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To be confused by 'high earners' complaining about taxes?

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tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

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ThisOldThang · 11/02/2026 21:47

If all jobs paid the same, who would do the shit jobs?

Job A: 9am-5pm in a warm safe environment with a light workload - e.g. local library.

Job B: Night shifts at the local sewerage works unblocking pipes and spraying out tanks. Getting covered in human faeces.

No rational person would choose Job B unless it paid more money. That's just human nature and why all these dreams of equality/socialism/communism can never actually work in reality.

It's really not very complicated.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 21:50

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 21:26

You’re resentful at the single mother with two children, serving you at the supermarket / cafe / cleaning your office building who gets her £1600 a month topped up with UC allowing her to put food on her table and pay for her children to attend after school club while she slogs away?

I take home about £3k a month (after tax and student loan) on a £50k salary and think it’s plenty, more than enough. It is completely baffling why posters on this thread are seemingly working so hard to make more and more money but appear to be miserable, bitter, and unsatisfied with their growing pay check. Why not relax and set your sights a bit lower if you’re finding it so hard? There will be plenty of others to take your place I’m sure.

No, I’m resentful at the amount of tax people are forced to pay and who also loose access to some of the services they pay for. I’m also highlighting that the take home difference between minimum wage and a top 3% salary is actually quite small and pointing out that this will lead to more and more people opting for an attitude of ‘ why not relax and set your sights a bit lower’, unfortunately particularly young people. It’s not really a great attitude for a nation (or anyone really) for all sorts of reasons and a good example of why high disproportional taxes lead to low growth and will eventually result in actually less tax revenue.

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:52

5128gap · 11/02/2026 21:28

So, do you think your mum should have been prioritised over the child of someone on NMW because you pay more tax than them? Or just prioritised over another elderly person who's child paid less tax? And should she have waited longer than the mother of a person who paid more tax than you?
The service your mother recieved was appalling. But I'm interested in how you see your hierarchy working in practice.

have a public nhs and a private tier nhs, logic being look after the more $$ tax payers then they can keep earning more for the system

ThisOldThang · 11/02/2026 21:53

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 21:50

No, I’m resentful at the amount of tax people are forced to pay and who also loose access to some of the services they pay for. I’m also highlighting that the take home difference between minimum wage and a top 3% salary is actually quite small and pointing out that this will lead to more and more people opting for an attitude of ‘ why not relax and set your sights a bit lower’, unfortunately particularly young people. It’s not really a great attitude for a nation (or anyone really) for all sorts of reasons and a good example of why high disproportional taxes lead to low growth and will eventually result in actually less tax revenue.

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And when the government tops up wages via UC all jobs become exactly the same in terms of reward, so people choose jobs based upon how easy they are, rather than how much they pay - so nobody wants to do the hard jobs. You'd actually be stupid to do the hard jobs.

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:53

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 21:50

No, I’m resentful at the amount of tax people are forced to pay and who also loose access to some of the services they pay for. I’m also highlighting that the take home difference between minimum wage and a top 3% salary is actually quite small and pointing out that this will lead to more and more people opting for an attitude of ‘ why not relax and set your sights a bit lower’, unfortunately particularly young people. It’s not really a great attitude for a nation (or anyone really) for all sorts of reasons and a good example of why high disproportional taxes lead to low growth and will eventually result in actually less tax revenue.

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but thats the fault of modern businesses only paying x amout rather than proper wages

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 21:54

tutuland · 11/02/2026 20:38

Yeah you'd think the 'squeezed middle' would turn on them not people on benefits

The squeezed middle are entitled to challenge how their taxes are spent. Its madness to suggest / believe that the people paying a significant share of the shouldn't have the right to question waste, incompetence or whether the current system is financially sustainable. Should we just wait till it falls over?

No one is attacking those on benefits/ low earners. But when the people footing a large part of the bill are told they are the problem and should just keep quiet and keep paying, don’t be surprised if they bite back. Being a net contributor does not make you a villain nor does earning more than a nurse.

