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Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant

829 replies

Sweetiedarling7 · 14/02/2026 07:57

Reform candidate Matt Goodwin wants women to have children early in life and introduce extra taxes as punishment for anyone who chooses not to have children.

Misogyny in plain sight.

How long till they ban abortion too?

Women voting Reform may want to consider if they are turkeys voting for christmas.

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igelkott2026 · 14/02/2026 12:09

That said, I know Kirstie Allsopp got it in the neck for saying women should have kids in their 20s but it is the ideal time biologically, even if it isn't societally.

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 12:09

1dayatatime · 14/02/2026 11:17

The contradiction I see is that Reform are concerned about the UK population increase ( 98% from immigration) causing pressure on Infrastructure and services and yet at the same time encouraging people to have more children.

Personally I agree that a larger population means that infrastructure and services are pressured and that the quality of life is lower. Also the most cost effective means of protecting the environment and combatting climate change is through population reduction achieved through both lower immigration and a lower birth rate.

Can you explain your 98% from immigration argument?

nicepotoftea · 14/02/2026 12:12

Catwalking · 14/02/2026 12:05

mmm, can you back up your musings with actual references tho?

Christianity is an evangelical religion.

About 5% of people in the UK go to church.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:12

EarthSight · 14/02/2026 10:59

I saw that and didn't like it.

At the same time, you could say that women voting for Greens, Labour, Lib Dems, Plaid or SNP are also turkeys voting for Christmas, given their stance on single sex spaces, and the fact that politicians who are actual feminists are hounded & bullied in those parties if they refuse to kowtow to the trans cult.

And any woman voting for the Gaza Independents. Sectarian politics wouldn't go well for women.

Yewoo · 14/02/2026 12:14

igelkott2026 · 14/02/2026 12:07

Well my view is that there are too many people in the world already and we don't need to encourage people to have more than two kids each (well one child each - two per couple).

I said this on another thread but all Reform is worried about is that there are too many brown babies and not enough white babies. Eugh.

Thing is though, a falling birth rate doesn’t just turn off the tap. It also means people who already exist will likely die younger, due to a lack of both tax revenue to pay for services and physically capable people to provide care. That’s the hard reset we are heading towards right now.

nicepotoftea · 14/02/2026 12:14

igelkott2026 · 14/02/2026 12:09

That said, I know Kirstie Allsopp got it in the neck for saying women should have kids in their 20s but it is the ideal time biologically, even if it isn't societally.

Men's sperm also has a best before date. Perhaps Matt Goodwin could focus on encouraging men to be better partners and fathers.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:15

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 12:09

Can you explain your 98% from immigration argument?

That is true actually. The growth in population in the first half of 2024 was 755,000 (second largest rise for 75 years) 98% of which was due to immigration.

2021-2024 - 2.3million immigrants . National net population was level.

MayaPinion · 14/02/2026 12:15

StandFirm · 14/02/2026 10:43

They bloody well should vote themselves out of the gene pool.

In fairness, at least many of them are in plain sight now. At least it makes them easier to avoid.

Usernamenotav · 14/02/2026 12:17

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 14/02/2026 08:01

Reform are hateful.

However l wish id had my children earlier. In terms of energy, delivery and longevity l’ve always thought 20’s were the best age.

I think late 20s is probably ideal. The brain isn't even fully developed until age 25.

exse24Londoner · 14/02/2026 12:20

1dayatatime · 14/02/2026 11:17

The contradiction I see is that Reform are concerned about the UK population increase ( 98% from immigration) causing pressure on Infrastructure and services and yet at the same time encouraging people to have more children.

Personally I agree that a larger population means that infrastructure and services are pressured and that the quality of life is lower. Also the most cost effective means of protecting the environment and combatting climate change is through population reduction achieved through both lower immigration and a lower birth rate.

"Reform are concerned about the UK population increase ( 98% from immigration)"
please could you evidence this statement? at the moment it looks like unsubstantiated nonsense designed to only provoke & for clicks

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:21

exse24Londoner · 14/02/2026 12:20

"Reform are concerned about the UK population increase ( 98% from immigration)"
please could you evidence this statement? at the moment it looks like unsubstantiated nonsense designed to only provoke & for clicks

Its from official statistics so is fact. Extraordinary really.

Noodles1234 · 14/02/2026 12:24

They want lots of young children, if you look at our demographics we are a stage 4 country and we need more youngsters to help prop in taxes the older generation / healthcare / pensions / anything tax related and spend. We need more work age people to pay taxes. Possibly why working immigrants can help.

How much more pressure do young people need, currently they need to

  1. get all the good grades in education
  2. get a degree or an amazing apprenticeship
  3. get a good job that pays enough to afford a small flat
  4. while doing all this meet a very suitable partner, get married and have kids (hope stress of 1,2 and 3 don’t ruin it all. Hope flat can accommodate new family. Cost of wedding even a simple one to be sidelined for now. Reason many are unmarried.
  5. keep climbing career ladder if only to get payrise to afford horrendous living costs let alone childcare costs.

Shocker, most people want to settle down and have a family just so many coats are against them, how about helping out with all that and everything else will come. Not all men / women want to palm off their children to childcare or at least have a hybrid system that is fair to people that cannot have children or choose not to for whatever personal reason they may not want to share.

Free childcare that is very good and not 6th Formers on their phones (I know not all do, but have seen a few), or people that don’t give a toss but well paid people really passionate about good care and decent ratios not just 30 kids and 2 adults, but space, outdoors, invigorating small groups, happy contented children in communities. Just a thought.

Shakeoffyourchains · 14/02/2026 12:29

RingoJuice · 14/02/2026 10:41

Then paying additional taxes is a good way to contribute, is it not?

