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Vegan baby

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Expecteddeclathon · 01/02/2026 23:55

In your opinion, is it ok for a baby to be vegan from weaning (6 months)?

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Christmasinmecar · 02/02/2026 11:03

katepilar · 02/02/2026 10:50

How can gathering of someones milk be not exploitative? Its not like the goat is handing it over, is it.

It would be cruel not to milk the goat though. But like cows if they aren't put into calve they will stop producing milk but then people will moan no beef cattle,
Animals can't win either way as they are controlled by another animal - humans.

Twolargewatersplease · 02/02/2026 11:04

FrodoBiggins · 02/02/2026 00:49

Classified by who? Of course it's dairy, it's milk.
I'm really not trying to make an anti vegan point btw. I think veganism is good and I also think a breastfed baby is vegan for the same reason others said - human milk is for humans.
But breastmilk is dairy because it's milk. Dairy isn't a word for industrial farming practices. For example my niece has PKU so can't safely have a number of food groups without a supplement. One is dairy and that includes breast milk.

Also OPs breast milk isn't vegan because she's vegan - otherwise a cow's milk would be vegan! It's vegan to feed it to her own baby because it's ethically compatible with veganism, imo.

The word 'Dairy' means bovine milk my definition. It originates from the Middle English deierie or daierie (circa 1300), which meant a dairy farm or building for making butter and cheese. Goats milk is now also classed as dairy for these reasons, however with the exception of a few sick fucks people, we do not do this with human milk.

Human milk is not dairy.

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 11:05

katepilar · 02/02/2026 10:50

How can gathering of someones milk be not exploitative? Its not like the goat is handing it over, is it.

‘Exploitative’ definition: making use of a situation or treating others unfairly in order to gain an advantage or benefit.

If you give an animal food, medical care and a warm shed in exchange for their excess milk - who’s gaining the advantage or benefit?

Scarlettpixie · 02/02/2026 11:05

Poetnojo · 01/02/2026 23:55

Is human milk considered vegan?

Yes 🙄

Twolargewatersplease · 02/02/2026 11:08

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 11:05

‘Exploitative’ definition: making use of a situation or treating others unfairly in order to gain an advantage or benefit.

If you give an animal food, medical care and a warm shed in exchange for their excess milk - who’s gaining the advantage or benefit?

Have you ever seen footage of a typical dairy farm? Or same of a cow crying out for their calf as it is snatched away, frantically screaming and sniffing the leftover placenta (as often this occurs with their calf from birth), in the horrific traumatic moment hopeful that somehow this didn't just happen, how can their baby just be gone?

Ignorance truly is bliss for some.

mypantsareonfire · 02/02/2026 11:10

Twolargewatersplease · 02/02/2026 11:08

Have you ever seen footage of a typical dairy farm? Or same of a cow crying out for their calf as it is snatched away, frantically screaming and sniffing the leftover placenta (as often this occurs with their calf from birth), in the horrific traumatic moment hopeful that somehow this didn't just happen, how can their baby just be gone?

Ignorance truly is bliss for some.

Then don’t drink milk if you don’t like the way it’s produced. Job done.

Dairy farms will always exist.

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 11:13

Twolargewatersplease · 02/02/2026 11:08

Have you ever seen footage of a typical dairy farm? Or same of a cow crying out for their calf as it is snatched away, frantically screaming and sniffing the leftover placenta (as often this occurs with their calf from birth), in the horrific traumatic moment hopeful that somehow this didn't just happen, how can their baby just be gone?

Ignorance truly is bliss for some.

I live in a farming area. Please don’t insult my farmer friends by misrepresenting what happens. They are not removed permanently- have you not seen cows in the fields with their calves? It’s not me that’s ignorant.

Iamcatmum · 02/02/2026 11:16

ShawnaMacallister · 02/02/2026 07:27

It doesn't really need 'careful planning'. People always say this as if the vegan parent doesn't already 'carefully plan' all the food they buy and eat. It goes with the territory of being vegan. It takes a non fussy child and a lot of luck IMO to raise a healthy vegan child.

Yes, actually it does actually need careful planning for a growing and developing infant. There are many adult vegans who don’t plan carefully and just eat UPFs and fake meat products. Vegan doesn’t automatically make you healthy.

OtterlyAstounding · 02/02/2026 11:17

Twolargewatersplease · 02/02/2026 11:08

Have you ever seen footage of a typical dairy farm? Or same of a cow crying out for their calf as it is snatched away, frantically screaming and sniffing the leftover placenta (as often this occurs with their calf from birth), in the horrific traumatic moment hopeful that somehow this didn't just happen, how can their baby just be gone?

Ignorance truly is bliss for some.

I'm not sure why people always assume ignorance.

I've lived on dairy farms before, and I can't say I've ever seen that, although calves are generally brought to the shed to be checked in a warm, clean environment and given colostrum.

Megifer · 02/02/2026 11:17

I think its fine to feed your baby what you want diet wise as long as its healthy and they are thriving.

I dont think its ok to prevent them from wanting to try new things if they want as they get older. I had a vegan friend go berserk at her DS for trying a tuna sandwich at a school buffet, the DS loved it, mum was, I quote "heartbroken" and refused to prepare any non vegan food the DS wanted to try 🙄 thats really not on, id even say its a form of abuse tbh.

Whatoflife · 02/02/2026 11:17

CrackInTheGlass · 02/02/2026 00:40

So you don’t think for a second that your child should be allowed their own choice? I’m vegetarian (21 years). DD (14) was never brought up that way. Wasn’t my choice to make. She wasn’t baptised either, again not my choice to make. Why can’t you allow your child the freedom of their own choices when they’re old enough to understand instead of making it for them? I buy and cook meat for my DD, on different oven trays and plates. I don’t think a baby can possibly understand the issues that you have. As an individual person give them everything and let them make their own choices. Wasn’t difficult for me to do, but then again I don’t shove any beliefs I have down people’s necks, or impose them on someone who can’t consent. It’s not up to you to determine what your child can and can’t eat. That’s ridiculous. You are choosing for them and that’s not fair.