If the welfare state is going to survive, it has to work for both those who rely on it and those who fund it. Endless redistribution without discipline, scrutiny or reform damages trust. And when trust goes, so does the motivation followed by productivity.

ThisOldThang · 11/02/2026 21:56

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:52

have a public nhs and a private tier nhs, logic being look after the more $$ tax payers then they can keep earning more for the system

I definitely think that working people should get priority for GP appointments. The unemployed and retired can take the appointments they're given.

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 21:59

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:53

but thats the fault of modern businesses only paying x amout rather than proper wages

According to this tread its the fault of high earners taking low earners money. Because what possible reasons other the self importance and greed would mean that anyone is paid more than a nurse. Oh, and high earners are also making low earners pay more tax - well VAT, because that the big one...

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:00

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:53

but thats the fault of modern businesses only paying x amout rather than proper wages

Is it? have a guess how much an employer pays in taxes before they give you your salary so that you in turn can then pay your chunk of taxes? I know you’re going to mention Starbucks or Amazon? but I’m talking about SMEs.
Its all filtering more and more money to the Government who then decide how it’s distributed whilst blaming everyone that they need more.

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:02

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:00

Is it? have a guess how much an employer pays in taxes before they give you your salary so that you in turn can then pay your chunk of taxes? I know you’re going to mention Starbucks or Amazon? but I’m talking about SMEs.
Its all filtering more and more money to the Government who then decide how it’s distributed whilst blaming everyone that they need more.

bottom line any business should not expect cheap labour to run there business model, otherwise how can people afford to live and buy other companies products etc

tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:05

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 21:54

The squeezed middle are entitled to challenge how their taxes are spent. Its madness to suggest / believe that the people paying a significant share of the shouldn't have the right to question waste, incompetence or whether the current system is financially sustainable. Should we just wait till it falls over?

No one is attacking those on benefits/ low earners. But when the people footing a large part of the bill are told they are the problem and should just keep quiet and keep paying, don’t be surprised if they bite back. Being a net contributor does not make you a villain nor does earning more than a nurse.

If the welfare state is going to survive, it has to work for both those who rely on it and those who fund it. Endless redistribution without discipline, scrutiny or reform damages trust. And when trust goes, so does the motivation followed by productivity.

Everyone funds it.

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LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:07

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:02

bottom line any business should not expect cheap labour to run there business model, otherwise how can people afford to live and buy other companies products etc

agreed, then perhaps increasing tax on employers wasn’t a great idea? Increasing business rates maybe not great either. What do you think? Do you think that will result in an increase in wages?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 11/02/2026 22:08

Why wouldn’t they complain, all
of the penalties with none of the benefits. They are cut off from the basics of support which is child benefit.
I would be pissed off in this situation.

tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:08

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 21:50

No, I’m resentful at the amount of tax people are forced to pay and who also loose access to some of the services they pay for. I’m also highlighting that the take home difference between minimum wage and a top 3% salary is actually quite small and pointing out that this will lead to more and more people opting for an attitude of ‘ why not relax and set your sights a bit lower’, unfortunately particularly young people. It’s not really a great attitude for a nation (or anyone really) for all sorts of reasons and a good example of why high disproportional taxes lead to low growth and will eventually result in actually less tax revenue.

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Youre resentful the tax system is designed to reduce the different between the top 3% and minimum wage. Isn't that the whole point of living in a society.

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tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:09

ThisOldThang · 11/02/2026 21:47

If all jobs paid the same, who would do the shit jobs?

Job A: 9am-5pm in a warm safe environment with a light workload - e.g. local library.

Job B: Night shifts at the local sewerage works unblocking pipes and spraying out tanks. Getting covered in human faeces.

No rational person would choose Job B unless it paid more money. That's just human nature and why all these dreams of equality/socialism/communism can never actually work in reality.

It's really not very complicated.

Where have you come across a sewage worker paid more than a tech bro sitting in an office?