Like I feel bad if you wanted a family and it’s not on the cards for any number of reasons. But it’s not a reason to hold back on these sorts of policies, imo.

So the right have been moaning incessantly about higher taxes driving net contributors out of the country, but are now fully supportive of slapping higher taxes on childless people (who are statistically more likely to be net contributors)?

You lot really need to make up your minds on shit cause it's exhausting trying to keep track of your hypocrisy on every single topic.

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 12:32

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:21

Its from official statistics so is fact. Extraordinary really.

It's from net migration which is now falling.

And each UK nation would experience population decline without future net migration

WearyAuldWumman · 14/02/2026 12:35

OhDear111 · 14/02/2026 08:44

The mistake s thinking Reform is just appealing to the right wing. Labour are quaking in their boots over Reform. They are basically nationalists and people in the uk are sheep and now don’t like either of the former main parties. Reform are odious but so are lots of Brits and they are not very bright either. Why people vote for noisy charismatic leaders is beyond me but, as history shows is, they do. Of course loony individuals are not policy makers who back up their stupid thoughts by law.

On a sensible note, we do need a higher birth rate. Government needs to create the economic circumstances for that to happen. I doubt they can do that. This is all about limiting immigration of course but a low birth rate isn’t desirable either.

The turnout for our local councillor by-election was extremely low - only 22%. Historically, this area used to vote Labour.

First place was SNP; second was Reform. Reform have been running on a "Stop the SNP" ticket.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:37

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 12:32

It's from net migration which is now falling.

And each UK nation would experience population decline without future net migration

Yes Labour need to get immigration properly under control. I think legal migration has responded to the Conservatives measures. Illegal migration is still a problem.

Obviously it will also depend if Keir stays as PM or we get someone more left wing who doesnt approve of the Home Secretary's current approach.

Overall is population decline a bad thing? We are nearing 70 million and its putting huge pressure on the country. We probably need to be looking at getting more people already here back into/into work, such as graduates, who seem to be having a bad time with the flat jobs market.

exse24Londoner · 14/02/2026 12:37

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:21

Its from official statistics so is fact. Extraordinary really.

extraordinary indeed......... unbelievable

Yewoo · 14/02/2026 12:43

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 12:37

Yes Labour need to get immigration properly under control. I think legal migration has responded to the Conservatives measures. Illegal migration is still a problem.

Obviously it will also depend if Keir stays as PM or we get someone more left wing who doesnt approve of the Home Secretary's current approach.

Overall is population decline a bad thing? We are nearing 70 million and its putting huge pressure on the country. We probably need to be looking at getting more people already here back into/into work, such as graduates, who seem to be having a bad time with the flat jobs market.

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Population decline is a bad thing if it’s largely made up of a drop in working aged people (either through a lack of births or a lack of immigration) without a corresponding drop in those requiring the system working aged people pay into.

Goldenbear · 14/02/2026 12:44

WearyAuldWumman · 14/02/2026 12:35

The turnout for our local councillor by-election was extremely low - only 22%. Historically, this area used to vote Labour.

First place was SNP; second was Reform. Reform have been running on a "Stop the SNP" ticket.

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Stop the SNP ticket means what?

TheOchreJoker · 14/02/2026 12:45

PeachOctopus · 14/02/2026 09:05

I think extra taxes on single people would perhaps be fair enough as they don’t have the huge financial burden of having children and a small extra tax might offset that.
We should prioritise children and old people first as a society as they are the most vulnerable.

Has it never occurred to you that we are single and childless due to financial burden? I can barely afford to feed myself so supporting a child or partner is out of the question yet the likes of you who can afford to support a whole family want to see people like me taxed?
Get a grip.

WearyAuldWumman · 14/02/2026 12:46

Goldenbear · 14/02/2026 12:44

Stop the SNP ticket means what?

They said that neither the Tories nor Labour could stop the SNP from being elected and that only Reform could succeed in ousting them from first place - that was their main campaigning point.

charliehungerford · 14/02/2026 12:47

Mrsblobby88 · 14/02/2026 09:23

This is fucked up and scary. Can you send the source of this?

There won’t be a link, he didn’t actually say that women who don’t have children would be taxed more, he was looking at ways of incentivising women to have children by reducing their taxes. A similar system now exists in Hungary. As a society We need have more children, our birth rate is in decline and people are living into their late eighties and nineties, it’s not sustainable. With high rents, exorbitant property prices, massive student debts and stagnant wages, many of those in the 25-35 age groups can’t afford kids. My daughter got married a few years ago, we were talking about having children at the wedding, she said is wasn’t an issue as at the time none of the guests, mainly young people the 28-40 age group had children, none of them. That would have been unthinkable thirty years ago.

Goldenbear · 14/02/2026 12:48

WearyAuldWumman · 14/02/2026 12:46

They said that neither the Tories nor Labour could stop the SNP from being elected and that only Reform could succeed in ousting them from first place - that was their main campaigning point.

Oh right thanks - seems bold!

Allisnotlost1 · 14/02/2026 12:50

ThankYouNigel · 14/02/2026 11:25

TBH I don’t think any political parties do, their focus is on money and materialism. Partly why my family has refers to rely on ourselves and support each other.

Assuming then that none of you do or will claim state pension, child benefit, send your children to state school, use the NHS or any other public services?

Goldenbear · 14/02/2026 12:51

TheOchreJoker · 14/02/2026 12:45

Has it never occurred to you that we are single and childless due to financial burden? I can barely afford to feed myself so supporting a child or partner is out of the question yet the likes of you who can afford to support a whole family want to see people like me taxed?
Get a grip.

I have older DC but today's reality for some is what you are arguing. Again, they are not a progressive party as all their solutions are based upon a return to the 1950s!