Hiya, wanted some external perspective please?
married for 15 years with a 10 year old. As it is term time, made a plan with both of them to go to library and lunch. I was excited about it only to find both of them in their pjs not keen to go with husband saying lets go in the evening(no particular reason) I have seen that they both stick to plans made by friends and get very excited about it. I was okay that they did not want to go but they could have told me previous days if they did not plan to go? This is the third time something like this is happening when I plan something. Thoughts?