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Did I have enough space to reverse

258 replies

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:43

Big white van was parked where the green dots are. I was parked where the red dots were.

I was trying to reverse but I couldn't. Van driver moved a little but then said I had enough room to get out. I honestly don't know if I'm just a bad driver or I needed that much space. He ended up moving and I got out.

Did I have enough space to reverse
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ThisSassyHam · 01/02/2026 20:29

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:48

Why reverse park... It doesn't change the shape of the car.

No but it changes the angles and turning circle making it easier to get out if you reverse in.

Welshmonster · 01/02/2026 20:32

Reverse park always. Reason being that if your car is hit while you are reversing out of a space the fault is deemed to be yours by insurance company. Happened to a friend and it wasn’t even her fault as the other guy was disqualified but because she was reversing out it wasn’t even her fault!

also better visibility. We just used to chuck car in headfirst but my husband had the scare of his life as a kid was scooting past and was tiny. He nearly hit him while reversing out. Parent got a big shock as kid wasn’t listening to them as they were telling him to stop.
now we always reverse park. It takes no extra time at all and saves time in long run when in rush in morning.

also you could probably reverse a bus out of there with all that room 😂

Noodles1234 · 01/02/2026 20:39

If you reverse oark it would be easier to get out as your moveable wheels are at the front and easier to manoeuvre out.

However I think that would be tight and the van driver should have been more respectful and moved quicker as that isnt a parked Bay Area. If you had a Smart Car it might be easier, but a larger car no.

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 01/02/2026 20:54

Still a bit confused where the van was. The green dots suggest it was a triangle shaped van! Was he parked into the road?? If not then there’s a whole road width to reverse out? If he was parked into the road then I can see why the angle may have been tricky

Bombinia · 01/02/2026 20:55

Blimey OP I have a huge SUV and I could easily reverse out of those spaces, it's shocking that you couldn't! I'm not sure you should be driving at all if you can't get out of a parking space. And to say reversing is frightening...😯

I think you should get some driving lessons pronto

Plmnki · 01/02/2026 20:55

Why reverse park? You don’t understand the concept that the car has steering only at one end? That it’s it far far easier to reverse-park? Did you not get taught to reverse park and parallel park when you got your licence?

PloddingAlong21 · 01/02/2026 20:59

Is this a wind up? There is heaps of space to reverse out and the questions and lack of understanding to loads of people’s comments can’t be real?

PurpleFlower1983 · 01/02/2026 21:00

Plenty of room.

Liverpool52 · 01/02/2026 21:01

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 14:42

Reversing is frightening lol

So you'd rather reverse out on to a road with traffic coming from both directions than into a set space.

momager22 · 01/02/2026 21:07

Unless you have a very long estate car you should have been fine - maybe a bit of back and forth needed.
I’m confused though - Are you saying if the van wasn’t there, that you would have reversed up over the kerb/ pavement on the other side of the road ?

DurinsBane · 01/02/2026 21:39

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:48

Why reverse park... It doesn't change the shape of the car.

Because it makes it easier and safer to drive out rather than reserve out. That is why some business car parks mandate reversing into spaces

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 01/02/2026 21:46

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:48

Why reverse park... It doesn't change the shape of the car.

Reversing into a space is safer, and as there is nothing either side of you at that point, your swing round is free of obstacles. If you drive into a space, when you leave you will then need to reverse in a straight line before swinging left or right, and therefore you need more space behind you.
It’s much the easier option whatever the size of your car, and if your car is big, it’s definitely a no brainer!

DurinsBane · 01/02/2026 22:03

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:50

Yeah but then you have to reverse in....and that causes issues as well. I have no issues reversing out as disability to clear from where I'm sitting and I have reversing sensors. I find it easier just to swing in..

If you have reversing sensors then you shouldn’t have had any problems getting out at all

Imisssleep88 · 02/02/2026 07:56

Unless you were driving a bus or a coach I would say that is definitely enough space, if reversing one way is a bit tight due to cars next to you, just reverse the other way and then turn round in a bigger space further down the road if it leaves you traveling in the opposite way you need to go.

Patchworkquilts · 02/02/2026 08:49

yes definitely enough space to get out of any of those parking spots.
you saying you like “to swing in” suggests you don’t like maneuvering, but maneuvering is part of parking. Sorry op if you struggled to get out of any of those parking spots you are bad at parking.

