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SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:41

Giggorata · 01/02/2026 19:27

So what was supposed to be on Radio 4? I've just looked and it seems to be the Archers. Have I got it confused with something else?

I'm not really called Giggorata, and I'm neither wicked nor a cannibal.Usually.

I’m not really called Sabrina Thwaite.

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 19:42

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:41

I’m not really called Sabrina Thwaite.

Guess you had to be there

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:44

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 19:42

Guess you had to be there

Long standing silent character on The Archers.

You lot are philistines.

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 19:44

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:44

Long standing silent character on The Archers.

You lot are philistines.

Or maybe we don’t live in the UK

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:49

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 19:44

Or maybe we don’t live in the UK

You’ve missed out.

It’s the world’s longest running drama.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 01/02/2026 19:50

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:49

You’ve missed out.

It’s the world’s longest running drama.

Started as a farming education series didn’t it, wrapped up as drama?

BeanQuisine · 01/02/2026 19:50

@Another2Cats

You really must learn to accept that not everybody has the same opinions that you consider to be the "right" or "correct" opinions. And that they are not wrong for holding those opinions.

On the other hand, you clearly believe the view you've expressed above is right, and those who disagree are wrong. Indeed, there's little point defending your views against those who oppose them, unless you believe you're right and they're wrong.

And not everything is "relative": many views are objectively right, and many objectively wrong. The Earth really is round, not flat. The idea that men literally are women if they "identify" as such, is objectively wrong.

And the ethical implications of people's opinions are seldom "neutral". It's unreasonable to expect people of differing views to get along amicably when some people's views are disrespectful of basic human rights, for example.

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:56

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 01/02/2026 19:50

Started as a farming education series didn’t it, wrapped up as drama?

Lost the education remit in 1972.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 01/02/2026 19:57

Tableforjoan · 01/02/2026 19:40

I mean Mumsnet is today’s Eastenders is it not.

Some people do seem to get easily confused between the two judging by the amount of next installment please "any update yet OP?" posts when someone is potentially going through one of the worst times of their life.

Boiledbeetle · 01/02/2026 20:00

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 19:44

Long standing silent character on The Archers.

You lot are philistines.

I'll be honest, I haven't listened to the Archers since we got a television in 1978.

But at least I now know where your username comes from.

Tableforjoan · 01/02/2026 20:04

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 01/02/2026 19:57

Some people do seem to get easily confused between the two judging by the amount of next installment please "any update yet OP?" posts when someone is potentially going through one of the worst times of their life.

True some are too innocent and fail to see let’s face it half the posts are likely bored troll/rage bait/traffic building.

People get far too emotionally invested.

Some posts will be true yet moving madly
fast and others are just to drum up clicks likes and the daily mail posting to get more people clicking over.

Alltheyellowbirds · 01/02/2026 20:11

So what happened at 7pm on the radio? Did anybody listen?

FuckOffMadison · 01/02/2026 20:15

This place is going to end up as Twitter isn't it Sad Just dead because everyone has flown.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/02/2026 20:22

Another2Cats · 01/02/2026 19:30

I am neither American nor Russian (although I do know people - and have extended family - from both those countries).

"...recent traffic defending ICE."

It appears that you likely do not agree with what is happening in the USA at the moment with the removal of illegal immigrants.

It is perfectly fine to hold those beliefs and to advance your views. However, it is also perfectly fine to hold opposing beliefs and to advance those views as well.

Many people live in "bubbles" where they generally just interact with people in a similar situation to themselves who hold similar views to themselves.

Sometimes, when people are exposed to views outside of their bubble, they can be shocked that people hold views that are different from them and their friends.

For example, there has been a pp on this thread that referred to the Feminism: Sex and gender discussions board as "horrific". But there are also those here that will staunchly defend that board.

But, that is just life. You really cannot expect to be insulated from views that do not tally entirely with your own.

Just because other posters have different views to your own that does not make them "bots" or any sort "...ist" or any sort of "...phobic".

You really must learn to accept that not everybody has the same opinions that you consider to be the "right" or "correct" opinions. And that they are not wrong for holding those opinions.

Edited

Well, that's the thing.

People have different opinions.

But what we don't want is to have some random private equity firm providing identifying information and opinions to whoever pays them the most.

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 20:23

FuckOffMadison · 01/02/2026 20:15

This place is going to end up as Twitter isn't it Sad Just dead because everyone has flown.

Edited

Engagement is dropping by the month

CarefullyCuratedFurniture · 01/02/2026 20:25

nOlives · 01/02/2026 18:42

I'd worry most about it being bought by a rich TRA.
I don't need doxed and all that has come with that for many brave women and men in recent years.

Fuck it, dox me if you want. I am long past caring!

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 20:26

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 20:23

Engagement is dropping by the month

The constant intrusive moving ads has made the site very hard to use.

Tableforjoan · 01/02/2026 20:26

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 20:23

Engagement is dropping by the month

The “small” changes.

The colour, the paid for section, the extra adds, then the huge we see you have an add blocker.

Which btw Apple will also block.

Just getting ready to show how valuable it is to sell it off. Give us back the old colours if you pay, laugh emoji if you pay and so on.

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 20:29

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 20:26

The constant intrusive moving ads has made the site very hard to use.

Duck Duck Go resolves that problem

SabrinaThwaite · 01/02/2026 20:32

JaneJeffer · 01/02/2026 20:29

Duck Duck Go resolves that problem

It does indeed.

Occasionally I’ll look at MN on my laptop (not on DuckDuckGo), which still has the fecking enormous ads. I just drape socks over the relevant areas.

InterestedDad37 · 01/02/2026 20:32

cramptramp · 01/02/2026 17:09

Don’t forget Chris Peacock!

Is there a P. Nisbeaker? 🙂

Starseeking · 01/02/2026 20:40

I expect new owners will move to a subscription only model, £4.99 per month or something. The SaaS model is such an easy and simple revenue stream for PE investors, if you can get it right.

P.S. I am no longer Seeking Stars.

magimedi · 01/02/2026 20:58

Will be de registering before the sale.

PS I am not one of the three wise men!

Argh567 · 01/02/2026 20:59

And btw, I can't blame Justine for wanting to cash up, she has been involved for a long time.

But perhaps there is a pension fund that does private investments or similar ie someone with a longer-term outlook than your bog standard PE fund?

God forbid it is Macquarie or similar... #vampirekangaroo

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 01/02/2026 21:05

Tableforjoan · 01/02/2026 20:26

The “small” changes.

The colour, the paid for section, the extra adds, then the huge we see you have an add blocker.

Which btw Apple will also block.

Just getting ready to show how valuable it is to sell it off. Give us back the old colours if you pay, laugh emoji if you pay and so on.

They better not remove the old colours again. I love my green/purple posts and those pastels gave me a headache.

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