To be concerned that a Mum from another class is still in our class WhatsApp group?

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DC's in reception and at the start of the year I noticed a number in the class WhatsApp group whose name I didn't recognise. I assumed it was possibly a grandparent of one of DC's classmates, Anyway, I also felt it was a bit busybody-like to look into it especially as I'm not even a class rep so left it. Fast forward five months and after I posted in the group offering some items for a school activity, the mysterious number messaged me asking if I could pass them one. I joked that I hadn't met them yet and they said that their child is in one of the other Reception classes. I'm not sure what to make of it as although our class WhatsApp isn't very active, some parents do post photos of their children after a party and to me it just feels weird (with privacy concerns) that this mum is still in a class WhatsApp group when her DC isn't in it. My question is: is it something I should mention to a class rep as she's been in the group for almost half a year already. WWYD? AIBU to mention it to a class rep?

Is she a school mum with a reception age child but there is more than one class and they are in the other class? If so, no big deal. She probably thought others in her child's reception group might be interested as wel.

Who appoints these people? I retired from teaching 11 years ago. We didn't have WhatsApp groups or Class Reps. It was obviously the Dark Ages.

No idea why anyone epuld want to be in the playground mummy mafia WhatsApp groups!

Exactly this - I feel like I live on another planet sometimes with posts like these. Get a hobby.

Me too, the level of drama. So unwarranted. All that’s required if there is any concern, is hey who is this to the class rep.

Thank God it’s not just me..

Maybe her own class doesn't have one, or she can't work out who the parent who runs it is to ask to join?

They are not run by schools are they? Parents set them up themselves so you need to know who's set it up to join.

Is that in response to me l? 😂 I've never been called a lazy, misogynistic idiot before but I guess there's a first for everything. But of a leap to make after one comment though...

The idea that people are posting things that are ok for parents of one class to see, but not ok for parents of another class in the same year group in the same school to see is very concerning. Also aren't their lots of things the classes do together and so parties etc that might involve lots of children from both classes, therefore useful to have all the parents on?!

Haven’t read all the replies, sorry
personally I wouldn’t have an issue with it, from my understanding of what you’ve written, she’s a mum in the same year group as you.

as a now retired teacher, it’s quite common to have 2/3 reception classes, I suppose it depends on your school and local authorities. But it’s quite common to have a whole year group on one WhatsApp…it means that reps etc can cover for each other, saves keep writing the same message etc. it’s quite good for whole group reminders etc and of course anything like homework you don’t understand.

are you new to the school? Does your school have a school nursery? Very often the mums know each other well from school nursery, they just get split into different classes for reception, but the mums know each other and the kids well.

tbh if you’re concerned that “a random mum”
is on the WhatsApp , I’d question what are you putting on there. Teachers aren’t stupid, they know there’s more to the WhatsApp groups other than when’s mufti day or where is my child’s missing jumper…but tbh as long as you’re sticking to those types of conversations, you shouldn’t have to worry about any mum in WhatsApp groups.

A couple of parents volunteer to do it when the children start in reception and then at the end of every school year, the class reps will mention if they're happy to stay on or would like to step down. If they are stepping down they'll ask in the class whats app group for volunteers for the following school year.

Agree totally.

My son was in a prep school from age 3 to 13. Small cosy prep, 40 ish kids, about 30 were together all the way through so 10 years of school. Friends with many of the parents and we all know each other and the kids pretty well.
Kids are Y11 now but the group is still going with the odd message and we have occasional meet ups.
there’s a mum whose boy left in year 2 so this would have been in probably 2017 and she’s still on it and reading messages. I cannot understand why and it does bother me!