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12pts in a week - driving ban

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Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:47

I can't believe that this is happening.

I am normally such a careful driver. I hate speeding, always use the speed limiter on my car and have never had even 3pts on my licence in almost 30 years of driving.

Last month I worked away from home for a week, and on the way to my temporary workplace there was a road which I thought was a 30mph road but which was actually a 20. I got caught speeding (high 20s) every single day, and yesterday received four speeding fines in the post at once. £400 in fines but also 12pts which means a mandatory six month driving ban!

I simply cannot believe that this is happening. I know that it is my responsibility to know the speed limit, and that I shouldn't break it. But this punishment seems wildly excessive and unfair to me. I have 30 years of spotless driving, and have not suddenly become dangerous in a week. Surely someone can see the pattern here and note that it was multiple times making the same simple mistake in exactly the same place? I didn't even have time to reflect on one speeding ticket and change my driving behaviour because they all arrived at once, after I had left the area!

What can i do? I am not expecting sympathy as I know I am only receiving the punishment due to me. But I may well lose my job. The form says that I can plead 'exceptional hardship' in court but that losing employment doesn't count.

I see boy racers all the time and yet I am getting banned! It just seems such an unfairness.

OP posts:
Zov · 16/02/2026 22:24

Xkk · 16/02/2026 21:20

Please stop advising people shit like that! Speeding is a mistake, lying about it take you the next step up to a criminal dishonesty offence. OP, whatever you do, don't do that!

Agreed! @Jarofgoodness Whatever you do, do NOT lie about being the one driving. That is utterly batshit advice. People have gone to PRISON for this. Forget any fine or points on your licence or 6 month ban, you will lose your licence for probably 5 years, and could very well go to prison, possibly for 6-12 months!

LucyLoo1972 · 16/02/2026 22:24

Zov · 16/02/2026 22:23

What happened to them?

I dont tihnk it was quite all in one week but at least two were in fact on the same day and they did get a ban.

LucyLoo1972 · 16/02/2026 22:25

Zov · 16/02/2026 22:24

Agreed! @Jarofgoodness Whatever you do, do NOT lie about being the one driving. That is utterly batshit advice. People have gone to PRISON for this. Forget any fine or points on your licence or 6 month ban, you will lose your licence for probably 5 years, and could very well go to prison, possibly for 6-12 months!

this happened to that politician and Vicky Price

Zov · 16/02/2026 22:26

LucyLoo1972 · 16/02/2026 22:24

I dont tihnk it was quite all in one week but at least two were in fact on the same day and they did get a ban.

Oh no! Hopefully the OP doesn't get a ban!

LucyLoo1972 · 16/02/2026 22:27

Zov · 16/02/2026 22:26

Oh no! Hopefully the OP doesn't get a ban!

I know it does seem very unfair indeed

AnxietySloth · 16/02/2026 22:28

Janus · 16/02/2026 22:04

You should be able to do a driver’s awareness course for the first speeding ticket and then you have to drive like a snail for 4 years.
Unfortunately this happened to my 81 year old dad when they moved house and he thought a road was 40 when it was 30, he got 5 tickets in a month. He went to court to try for exceptional circumstances as being the only driver in the house. He still lost his license. He had great fun in a mobility scooter for 6 months and then got his licence back. Sadly he died 3 months later.
Send off for the driver’s awareness course as soon as it gets offered, I’m pretty sure it means you going back to the area where you got the fine though to do the course so drive very slowly once you’re there!

You can do the course online now.

OP I sympathise and think not all speeding is equal. I've had one ticket in a lifetime of safe driving (if anything I"m overly cautious) but it was 35 on a 30 - the road runs parallel to the usual road I drive on and is a 30 whereas my usual road is a 40. They're literally the other side of a big field and the only difference at all is that the one I was on that's a 30 has fields on both sides and the one that's a 40 has houses and a school! Makes no sense. Anyway I did my course etc but I do feel for you.

MNersSufferFromContextomy · 16/02/2026 22:31

Jarofgoodness · 15/02/2026 11:47

I can't believe that this is happening.

I am normally such a careful driver. I hate speeding, always use the speed limiter on my car and have never had even 3pts on my licence in almost 30 years of driving.