SDRock · 02/02/2026 08:55

YourJadeSquid · 31/01/2026 12:48

Why reverse park... It doesn't change the shape of the car.

Because you can get a tighter turn when going forwards, when reversing you cannot get a full lock on the wheel until you have already partly exited the space due to the cars parked either side. I still temember my dad telling me this all those years ago. He also said you never knew when you may need a quick getaway 😂

CompanyOfThieves · 02/02/2026 09:01

Yet another
"AIBU?"
Yes you are.
"But I'm not"

NoWordForFluffy · 02/02/2026 09:04

CompanyOfThieves · 02/02/2026 09:01

Yet another
"AIBU?"
Yes you are.
"But I'm not"

I'm still wondering which of the 3 marked parking spaces she was in! 🤣

BudgetBuster · 02/02/2026 09:06

NoWordForFluffy · 02/02/2026 09:04

I'm still wondering which of the 3 marked parking spaces she was in! 🤣

By the "Swing In" I'd say diagonal across the three!

NoWordForFluffy · 02/02/2026 09:07

BudgetBuster · 02/02/2026 09:06

By the "Swing In" I'd say diagonal across the three!

🙈🤣

I'm beginning to think there's some truth in this!

VWT7 · 02/02/2026 09:13

From a book I read for safety/lone women -

Reverse in - to allow for an unhindered exit later.
Have car keys in hand on approaching vehicle - for rapid access if needed.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 02/02/2026 09:42

cardibach · 31/01/2026 13:09

Sensible drivers always reverse into parking spaces because it is always easier to maneuver out forwards rather than backwards. Unconfident drivers who shouldn't really be on the roads prefer to go into a space forwards and hope that nothing will happen to make skilful manoeuvring or a clear view necessary
This is utter bollocks. I’m a good and confident driver. My experience of driving since 1982 (no accidents) has led me to prefer going in forwards - and for some things (eg supermarket or IKEA trip) it’s essential. Dont be so superior and condescending

It is however undeniable that it is always much easier and safer when parking if the bit of the car that steers is the last bit to enter the space, unless the spaces are angled specifically to encourage forwards parking. But, you don’t see many of those now as they are more dangerous for pedestrians. Entering a space as pictured in the original post forwards either means parking crooked, swinging all the way across the other side of the road to line up for entry or multiple reverse shuffle manoeuvres to straighten the car up - or, a combination of all three, unless you just abandon it. Likewise parallel parking by going in forwards either means bumping up on the kerb or taking up more space than necessary. Neither of which are traits of a good or considerate driver ;)

RachTheAlpaca · 02/02/2026 09:48

I'm a nervous car-parker and I'd have no trouble with this, there's masses of space there to get out. An average car park at your local aldi would have cars parked much closer behind you than that.
Have you thought about the pass plus driving lessons?

AlbieJiggered · 02/02/2026 10:33

DurinsBane · 01/02/2026 22:03

If you have reversing sensors then you shouldn’t have had any problems getting out at all

They're not 100% reliable. Colleague's DS reversed into something because the sensor had mud on it.

I pp about nearly being hit by a car where the driver was not looking. Many have pp have said that the problem when reversing is that you don't have a clear view of where you are going.

Would a sensor detect a small child or dog?

cardibach · 02/02/2026 11:16

Tryingtokeepgoing · 02/02/2026 09:42

It is however undeniable that it is always much easier and safer when parking if the bit of the car that steers is the last bit to enter the space, unless the spaces are angled specifically to encourage forwards parking. But, you don’t see many of those now as they are more dangerous for pedestrians. Entering a space as pictured in the original post forwards either means parking crooked, swinging all the way across the other side of the road to line up for entry or multiple reverse shuffle manoeuvres to straighten the car up - or, a combination of all three, unless you just abandon it. Likewise parallel parking by going in forwards either means bumping up on the kerb or taking up more space than necessary. Neither of which are traits of a good or considerate driver ;)

I parallel park in reverse - and I live in a terraced house with no driveway or garage so I do it a lot. It’s not a skill or confidence issue. I don’t think I’d need multiple straightening out attempts with the spaces shown there if I went in forwards. A bit of a swing, yes, but I’d wait until it was clear so not inconsiderate or unsafe.