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To think the roots of the grooming gangs go back to failures from the 1950s on?

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Carla786 · 09/02/2026 11:32

I was reading Hina Husain's excellent article here and it made me think

https://unherd.com/2025/06/mirpuris-and-the-problem-of-integration/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

that discussion of the roots of the grooming gangs tends to focus on Blair's failed multiculturalism policies, local council/police etc failings.

But what rarely gets talked about is why and how large parts of the northern Mirpuri Pakistani communities were allowed to get to such a self-segregated and dysfunctional state to begin with.
Why was there no research in the 1950s-60s on the clan systems, misogynistic practices prevalent in rural Mirpuri villages when they were encouraged to immigrate? Why PMs from Wilson, Heath, Thatcher etc never appear to make integration of such communities a priority to some extent?

Most stuff just seems to blame PC culture & Tony Blair, who do share a huge amount of blame, but less is asked about why this situation, clearly full of potential issues, was never addressed much from the 60s to 1997...

Mirpuris and the problem of integration

https://unherd.com/2025/06/mirpuris-and-the-problem-of-integration/

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Amerii · 10/02/2026 01:25

You can’t really argue it’s a race thing either. Sikh and Hindu men are not in grooming gangs.

Why is that?

Some cultures just have shocking attitudes to women. We should be able to say that.

canisquaeso · 10/02/2026 01:46

I’m more concerned with the fact that it took an unreasonable amount of time for any action to be taken.

Sure, perpetrators might come from a different culture, but why weren’t local services more proactive in tackling it?

We all know why: because back then grooming young girls wasn’t taken anywhere near as seriously as it is nowadays.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:53

canisquaeso · 10/02/2026 01:46

I’m more concerned with the fact that it took an unreasonable amount of time for any action to be taken.

Sure, perpetrators might come from a different culture, but why weren’t local services more proactive in tackling it?

We all know why: because back then grooming young girls wasn’t taken anywhere near as seriously as it is nowadays.

Agree

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Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:54

Amerii · 10/02/2026 01:25

You can’t really argue it’s a race thing either. Sikh and Hindu men are not in grooming gangs.

Why is that?

Some cultures just have shocking attitudes to women. We should be able to say that.

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To be fair, if urban, educated Pakistanis have come from Lahore or Karachi then the picture would probably look different. It's the rural clan culture in places like Mirpur which is so dysfunctional.
If Hindu men had been brought from uneducated villages where women have low status then there might have been similar problems (not the same clan system though). There's clearly a severe problem of rape in Hindu-majority India now. The difference was that the Hindus & Sikhs who came here were urban & educated etc

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ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 01:56

canuckup · 10/02/2026 01:23

I do think the 'Asian' term is a red herring, in the sense that in the North of England (where a lot of this abuse happened) we know it doesn't include Sri Lankans, Indians etc. It's the term used to describe people of Pakistani/Bangladeshi heritage. Not Chinese, Japanese, etc.

So, no, we are not tarring them all with the same brush, if you like.

Another example of cultural appropration!

I think it was just a case of "Asian" being a more general term and everyone being terrified to actually say "Pakistani". I can understand why it upset a lot of people whose culture was/ is totally different, and misled a huge number of people who never listened to victims or read any of the reports or listened to Sarah Champion, Maggie Oliver or Anne Cryer at the time.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:57

ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 01:56

I think it was just a case of "Asian" being a more general term and everyone being terrified to actually say "Pakistani". I can understand why it upset a lot of people whose culture was/ is totally different, and misled a huge number of people who never listened to victims or read any of the reports or listened to Sarah Champion, Maggie Oliver or Anne Cryer at the time.

Yes, and the problem is it's a specifically Mirpuri Pakistani problem because that's who we invited in back in the 50s and 60s. Why??

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OneGreySeal · 10/02/2026 01:57

Carla786 · 09/02/2026 18:31

Still, Pakistani rural culture in Mipur was just as misogynistic is it is now, probably more so. Covering mandates for women, honour killings, cousin marriage etc

Yes, ideas may have got more strict since then due to stuff like external countries pushing extremism (Saudi for one) but the problem was mainly rooted in the existing culture.