Last month I worked away from home for a week, and on the way to my temporary workplace there was a road which I thought was a 30mph road but which was actually a 20. I got caught speeding (high 20s) every single day, and yesterday received four speeding fines in the post at once. £400 in fines but also 12pts which means a mandatory six month driving ban!

I simply cannot believe that this is happening. I know that it is my responsibility to know the speed limit, and that I shouldn't break it. But this punishment seems wildly excessive and unfair to me. I have 30 years of spotless driving, and have not suddenly become dangerous in a week. Surely someone can see the pattern here and note that it was multiple times making the same simple mistake in exactly the same place? I didn't even have time to reflect on one speeding ticket and change my driving behaviour because they all arrived at once, after I had left the area!

What can i do? I am not expecting sympathy as I know I am only receiving the punishment due to me. But I may well lose my job. The form says that I can plead 'exceptional hardship' in court but that losing employment doesn't count.

I see boy racers all the time and yet I am getting banned! It just seems such an unfairness.

I think you will be fine as there is some discretion allowed with many police forces especially in this circumstance. If you only found out about the offences all at once there is always the argument you didn’t know about the problem and didn’t have chance to correct your driving.

You could consult a solicitor and they will likely tell you this. It would need to be a specialist solicitor specialises in motoring offences.

also check the area in question for accurate signage and repeating signs and if they haven’t been signage properly none of the offences will count. Good luck!

Womaninhouse17 · 16/02/2026 22:32

Kerensa70 · 16/02/2026 21:03

Very self righteous and you sound ridiculous. Even the Archbishop of Canterbury was done recently.

So maybe even the Archbishop of Canterbury was being a dangerous driver? I don't think anything about being an archbishop means you are a necessarily a good driver.

grumpygrape · 16/02/2026 22:36

Lilyfreedom · 16/02/2026 21:58

My advice is naturally predicated upon the OP being prosecuted in relation to the speeding matters.

And, with 25 years experience in criminal law, I do consider that loss of employment is likely to be persuasive evidence of exceptional hardship. Whilst it often depends upon the effect on others, that is not a determinative requirement.

Well, yes, OP has apparently received NIPs but has the opportunity to go to Court before any consideration of EH needs to be made.

Your experiences of loss of employment being persuasive evidence of EH are different to mine. 😉

PUGMEISTER21 · 16/02/2026 23:07

SilenceInside · 15/02/2026 11:58

Driving on an unfamiliar road is absolutely not any kind of reason to excuse not spotting the speed limit signage. Tbh it would possibly indicate to me a worrying lack of awareness whilst driving, given it was repeatedly in such a short time span.

Yes, saying you weren't aware could mean you are done for driving without due care and attention.

Dontbesaft · 16/02/2026 23:08

As a JP we’re don’t see driving records like yours. Totting usually spans 3-4 seperate by weeks, months or even years between. Each bench make their own decisions but in my court I would expect you to make an exceptional circumstances claim.
losing your job is not a certain win but it will be listened to. It could go from keeping your licence but with very strict conditions, a big fine in lieu, or a ban, likely shorter that the standard.Apologies if this has already been explained

plsdontlookatme · 16/02/2026 23:16

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 15/02/2026 12:44

It's outrageous that you can get fined 4 times whilst in these circumstances being unaware of the first incident.

Pre cameras if you were stopped for speeding you could take responsibility for you actions and then choose how you continue to react.

Not having instant knowledge of your intended prosecution is huge backward step

agree, I would hugely prefer a "being pulled over" approach to dealing with speeding than ANPR everywhere. I also think that forces anally issuing fines to people going at 25 in a 20 are being officious and using drivers as cash cows, and their energies would be much better spent, as others have said, punishing drag racing twats who actually drive carelessly and dangerously.

bumblingbovine49 · 16/02/2026 23:24

PrincessofWells · 15/02/2026 13:19

But actually an apology to the court and an assurance that she will drive more carefully in future would go a long way. Op should elect to have all of them heard in the Mags court and plead guilty but ask that they treat it either as one offence or to not ban her. A good motoring lawyer would avoid a mandatory ban. If op can afford it she should engage a specialist motoring lawyer

I was going to suggest this. Plead guilty and apologise properly and fully, with assurances (and if possible evidence) of how you will drive more carefully in future as well as doing the speed awareness course. Basically, throw yourself on the mercy of the court. A specialist lawyer can advise as to the best course of action and what to say.

