What you’re missing here is this is not about improving outcomes for children, which is obviously a great thing.
It’s about getting more children to be born in the first place. The key to that is not improving outcomes for parents.
Why would someone choose to have children, potentially tank their career, have to take a lifelong lower salary, work through pregnancy, then have to put their children in full time nursery to be looked after by someone else, go back into work they probably aren’t as motivated to that just takes away from time with the children they’ve just had?
Why would anyone do that?
What does improving outcomes for children have to do with someone deciding whether they want to be a new mother struggling to cope with sleep, a baby, potentially breastfeeding or then also being in work, pumping, watching someone else raise their children and all the risks that entails.
Where on the flip side you can enjoy a higher disposable income, none of the sleep issues, none of the separation anxiety, none of the childcare costs, none of the need for bigger houses or cars and go out whenever you feel like it, on holiday for a fraction of the cost if you just don’t have children.
These are the individual decisions we need to incentivise more in favour of people choosing to have children.