It's astonishing the way the government brought so many people in with so little care about background, and such little attempt at addressing the problem by governments in the 60s, 70s, 80s etc

It's astonishing the way the government brought so many people in with so little care about background

i was wondering at what point you’d blow your cover, a thread disguised as concerns for rape victims but in actual fact inciting hate towards an entire community. Imagine hating immigrants more than pedophiles and rapists.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:59

OneGreySeal · 10/02/2026 01:57

It's astonishing the way the government brought so many people in with so little care about background

i was wondering at what point you’d blow your cover, a thread disguised as concerns for rape victims but in actual fact inciting hate towards an entire community. Imagine hating immigrants more than pedophiles and rapists.

Congratulations on spectacularly misreading my whole argument...!

'Blow my cover' - I have nothing to hide..🙄

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2026 02:04

OneGreySeal · 10/02/2026 01:57

It's astonishing the way the government brought so many people in with so little care about background

i was wondering at what point you’d blow your cover, a thread disguised as concerns for rape victims but in actual fact inciting hate towards an entire community. Imagine hating immigrants more than pedophiles and rapists.

The specific individual men she’s talking about are paedophiles and rapists 🙄

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 02:07

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2026 02:04

The specific individual men she’s talking about are paedophiles and rapists 🙄

Thank you!

Re Maggie Oliver, I was just reading her Wiki page : When Oliver got upset about the handling of the case, she claims one of her seniors told her, "Maggie, calm down. Listen: What would these kids ever contribute to society? They should have just been drowned at birth".
Need to check the citation, but unfortunately sounds plausible to me. The contempt the police seemed to have for the girls was horrible.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2026 02:10

It does sound plausible.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 02:10

Note the grooming gangs are still operating, too...!

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&rct=j&url=www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/07/01/the-grooming-scandal-abuse-today/%23:~:text%3DIn%25202003%252C%2520the%2520local%2520Labour,here%252C%2520according%2520to%2520multiple%2520sources.&ved=2ahUKEwi4ge_z682SAxVUQ0EAHeGFNZoQmL8OegQIBxAC&opi=89978449&cd&psig=AOvVaw1pX7uuLgCMHf4GNW5arJwy&ust=1770775762903000

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2050kkpzypo&ved=2ahUKEwi7_puS7M2SAxWbVEEAHUOaEfwQFnoECD4QAQ&usg=AOvVaw3drcpabB28P0LepUfXwFiH

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ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 02:13

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:57

Yes, and the problem is it's a specifically Mirpuri Pakistani problem because that's who we invited in back in the 50s and 60s. Why??

I am not convinced about that tbh. As I said earlier, from what I learned as a rather naive student in the early 70s, the significant appearance of large quantities of heroin from pakistan was a noteable event. It was traded through some, not all, local businesses and went from strength to strength as takeaway businesses and taxi firms flourished in Northern towns.The grooming gangs seem to have been a by product of some of those. Certain families became very rich and influential.
One of the biggest west yorkshire heroin dealers I know of has a veritable mansion in the middle of an otherwise quiet little town. He has been in business for decades.
Just as an aside, I moved down south over 40 years ago and the biggest drug lords/ money launderers/ organised crime people here are Albanian and Turkish. The police turn a blind eye to it where I live too.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 02:16

ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 02:13

I am not convinced about that tbh. As I said earlier, from what I learned as a rather naive student in the early 70s, the significant appearance of large quantities of heroin from pakistan was a noteable event. It was traded through some, not all, local businesses and went from strength to strength as takeaway businesses and taxi firms flourished in Northern towns.The grooming gangs seem to have been a by product of some of those. Certain families became very rich and influential.
One of the biggest west yorkshire heroin dealers I know of has a veritable mansion in the middle of an otherwise quiet little town. He has been in business for decades.
Just as an aside, I moved down south over 40 years ago and the biggest drug lords/ money launderers/ organised crime people here are Albanian and Turkish. The police turn a blind eye to it where I live too.

Hang on, why do you think the abusers were not from Mirpur? I think most British Pakistanis are?

Or was your disagreement with something else? Sorry, I don't quite follow...

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ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 02:27

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 02:16

Hang on, why do you think the abusers were not from Mirpur? I think most British Pakistanis are?

Or was your disagreement with something else? Sorry, I don't quite follow...

