I am also a feminist. And I dislike Islamic extremism as much as I dislike far right extremism. FGM is abhorrent. Threatening to behead an MP is abhorrent. My problem is that you have chosen to make this all about skin colour, and it isn't.
Do you not think that many POC find FGM as abhorrent as we do? Are you not aware of the many POC who are tirelessly campaigning against this practice?
And do you not think that we have massive problems with misogyny and VAWG in our own culture, notwithstanding the fact that it typically expressses itself in different ways? What exactly is it about people having more melanin in their skin that you think makes them a greater risk to your rights as a woman? Do you think that there aren't black and brown people who care about women's rights every bit as much as you do?
Likewise, if you want to have a discussion about violence and threats of violence in public life, then by all means, let's talk about that. But let's not only talk about the threats from black and brown people. What about the white supremacist who killed my old university friend, Jo Cox? What about the trans activists who regularly send rape and death threats to JKR and others who dare to express gender critical views? What about the appalling barrage of rape and death threats that are very regularly sent to MPs like Diane Abbott simply because they happen to be women of colour?
Nobody is denying that some black and brown people have committed truly horrific crimes. Nobody is denying that there are harmful cultural practices that need to be addressed. We should not shy away from talking about these things, and I don't think anyone is saying that we can't talk about them. Indeed, many people in those communities want to discuss and address the issues.
But if we only focus on the crimes and harms perpetrated by black and brown people, turn a blind eye to the crimes and harms commited by white people, and choose to frame the arguments as being all about skin colour, then that is a problem.
We can absolutely talk about issues such as FGM or Islamist threats against MPs etc, but we should do so with a clear understanding that the vast majority of black and brown people are no more responsible for those horrific crimes than you, as a white person, were responsible for the white supremacist that murdered Jo Cox. Quite the contrary, most will be horrified by them.
Do you not think that it would be utterly absurd for people to fear you, or impute certain values and attitudes to you, simply because you happen to share the same skin colour as Jo Cox's killer or as Andrew Mountbatten Windsor? Can you not see how deeply offensive it is to assume that people have certain values and attitudes on the basis of their skin colour alone?
You have posted on here worrying about white people becoming a minority in this country as if having a population with more black and brown people is suddenly going to turn the UK into some sort of barbaric society in which nobody cares about the rights of women or threats of beheading etc. Do you honestly not understand that the vast majority of black and brown people don't want to live in that kind of society either?
My DH is brown and my DD is brown. They will be part of the black and brown majority that you seem to fear so much. They represent no threat to you or your way of life at all.