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5128gap · 11/02/2026 22:11

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 21:52

have a public nhs and a private tier nhs, logic being look after the more $$ tax payers then they can keep earning more for the system

So we would prioritise a 65 year old higher rate tax payer on the verge of retirement over a young person in their 20s who hadn't yet had the opportunity to achieve their potential tax bracket? That doesn't seem very logical if we are prioritising who we look after on the basis of how much the system will benefit from them. And what about the non working partners of higher rate tax payers? Logically they should be in economy as we don't need to keep them well, only their spouses.
I think this still needs work.

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:12

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:07

agreed, then perhaps increasing tax on employers wasn’t a great idea? Increasing business rates maybe not great either. What do you think? Do you think that will result in an increase in wages?

no business would willingly increase wages even if other taxs became lower, businesses exist for the profit and the shareholders etc other wise if businesses could employ people at £1 an hr then they would

MNLurker1345 · 11/02/2026 22:13

I am a high tax payer. I would like to ask you, OP do you feel you get value for money from my high tax contribution. Because if you do, all well and good. If not, apologies, I can’t give more.

HMRC calculate my tax contribution from my income earned. I pay it! I have the right to have an opinion. My opinion does not affect whether I pay my tax or not. But your questioning about how I feel about it is irrelevant and disingenuous.

And do keep in mind that contributions?????, are relative. So for you, your contributions may pinch, and so do mine. But all for the common good, aye!

nomas · 11/02/2026 22:13

tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:05

Everyone funds it.

Oh you sweet summer child.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:17

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:12

no business would willingly increase wages even if other taxs became lower, businesses exist for the profit and the shareholders etc other wise if businesses could employ people at £1 an hr then they would

really? and if taxes go higher? No effect? There hasn’t been a large spike in unemployment since the budget? This is a pointless conversation isn’t it?

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:22

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:17

really? and if taxes go higher? No effect? There hasn’t been a large spike in unemployment since the budget? This is a pointless conversation isn’t it?

if taxes as they did go higher some businesses recruit less so why would businesses pay more wages if taxes were lower, thats why we had nmw to begin with because some companies were taking the biscuits

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:23

tutuland · 11/02/2026 22:08

Youre resentful the tax system is designed to reduce the different between the top 3% and minimum wage. Isn't that the whole point of living in a society.

Again, resentful at the incredibly high tax burden ! Highest since we were at total war.Why? For an ideology that isn’t working.

The point in a society is increased survival and prosperity, does that look like what discouraging the most capable members from bothering is achieving?

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 22:24

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 21:06

Income tax is progressive but it’s well evidenced that the U.K. tax system overall is regressive due to the impact of VAT and other indirect taxes (fuel duty, alcohol, excise and tobacco duties, customs duties etc). Council tax is also regressive at the bottom.

What I’m saying isn’t spoken about very much so there’s ignorance in the general population, however it’s a standard argument and well accepted in public-finance economics and tax academics that overall the U.K. tax system is regressive.

As a share of income poorer household pay so much more VAT and other indirect taxes that it offsets the income tax progressivity.

It is not universally accepted - selective framing yet again.

As I have said, if you want to understand how progressive or regressive our tax system is you need to look at the big picture. Who pays in and who gets paid out. Not just one side.

If person pays 3k in VAT (lest assume this is a significant proportion of their earnings) but receives 10k in benefits. VAT is still regressive but their financial position is significantly healthier.

And again, the bulk of its tax revenue generated is through income tax, NI and Corp Tax which are Progressive.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 22:25

Eddiestrangerthings · 11/02/2026 22:22

if taxes as they did go higher some businesses recruit less so why would businesses pay more wages if taxes were lower, thats why we had nmw to begin with because some companies were taking the biscuits

To get the most skilled workers.

freakingscared · 11/02/2026 22:28

I’m in the middle earner at 60k and we seem to be the most the most according to our salary . I don’t begrudge it if they are being well used but often doesn’t seem the case