snackies” - sorry 🤣

TheRealHousewife · 19/02/2026 14:33

Ughughughughugh · 18/02/2026 14:25

When did the word snacks come in?! When I was a kid it wasn’t used. It gives me the ick… kids have a snack, give them snacks, snacks snacks snacks . Why not meals?! I could rant all day about the word snack and my hate for it . If you do give your kids food just call it fruit , crisps etc but snacks can jump off a cliffe

Which word would you use rather than snacks?

I’m old school and generally don’t have snacky snacks 😬

TheRealHousewife · 19/02/2026 14:35

watchingthishtread · 19/02/2026 09:47

You're making me hungry.

I wish there was a 😅 emoji on MUMSNET … your post did make me lol 😂

Your photo hasn’t been quoted which would have given my comment context.

benten54 · 20/02/2026 09:37

It’s not as bad as ‘meal’. “Shall we go out for a meal?” Ugh. Reminds me of mealworms or a ‘mealy’ apricot or butter bean. Shudder.

Notmyreality · 20/02/2026 10:02

benten54 · 20/02/2026 09:37

It’s not as bad as ‘meal’. “Shall we go out for a meal?” Ugh. Reminds me of mealworms or a ‘mealy’ apricot or butter bean. Shudder.

Ok…

Myexhas6kids · 20/02/2026 13:28

ImpatientlyWaitingForSummer · 18/02/2026 21:49

Agree with the “picky bits”, ugh I hate even typing it out 😂

For me though a snack isn’t a meal, if I wanted a “snack” I’d probably have cheese and crackers or some crisps and a banana! So I’m not bothered by the word snack, interesting though I hate the term “bite to eat”, possibly because my dad has overused it for as long as I can remember, all meals/snacks and everything in between is classified as a “bite to eat”. We still have the same conversation any evening I speak to him:

“Have you had a bite to eat”
”No father, I’ve had my dinner”

😂

Love this, I haven’t heard ‘bite to eat’ for at least a couple of decades! My DM used to say that, eg “and then we’ll have a quick bite to eat before going to the cinema”. It effectively meant snack by another name. She’s been dead for over 20 years but I can hear her saying it now now that you’ve reminded me. Same generation who would say “do you need to spend a penny?” Meaning do you need a wee?

Ughughughughugh · 20/02/2026 15:06

ImpatientlyWaitingForSummer · 19/02/2026 12:19

Yes!! 😂 I am too, I genuinely never realised it might be a regional thing!

It absolutely is! And said in the accent as
well! Maybe that’s why I don’t like snacks as we had a bite to each instead 🤣

OP posts:
WhatterySquash · 21/02/2026 10:57

Katemax82 · 19/02/2026 10:42

My autistic 7 year old don grazes constantly all day. I've tried getting him to wait for meals but he's so skinny and at age 4 went through a phase of not eating at all so I give him snacks about 20 times a day! He calls them "nacks"

It’s true it does depend on the child. They might need a lot of snacks if they have a high metabolism, do sports etc. I also have a skinny beanpole DS (now grown up) who can eat all day and probably should as he needs the calories.

OTOH I definitely did know other parents when my DC were little who were obsessive about snacks and wouldn’t leave the house without a huge supply of them - often performatively healthy or supposedly healthy things like organic rice cakes, carrot sticks, fruit strings or those mini boxes of raisins. If the kids didn’t have 10 snacks a day, they were certainly offered them that often.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 21/02/2026 11:00

My DS massively over uses the word snacks so i now hate it too!

superchick · 22/02/2026 09:51

Cosyblankets · 19/02/2026 14:10

I don't know anyone who says charcuterie unless they're speaking French

But the French word "charcuterie" doesnt have a proper English equivalent. Do you feel the same about the words baguette or cafe?

1000StrawberryLollies · 22/02/2026 10:28

superchick · 22/02/2026 09:51

But the French word "charcuterie" doesnt have a proper English equivalent. Do you feel the same about the words baguette or cafe?

I'm a French teacher, so not exactly averse to using French words, but I have always called it 'cold meat', not charcuterie. I think the Americans call it 'cold cuts'.

1000StrawberryLollies · 22/02/2026 10:31

Butchyrestingface · 19/02/2026 14:08

Whether you like the word “snacks” or not, it’s disingenuous to pretend the word is some kind of recent phenomenon, in the way “ick” and “picky bits” are.

OP’s objections in any case seem more rooted in the actual practice of eating between meals, rather than the word itself.

Quite. Vocabulary snobbery and food piety all rolled into one. Brava, OP.

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