Thanks all for your good wishes, I'm quite a bit better and getting past whatever it was. Normally I'd have thought it was not worth bothering about but I've had dire warnings re any sign of infection, because sepsis can recur in the months/years after recovery. However, I'm now more poorly toadlet than diseased bullfrog so fingers crossed!
Thanks @IvyGoldenM for that insightful post. I believe that the complacence around TSP scandal in some quarters does reflect a wider malaise around truth and accountability. I'm sure I'm not the only one who is depressed by what the Epstein files have shown, that powerful rich men still see women as nothing more than meat and I don't see the full reckoning that should happen coming to pass, sadly. Power and ego, sex and money.
On a different level (of course), in a different way, it's happening with Raymoth. The struggle of victims to have their voices heard and get any kind of justice is overwhelmed by vested interest and the protection that money and fame can give people who have something to hide. That is the equivalence and in their case propped up by the fatuous 'be kind' mantra and accusations that any criticism must be inspired by 'jealousy'. It is brainless pap and fewer people need to fall for it
as @HatStickBoots said
“As with most people’s lives, there will always be someone willing to criticise you, that’s part of life.”
I resent this sort of statement. You hear this sort of thing a lot from people who try to justify their actions by inventing a pretence that there are people who have an agenda to discredit other people, no matter what they do. She makes it sound as though the world is full of petty minded people who have nothing better to do than make someone else’s life miserable just because they feel like it.