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Worried about my best friend who ghosted me

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ThatLilacHedgehog · 01/02/2026 23:41

My best friend won’t respond to any of my messages, it’s been two days and she deleted her pictures from Facebook. She has a boyfriend so was thinking maybe they broke up? But also I’m worried I’ve done something wrong. It’s so unlike her, she usually replies immediately

Am i being unreasonable in worrying? What do you think is a possible reason for this?

OP posts:
FallingSlower · 01/02/2026 23:43

Why would you think it was anything to do with you? It’s been two days!

ThatLilacHedgehog · 01/02/2026 23:45

FallingSlower · 01/02/2026 23:43

Why would you think it was anything to do with you? It’s been two days!

I just worry. It’s so unlike her, she replies immediately and we talk all the time. She’s been online also

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Lizzbear · 01/02/2026 23:56

I don’t know. Could you go to see her if that’s possible, to check she’s ok?

FallingSlower · 02/02/2026 00:06

ThatLilacHedgehog · 01/02/2026 23:45

I just worry. It’s so unlike her, she replies immediately and we talk all the time. She’s been online also

Have you phoned her?

BlackCatDiscoClub · 02/02/2026 00:09

If you can go round I'd visit her. She can only tell you to go away, but in that case you'd find out it was you! Most likely a break up and shes feeling like shit and doesn't want to talk to anyone. Take some treats and snacks or wine if shes that kind of person and find out.

Snappyg666 · 02/02/2026 00:15

Do you know her family?

PollyBell · 02/02/2026 00:28

Maybe she has a reason to block you? you are coming across as intense

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 02/02/2026 00:28

id get a mutual friend to check in, or contact her bf or mum

toomuchfaff · 02/02/2026 11:06

What have you done - to believe its something to do with you?

I mean if a friend of mine didn't reply for 2 days - my goto would be she is busy; not seen the message - not WHY IS SHE GHOSTING ME???

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