The circumstances may be taken into account as long as you say the right things. Don't say things like it is unfair and you have driven for 30 years with no problem.
It was a mistake, own it fully and completely and apologise but ask for the appropriate circumstances to be taken into account, and a lawyer is best placed to advise as to what circumstances should be presented for consideration.

And just to say, I am grateful to MN for the warning about Wales. I would have definitely assumed no speed signs on a road with lights on would default to 30mph. I know ignorance of the law is no excuse but nonetheless I was ignorant of that so am grateful to have been corrected

Good luck op, i hope you get a reasonable outcome. Ignore all the ' holier than thou' replies.

ITMA2000 · 16/02/2026 23:35

RosesAndHellebores · 15/02/2026 12:26

Sympathies @Jarofgoodness.

I have been driving since 1977. Except for once, all my fines points have been in the last five years. I don't think the signs are as clear as they should be and I think there is significant memory muscle vis a vis driving at a safe speed for the road conditions when the limits have just changed 40 to 30, done for 35; 30 to 20, done for 24. Both on clear, empty roads. It's about cameras and revenue rather than safe driving.

'I don't think the signs are as clear as they should be'. Perhaps there should be dispensations for people with visual problems.

Nobodytouchmywine · 16/02/2026 23:58

Anndalouzier · 15/02/2026 12:04

Or maybe they should change the speed limit to 38 for you?

🙄

sleepwouldbenice · 17/02/2026 00:15

I do have some sympathy. I had done a speed awareness course, was something like 2 months from when the next offence would lead to a fine not another course. Then I drove somewhere to drop my sick cat off for an operation and drove back (so not unbroken journey as per previous poster). Got ticket for each wash past same spot

totallt my my fault. But I do get your point about not having the chance to reflect. So I went to pay for them both expecting 2 sets of fines and points. Sent back in same envelope with a pleading post it. They took the £ for both but I only got one set of points

phew

EagerLemur · 17/02/2026 01:28

In future if in doubt have a phone holder and Google maps, it's usually up to date and tells you the speed limit and waht your doing, considering it was a 20 zone, it means it was a high population area and likely school, so think of your 4 tickets and 4 times you could have seriously injured or killed someone

TeenLifeMum · 17/02/2026 02:01

I recently learned that any road with speed bumps is 20mph is without signs. I missed that memo but dd has just passed her test.

GaIadriel · 17/02/2026 02:23

Check the signage. I got a parking ticket refunded this way. Big pub chain where you had to give reg at bar.

But sounds like you made the mistake of assuming it was 30 because it was a built up area.

GhettoSnoopystar · 17/02/2026 04:58

Apologies if this has already been said - I’ve read all of OP’s posts but not others - But could you join a local Facebook group for the area and see if this piece of road has been mentioned, signage wise?

Other than that I absolute recommend a specialist solicitor.

GhettoSnoopystar · 17/02/2026 04:59

ITMA2000 · 16/02/2026 23:35

'I don't think the signs are as clear as they should be'. Perhaps there should be dispensations for people with visual problems.

And awards for the especially patronising. 🥇

Fireflybaby · 17/02/2026 06:01

I'm a bit confused how you missed the speed signs several days in a row... ?
Are they not visible? Were they obstructed? Can you go back and check the visibility? Take some photos, check with a lawyer, fight the fine and points.
If the signs are perfectly visible and you missed them several days in a row, should you even drive?

Nugg · 17/02/2026 06:06

Dartmoorcheffy · 15/02/2026 12:01

You will get 9 points and an offer to do a speeding awareness course so you won't get banned.

I came to say this but also google maps the whole stretch of road and see the signage but if court is what happens definitely go and plead your case

Climbinghigher · 17/02/2026 06:48

Madarch · 15/02/2026 11:58

Depends where you are. The lamppost rules in Wales default to 20 mph and there need to be repeater signs if its anything other than 20

Lampposts are 20 not 30 in Wales? I had no idea 😮

Womaninhouse17 · 17/02/2026 07:23

SilenceInside · 15/02/2026 11:58

Driving on an unfamiliar road is absolutely not any kind of reason to excuse not spotting the speed limit signage. Tbh it would possibly indicate to me a worrying lack of awareness whilst driving, given it was repeatedly in such a short time span.

Exactly. In fact, if it's an unfamiliar road, you could argue that you should be even more vigilant in looking out for street signs etc .