You choose literally everything for your baby/child - diet whether it’s good/bad/veg/meat, playgroups, school, physical activities, clothes, religion, parenting methods, tv, tech etc etc. Diet is a part of that. Ofc as they get older they make their own age appropriate decisions.

Littlemann · 02/02/2026 11:18

If you have any concerns about nutrition for your baby, The Vegan Society do a supplement https://www.vegansociety.com/shop/veg-1-supplements/veg-1-baby-toddler
I haven't bought it myself, I just know they sell it.

There is so much ignorance around veganism, as shown in this thread. The people talking about "choice" make me laugh! If your child wants to contribute to animal suffering when they're older, they're welcome to. But I think you're right to bring them up vegan, rather than force them to commit animal cruelty against animals (who also have no choice).

mypantsareonfire · 02/02/2026 11:21

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 11:13

I live in a farming area. Please don’t insult my farmer friends by misrepresenting what happens. They are not removed permanently- have you not seen cows in the fields with their calves? It’s not me that’s ignorant.

The previous comment sounds like it’s straight off the leaflets that PETA used to produce.

Christmasinmecar · 02/02/2026 11:22

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 10:32

In answer to your question OP, no I don’t think you should be imposing a belief system on a baby regarding something as important as nutrition.

But a baby relies on being fed with milk /food to help it thrive and grow. It can't make it's own choices like that.
Those choices are made as it grows up. I became veggie at 5 and totally refused meat or fish, it drove my mum to despair and when I became vegan at 15 she was so used to my 'strange diet' she gave up.

BillieWiper · 02/02/2026 11:25

Poetnojo · 02/02/2026 00:07

But it's still mammalian milk.
Cows are vegan so is their milk also vegan by that logic

Yeah I was going to say that. Most of the animals we eat or have milk from naturally only eat plants. So all milk is vegan?

SusanChurchouse · 02/02/2026 11:27

I like Unnatural Vegan on YouTube. She has raised her 3 kids vegan, and is pretty clued up on nutrition. Her argument is that she doesn’t want them to grow up and feel upset they have contributed to animal suffering. Many veggies and vegans feel guilt about having eaten animals in the past. She is honest about the challenges though, at one point saying being a vegan kid in an omnivorous society can kind of suck.

Dairy isn’t a necessity. Plenty of cultures don’t drink cows milk. Over half of adults globally are lactose intolerant. FWIW, my kids are both omnivorous and big fans of meat and I still have to supplement with vitamins as their diets are so limited. Despite being offered a wide variety of foods as babies and toddlers.

Charity322 · 02/02/2026 11:28

My brother and sister in law are vegan and when both my nieces were born they weighed up the nutrition of both vegan and non vegan formula (my sister in law couldn't breastfeed) and went with the non vegan one. Since weaning my older niece has been completely vegan (younger one still has milk). So, I'd research what's best for your child.

And breastmilk is vegan because the 'animal' gave consent to their milk being used. Cows can't give consent.

StiffAsAVicar · 02/02/2026 11:28

maudelovesharold · 02/02/2026 00:10

I think it’s the exploitation of the cows that’s the problem, rather than the composition of their milk.

then just say you’re an ethical eater, not vegan. the baby is not vegan if it’s being breastfed lol.

ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 02/02/2026 11:29

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 10:40

Genuine question (prompted by a comment from a vegan friend), why would vegans rather use plastic goods - ‘vegan leather’, plastic fibre instead of down filled coats, acrylic or polyester instead of wool etc if the belief system is mean to be environmentally friendly? The plastic alternatives don’t last as long and are not repairable either.

I would imagine it's because they're vegan for the animals first and the planet second. It's not rocket science.

Or you could actually ask your friend?

itsthetea · 02/02/2026 11:30

StiffAsAVicar · 02/02/2026 11:28

then just say you’re an ethical eater, not vegan. the baby is not vegan if it’s being breastfed lol.

That so misunderstands what veganism is

not that I’d be happy with a young child on a vegan diet - am I correct in thinking they advise brestfeeeding continues until about age 2 in that situation

K0OLA1D · 02/02/2026 11:31

StiffAsAVicar · 02/02/2026 11:28

then just say you’re an ethical eater, not vegan. the baby is not vegan if it’s being breastfed lol.

🤣🤣🤣

Fucking hell. So bloody confidently wrong

paulhollywoodshairgel · 02/02/2026 11:32

I met a girl in baby group. She weaned her baby on a vegan diet and he nearly died of malnutrition. I think you have to be very careful. Babies need fats and calcium and protein to grow. But I guess if you’re already a vegan you know how to get those things other ways?

ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 02/02/2026 11:33

BundleBoogie · 02/02/2026 10:55

I’m not clear how replacing fully biodegradable products like down, leather, silk, wool with plastic is for the benefit of the environment.

Does that mean that it’s ok for a vegan to eat eggs from pet hens? If they are unfertilised, they will just go to waste. It could be a nutritional option for OPs baby?

I'd imagine not because hens can (and do) eat their own eggs. In fact, a number of hen owners scramble the eggs for them to eat back up.

Bloozie · 02/02/2026 11:33

I have to say that moving to a house in front of a dairy farm has made me feel very uncomfortable about cow's milk. The bellowing at milking time, the number of cows that are lame and hobble and drag themselves in to be milked, the massively swollen udders that make their gait slow and unnatural... When you see it every day, it's not nice. I eat meat, but I do consume much less cheese and no milk or yoghurt at all as a result.