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To think the hotel were out of order with valentines stay/room?

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Hotelhorror · 17/02/2026 13:30

I had a night away booked with my boyfriend on Saturday (the first time we had stayed overnight with each other).

It was a modern hotel with a glass window to the bathroom which was supposed to turn opaque when a button was selected. It was apparent this wasn’t working.

We went downstairs to reception to ask for it to be fixed, receptionist said they’d send someone to take a look. Maintenance man came up and said it was a common issue but he didn’t have the part needed (and wouldn’t have it until midweek) so he accompanied us back to reception again saying they’d give us another room.

The receptionist said there was no alternative rooms available as the hotel was full due to valentines and when this happens, couples have ‘seen it all before so just laugh about it’ and enjoy their stay.

I said this wasn’t acceptable and asked for the manager - who did appear from the back office but basically doubled down and said there was nothing they could do. She did offer us a voucher for a drink each in the bar (really!!) as a ‘goodwill gesture’.

As we had traveled some distance we decided to stay, and used the communal loos in the reception area whenever there was a need (luckily there was no need to in the night).

I found them thoroughly dismissive and am awaiting a response to my formal complaint to head office.

AIBU to find these customer service standards appalling?

Image attached of what I mean (this isn’t mine but from another review of same hotel of people unhappy with the set up)

To think the hotel were out of order with valentines stay/room?
OP posts:
Usernamenotav · 22/02/2026 15:02

UnctuousUnicorns · 22/02/2026 10:59

The OP wants (I presume), and should get, a full refund for her stay, because for those of us who value our privacy when answering the call, a glass walled, see through bathroom is not fit for purpose, and as such, ruined her and her boyfriend's what should have been romantic getaway. And that is shit (pun intended). A poxy drink doesn't wash (ditto) as sufficient recompense. Other hotel chains will fully refund for less. VH are clearly sharks.

If she left then maybe. But she stayed, used the facilities, why should she get it free?

Like when people finish a meal and then complain at the end that they didn't enjoy it.

MonsteraDeliciosa · 22/02/2026 19:56

Usernamenotav · 22/02/2026 15:02

If she left then maybe. But she stayed, used the facilities, why should she get it free?

Like when people finish a meal and then complain at the end that they didn't enjoy it.

Because the room wasn't fit for purpose and was not what was pictured, described or paid for. The hotel broke an agreement.

It's ridiculous to say she shouldn't be refunded because she still used the room; what choice might someone have in that situation? If there's no other accommodation to be found and you're not near home?
And there's the chance they still wouldn't have refunded her even if she had left there and then.

scottishgirl69 · 23/02/2026 11:18

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scottishgirl69 · 23/02/2026 11:30

Other hotel chains will not always fully refund for less - it's completely at their discretion

EvelynBeatrice · 03/03/2026 22:17

scottishgirl69 · 22/02/2026 11:15

Lots of hotel chains won't refund even if there are issues.

Sue them as small claim and publicise publicise publicise - they will refund.

scottishgirl69 · 05/03/2026 00:44

EvelynBeatrice · 03/03/2026 22:17

Sue them as small claim and publicise publicise publicise - they will refund.

If only.

Valeriekat · 05/03/2026 06:57

BrownSharpie · 17/02/2026 13:32

You’re being ridiculous.

I wouldn't like it and have been married 40 years, you don't get to dictate what makes other people uncomfortable.

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