Sorry. I didn't explain clearly.
Yes, I am sure the abusers in the grooming gangs were/ are from the Mirpur community. I think that is down to particular cultural norms in that community. I listened to Anne Cryer talking about this in depth at the time.
I am not sure it goes back to the 40s and 50s because I haven't heard or read anything about that period. I understand that many people from many different countries came here in the 40s and 50s, my own parents included. As far as I was aware the vast majority came to work and just had to get on with it..
The first I heard about serious concerns about the Mirpur community was the heroin in the early 70s. The grooming gangs were the same people. Still ongoing.

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 02:34

ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 02:27

Sorry. I didn't explain clearly.
Yes, I am sure the abusers in the grooming gangs were/ are from the Mirpur community. I think that is down to particular cultural norms in that community. I listened to Anne Cryer talking about this in depth at the time.
I am not sure it goes back to the 40s and 50s because I haven't heard or read anything about that period. I understand that many people from many different countries came here in the 40s and 50s, my own parents included. As far as I was aware the vast majority came to work and just had to get on with it..
The first I heard about serious concerns about the Mirpur community was the heroin in the early 70s. The grooming gangs were the same people. Still ongoing.

I understand,,thank you. To clarify : I definitely don't want to condemn all immigrants who've come over the last decades..or all Pakistanis or all Mirpuris etc My own grandfather came here as a refugee from Poland in 1945, I'm certainly not anti-immigration of decent, law-abiding people.

I agree most people coming in the 50s (it was mid-50s Mirpur immigration started) got on with work. However, the Mirpur community does seem to have preserved unhealthy norms and as you say, dysfunction was evident by the 70s. It may not have resulted in crime before then but these attitudes must have had deeper roots.

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Carla786 · 10/02/2026 03:39

Octavia64 · 09/02/2026 13:32

I don’t know why but I could make some informed guesses.

firstly, I grew up in a northern mill town, there were many Pakistanis there. They were largely encouraged to get jobs at factories and mills etc and were scattered around the country.

many of the Afro Caribbean people who came were focused in London - and our media and government has always been very London focused.

secondly, many of the Afro Caribbean people who came had been educated and were expecting to be treated with respect in Britain and when they were not there were reactions.

the Pakistani people who came were generally not as educated and those who were often had English as second or third language. They were better off in Britain and were (largely) happy with how they were treated. (Please note I am not saying they were treated well, just that there were fewer protests, etc),

again for cultural reasons the Pakistani people largely got married, had children, lived within their own community. The West Indians less so - you can read articles from the 70s and 80s getting very worried about the mixed race marriages that were happening, and the number of children born outside marriage. These were considered signs of “social breakdown”.

at the time the Pakistani immigrants aligned better with the values then in play - get married, don’t have kids before marriage, don’t have affairs, don’t get divorced, and get a job and work hard.

Agree with all this.

Sadly ironic that mixed-race relationships were criticised then, but that greater cross-community relationships are a sign that the West Indian community as mixing more than the Pakistani community was.

And yes, as you say, Pakistanis may have been seen as better adapted then due to marrying, working etc. Apparently misogynistic customs, drug dealing etc were ignored since they mainly affected women in the community or poor working class white girls in the surrounding areas. Until the problems became too huge to be suppressed...

Yes, Pakistanis did face racism and violence but as you say they protested less for various reasons. So again they were seen as better kinds of immigrants possibly...

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Amerii · 10/02/2026 10:27

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:54

To be fair, if urban, educated Pakistanis have come from Lahore or Karachi then the picture would probably look different. It's the rural clan culture in places like Mirpur which is so dysfunctional.
If Hindu men had been brought from uneducated villages where women have low status then there might have been similar problems (not the same clan system though). There's clearly a severe problem of rape in Hindu-majority India now. The difference was that the Hindus & Sikhs who came here were urban & educated etc

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I’ve married into Sikh family. My grandfather in law was certainly not educated beyond primary school and maybe a few high school years. So dispute your argument that the underlying factor is urban vs rural. It’s simplistic and reductive imo.

What is far more pertinent is cultural attitudes towards women and consent.

From what I’ve observed Sikh women have far more parity in their marriages as they do not practice polygamy. They are able to have more influence generally speaking. The Islamic practice of having multiple wives is a means of controlling and disempowering women. It’s by design.

