Probably not the right topic for this thread, but for those who have divorced or separated from your DH’s after having children with them, how did you manage to get to that conclusion? I feel like me and my partner are both on different pages and I think the relationship has to end. But we are both so comfortable so it feels easier to stay, although I know this is the wrong choice. How did you actually pluck up the courage to call it quits, without feeling guilty or getting drawn back into it?