It’s also not accurate to say Sikhs who came to the UK were uniformly urban or educated, many were from rural backgrounds too. The difference isn’t city vs village, it’s gender norms and how women are viewed and treated.

And the idea that India has an “out of control” rape problem compared to everywhere else is a common misconception. On a per capita basis, India’s reported rape rate is actually lower than many Western countries (of course underreporting is an issue). It’s still a huge problem but I don’t think you are being entirely accurate in what you are saying.

I’ve spent 3 months living in India and dispute your characterisation of India having a severe rape problem. And question why you are pushing this agenda…

Amerii · 10/02/2026 10:40

why are Muslims overrepresented massively in prison populations? Like I said you can’t account for this solely due to racism.

We have to be able to say some cultural attitudes and behaviours need to be criticised and challenged.

To think the roots of the grooming gangs go back to failures from the 1950s on?
Skybunnee · 10/02/2026 12:49

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:57

Yes, and the problem is it's a specifically Mirpuri Pakistani problem because that's who we invited in back in the 50s and 60s. Why??

II don’t think we invited them -apart for some to work in the ?cotton mills in central England when they struggled to staff the low paid jobs, the rest came ,imv, once they realised what an amazing country the UK was - free education and healthcare, better pay, the brought over family ,spouses, everyone they could, before there were limits on immigration. I expect that stopping it would be obvious racism. So it was left to run..

ChestnutSquash · 10/02/2026 13:12

The millionaire with the mansion I mentioned earlier has a very small business... Everyone knows him, except the police.

TempestTost · 10/02/2026 13:23

It seems to be an issue wherever there is very strong tribalism that people bring with them.

That can be because of religious beliefs. You can see that historically wherever there was a group that would not intermarry for religious reasons, or create other strong ties outside the community. That does not always lead to criminal behaviour, but it very often can lead to social problems with the dominant group, especially as the religious group becomes more numerous.

Some religions also tend to reduce tribalism because the belief system is more universal. Christianity has typically had that effect to some extent which may be why people from the West Indies integrated more. Even when there were people who disapproved, there is nothing within the dominant Christian belief that really supports that, Christianity has always been racially diverse, and that tends to allow for things like intermarriage. Sikhism I think also tends to produce people who integrate well into western societies (maybe other societies too, I am not sure.)

Education and rural vs urban can be factors because exposure to more education tends to mitigate against tribalism and to some extent so can living in cities and also wealth. People become less parochial. That doesn't mean all poor, rural, uneducated people are tribalistic, but it does mean you may find those attitudes more commonly in those settings.

NotDavidTennant · 10/02/2026 13:30

Carla786 · 10/02/2026 01:02

My point is that the mid to late 1950s are when the Kasmir Mirpuri community were brought over who would cause (not all but many) these problems later.

There was very little thought apparently taken as to how well they would integrate : why?

By mid 1950s Britain was doing better, recovery from WW2 had progressed.

I suspect few people in the 50s thought that they would settle here permanently, or at least not in large numbers.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2026 13:33

Amerii · 10/02/2026 10:40

why are Muslims overrepresented massively in prison populations? Like I said you can’t account for this solely due to racism.

We have to be able to say some cultural attitudes and behaviours need to be criticised and challenged.

Yes, and if it is down to discrimination, which is a possibility, then surely that needs to be investigated and tackled? It’s a two way street. There’s a discrepancy and it needs to be looked at.

Agrumpyknitter · 10/02/2026 13:44

Carla786 · 09/02/2026 12:13

I agree re the grooming gangs specifically.

But the integration problems, forced marriages, honour killings et would have remained. The whole situation was a ticking time bomb for decades .

There's plenty if threads, rightly, discussing Phillips' et also responsibility.

I want this thread to focus on the pre-1997 period.

So what about the Indian population then. You mention how well the wind rush generation integrated and just ignored a large section of South Asians. Or are we all brown so it doesn’t matter?

What I think is most interesting is how some men have that predatory nature and anyone who shows any vulnerability gets targeted. We see that with the grooming gangs targeting white vulnerable women and white men who target white women for abuse. It may interest you that some muslim grooming gangs were operating in Southall targeting Sikh girls (and have been for a number of years) but no one really cared because they girls and brown. Also some of the policemen who were involved in helping those victims from the grooming gangs then went on to abuse those women because they were vulnerable. Men, but not all men.